The mouth, the gateway of the heart. Some people only need to speak with one mouth, you can let others know what kind of person he (she) is, and whether he has cultivation or lack of quality can be seen at once;
Some people only need to speak with one mouth, and they can judge whether the other party is lively and extroverted or quiet introverted by the tone and speed of his (her) speech.
It can be seen that the role of language in dealing with relationships cannot be underestimated, after all, many people start from a "hello".
Water can carry boats, but also can cover boats, everything has two sides, only by using it well, can we use this tool to play the best effect.
In marriage, a woman who can talk is the best life
We all want to change our destiny, and in fact, talking well can do just that.
We may wish to try to think about it, in life, some people knife mouth tofu heart, although they have paid a lot, but still inadvertently offended many people;
Some people may not be very sharp, but high emotional intelligence can talk, and when dealing with gender relations, they can be at ease.
That's the difference between being able to talk and not being able to talk, and even more so in marriage.
In the book "Women with High Emotional Intelligence Can Talk", it is said: "Speaking as an art has great charm, one word can change fate, and one word can harvest happiness." ”
Can talk is not smooth, not left and right, but four or two strokes, in the processing of feelings, can understand the role of language.
Being able to understand that the ear is the window of the soul, and being able to speak can help us improve the efficiency of our work.
Therefore, smart women understand that when dealing with marriage, there must be giving and talking.
The two complement each other to complement each other. In married life, men love to hear the 3 titles, can you call it out?
First, the most intimate title: a nickname exclusive to the other party
Love is all selfish and narrow.
It is also in such a situation that we can use such an possessive desire to manage each other's marriage.
Maybe the husband will feel too popular in the eyes of some people;
Some couples have not yet conceived the crystallization of love, and it is a bit premature to call the child his father.
At this time, the nickname exclusive to the other party can play a good transitional role.
This nickname belongs only to the other party, only we can call him, which is unique, there is nothing to replace, but also proves the man's place in his heart.
Bi Shumin said: "Love is afraid of silence. Too many people think that love to the depths is speechless. In fact, love is a difficult emotion to describe, which needs to be expressed and transmitted in detail. ”
In this way, this love is expressed, and the other party can naturally feel it.
Second, the most fleshy title: dear husband
How many women are still embarrassed to call a man husband after marriage?
They think that this title is too fleshy, they are old husbands and wives, and they are not embarrassed to call out.
In fact, the key to determining how far a relationship can eventually be lies in the level at which women expose themselves in this relationship.
Strangers will be embarrassed, husband and wife are the most intimate relationship in the world, if there is a way out in such a relationship, there is a cover,then it means that we do not fully trust this person.
And the love that has not fully entered the other party's heart is always a little strange.
Therefore, in order to build this bridge to deepen each other's feelings, it is necessary to improve the level of self-exposure, and it is necessary to call each other's husbands generously.
Jo der Leyqui said, "Beauty inspires feelings, and love purifies the human heart." ”
When we call men that way, even if they appear to be light and breezy, believe that their hearts must be in a state of turbulence.
Third, the most prosaic title: the child his father
Do you know? In a marriage, the most terrible thing is not that the income gap between the two is getting bigger and bigger, but that they are living together, but they feel that the distance between the heart and the heart is getting farther and farther.
The reason for this situation is that we feel that two people are very familiar with each other, so since they are familiar, many ways to maintain feelings are not necessary.
In fact, marriage has always been in a state of dynamic development.
It is like flowing water, which needs to be constantly flowing, constantly adding new things, so as to ensure strong vitality.
Moreover, marriage also has a shelf life, if you can't get it, you don't care, in the long run, it will definitely deteriorate.
Therefore, smart women will work calling men.
"The child and his father" may not sound so romantic, but it shows that the feelings between husband and wife are maintained by the constant bond, and at the same time, it can also strengthen the sense of responsibility of men.
In this way, the feelings between husband and wife will continue in such a bland and stable happiness.