We entered the temple of marriage in the sweetness of love, but marriage shattered many of our original beautiful visions in real life, we were tired, we were bored, and finally one day, our minds jumped out of the two words "divorce".
But after the "divorce", can you find someone to marry again and not get tired of it for a lifetime? No one can guarantee it.
Marriage is not a child's play, and a good marriage requires us to have a reverential heart at all times.
Before divorce, we should at least think about the relevant issues clearly, and then leave before it is too late. In this way, at least you will not regret it, after all, divorce is a major turning point in life.
Marriage cannot be confused, and divorce should of course be clear.
However, not everyone understands these truths, and not all people who understand them can do it, and Zhao Yan is a typical example.
His temper was grumpy, and his divorce from his ex-wife was a pure impulse, and the two of them quarreled and completely lost their minds. He had thought that when she was out of breath, he would forgive himself and come back to live a good life with himself.
But unexpectedly, once divorced this time, she did not think about turning back.
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Before leaving, she said to Zhao Yan: "I married you to live a good life with you, I am your wife, not your mother." I don't want to grow up with you anymore, when you become mature, know how to control your temper, know what is responsible, and then find someone to marry.
Otherwise, no one will get along with you. ”
After the divorce, Zhao Yan has always remembered this passage of his ex-wife, and has always been constantly reflecting on himself.
He admitted that in the years they were together, he was indeed a bit playful, not even having a stable job, and he lost his temper and quarreled with her. It can be said that he has never considered her feelings, and with friends of the opposite sex, he does not shy away from it, which is challenging her bottom line, and now that she is gone, it is too late for her to regret it.
How many people know how to cherish after they lose? But that's meaningless.
It may be because he owes something, or it may be because he once loved deeply, resulting in many years after the divorce, Zhao Yan did not forget his first marriage, and the ex-wife who taught him to grow up.
Even if they are married for the second time later, they have always been in a state of making things together and living together. He has no way to fall in love with someone else, and the second marriage is only to consider who is suitable for him, not whether there is love between the two people.
At this time of the second marriage, whether there is love or not is not important, what is important is whether it is appropriate. Because at this time, I just want to live a life.
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Now Zhao Yan, who is more than forty years old, is middle-aged and should have lived well with his current wife, but he has never been able to trust her. I have to say that it is easy for a second-married couple to get married, but it is too difficult to communicate.
Zhao Yan said: "The first marriage is the most precious, after so many years, I can't help but participate in seeing such a topic."
In my heart, there will always be the position of the ex-wife, placed in a place that others cannot touch, will not deliberately forget, will only inadvertently remember. She is like a relative I miss more and more when I can't see each other in the distance, silently wishing in my heart that all is well.
In the next life, we will still be husband and wife, loving and loving, and never separated. ”
If there is no contact, the man will not mention the ex-wife, but in his heart, he will never forget.