"Dear Child": In order to save his daughter and her ex-husband, is fang Yinuo selfish or a mother?
Fang Yinuo was told that the way to save his daughter Hehe was to have another child with her ex-husband. Her new husband, Xie Tianhua, really loves her, ostensibly saying that he agreed to Fang Yinuo having a child with her ex-husband, and their children are also his children, because Fang Yinuo is his wife.
But Fang Yinuo felt that this was unfair, wanted to separate, and did not want to drag him down.
Seeing this, I really feel sad and helpless. Some netizens said that in front of children, love is nothing.
But for an average mother, it's all she can.
On the one hand, the husband who has loved her for many years and has been together for a long time, on the other hand, the daughter who was pregnant and born in October; on the other hand, there is his own feelings, and on the other hand, he is a very close mother-daughter relationship.
Fang Yinuo would make such a choice, which is really too normal. The experience of happiness, in the face of life, is even more luxurious.
Leaving Xie Tianhua, who loved her deeply, she might feel unhappy, but if she lost her daughter when she saw a glimmer of opportunity, Fang Yinuo would definitely be upset and guilty for a lifetime.
From the analysis of Maslow's needs, Xie Tianhua's love is Fang Yinuo's medium-level needs, while her daughter Hehe is her lower level, which will naturally become a more priority need to be met than love.
Therefore, whether Fang Yinuo is selfish or a mother is just emotionally speaking, but from the perspective of needs, he may not be bothered about which one it is.
