Divorced women, more experienced, will also look at men with more mature eyes, they will no longer believe the man's rhetoric, will only believe what they see with their own eyes.
A hundred sweet words before going to bed is not worth a deep kiss. When a man loves you, he will do it for you, and only when he loses interest in you will he just say sweet things to you.
He said to help you do housework, but every day when he came home, he still slept upside down, he said that he would wash your feet every day, but after getting married, he repeatedly resigned: Oh, it is still so troublesome, wouldn't it be better to wash it yourself.
Divorced women will advise you as a comer not to listen to what the man says, and to see for yourself that he is not doing enough of these things.
Enough to be considerate of you
He told you he would take care of you, you were with him, you didn't have to carry the bucket alone, the light bulb at home was broken, a phone call would arrive, and in the winter you were cold, and he would bring you food to your house.
In the summer, you are afraid of the sun, no problem, he sends you ice cold watermelon, this is the man who will be considerate of you. Men who can only talk sweetly, when you have a cold, will only tell you to drink more boiled water, and complain that you are always disobedient and always love to eat spicy things.
The sewers are blocked, he says your single experience is experienced and will definitely fix, and he reluctantly hands you a wrench. Such a man can really make women live quite tired.
Not enough to value you
Did he consider your opinion every time, did he take you seriously? This is very important, if your ideas are never valued by him during the relationship, after marriage, your status will not be very high.
He always said, just be a little woman. Everything you do, he has to decide, arrange for you, don't think that he is a domineering president-style spoiled.
He just wants to possess you, love or not, who knows? You just want him to love you and give you respect and freedom. You don't want to be a little woman, you need to be valued.
Will it always be for your sake?
Whether a man will think of you is evidence that he loves you, you can always receive gifts from his business trip, because even if he is far away from you, he will think of you in his heart.
He works overtime at night and will notify you in advance, and when he sees your missed call, he will call you back. No matter what you do, he will always think of you.
If he doesn't think about you, then your life will only be very wronged. To be honest, he never buys you a dress or a gift for you on a wedding anniversary, and as a woman, really fails.
Will it be paid for you
Giving is always mutual, but a woman always wants a man to give more to show his love. In fact, women are not greedy, as long as men can pay, although in reality women always pay more.
He will travel thousands of miles to your city, and he will spend the youngest years of his youth waiting for you. He saved a drawer for you to cross most of China, save a drawer for your tickets and plane tickets, and finally you married into his home, and he said that he would definitely take care of you for a lifetime.