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In love, there are usually three kinds of love: one is to love each other, one is to love others, and the other is to be loved.
★ Fall in love
The love that can love each other is naturally happy,
Among the ways love exists, love is the most enviable one.
When people give affection, they always want to get a response from the other party. And love is two-way, interactive. Because there is interaction, it is not cold, two people have love in each other's hearts, and they have the happiness of two feelings.
The best love in the world is that two people can love each other. Regardless of status, regardless of status, regardless of wealth, as long as there is love in each other's hearts, the hearts can be abundant and full.
Love in love, for both men and women, is the basis for marriage. Because they are in love, marriage will be the best ending. Of course, there are also people who love each other all their lives and have not entered into marriage, but that is a minority after all.
Most men and women who love each other and are single will regard marriage as the destination of love. Those who only want to be in love and don't want to get married are after all a minority.
The love of love, after all, is to stay together for a lifetime. Although I know that marriage may be cumbersome, I still can't stop the yearning of people who love each other for marriage. That's because only marriage is the ultimate guarantee of love. After all, the "power" of that proof is still infinite.
Love is romantic, marriage is sacred. Although the love of love is sweet, it is ultimately insecure. Although it is possible to divorce when you are married, because there are too many things involved in marriage, divorce is far less crisp and painful than the breakup when you are in love.
But because of the guarantee of marriage, people's hearts will be much more stable. This is the effect that marriage gives to people, and it is also an account of their love for those who love each other. After all, the love of love, only implemented in marriage, is the most perfect.
★ Lover
Lovers do not mean partners, but the ability to fall in love with someone. Love is a verb, lover, is to take the initiative to fall in love with a person.
Among the ways love exists, the lover is the hardest one. Because the person you love may not love you, of course, in the love of love, there must also be the ability to love, that is because both people have love interaction.
But what if it's just one party's love? That is incomplete love. Especially the situation that you love him, but he does not love you, is even more sad.
You have the power to love that person, but that person doesn't love you. Such pain is what a person bears, but it is actually the least worth paying.
But often, love is a very difficult to say clear behavior, love, or IQ will lose its effect, only rely on their own inner feelings to do it.
It's not wrong to love someone, but whether that result is what you want is a question worth thinking about.
Loving people is an ability, and having ability is naturally a good thing, but the effect of this ability may often backfire.
The hardships and pains of love are often most prominently reflected in this link.
I am not opposed to the possibility of loving a man who does not love himself, but there must be a deadline, because a person's youth cannot afford to be delayed. If you don't get the results you want within the limited time, give up. Love without interaction is not so happy and joyful after all.
★ Be loved
Some people say that being loved is bliss. In fact, this is only half right, the happiness of being loved is because you happen to love that person as well. If you are only loved, but you don't love each other yourself, then this love is sometimes painful.
Being loved without interaction is actually a kind of pressure and a burden. People will always bear the pain of being loved invisibly.
If, the person who loves you, knows that you don't love, he can still love you silently, but not disturb, or you can accept this state. But if he can't help it because of love, turning love into entanglement, it is actually a terrible thing.
It can be seen that being loved is also divided into two aspects: either happiness or pain. The outcome depends on the attitude of the beloved person.
Therefore, the three ways of love existence, except for the first one is sweet, the other two, in fact, really taste, are somewhat bitter. The taste of this may only be understood by those who have experienced it.