The writer Zweig said: All the gifts of fate are secretly marked with prices. You have to exchange it in another way, or pay it back.
Where there is a cause, there must be an effect, and where there is an effect, there must be a cause. Planting good causes gets good results, and planting evil causes gets evil results. In life, if you want to get something, you have to pay your time, money and hard work to get the benefits you want.
For example, if you want to get into a good university, you must study hard, do your homework steadily, cheating can bring temporary results, but when you take the college entrance examination, you will still be exposed.
If you want to make raising children and preventing old age become a reality, you must fulfill the responsibility of parenthood, raise your children, educate your children well, and let your children know filial piety, so that you can rely on them when you are old.
If you want to be kind to you when you are old and expect the other half of your children who are not related by blood and nurturing to treat you well, you have to help them when they need you, get along with them in harmony, and accumulate affection in order to get good results.
As it is said in the "Vegetable Root Tan": If you take advantage of personnel, you will suffer the loss of the heavenly way; if you covet the benefits of the taste of the world, you will attract the loss of sexual points.
There is no good thing under the heavens that you have earned for nothing, and if you only want to harm others and pick peaches, no one close to you will tolerate it.
Mr. Zhu's father has the idea of picking peaches and has recently been plugging with his son and daughter-in-law. In fact, not to mention his daughter-in-law, even his son, Mr. Zhu, could not accept his father's unreasonable demands.
01. My mother died early, my daughter-in-law gave birth to a daughter, my father not only did not bring a baby, but also scolded and grinned;
In Mr. Zhu's family, there is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, only contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, only because Mr. Zhu's mother has long passed away.
"When I was 21 years old, my house was on fire, and my mother didn't get out and died. After my mother died, I continued to work outside the home, met my daughter-in-law, and married the two of them. ”
Mr. Zhu's daughter-in-law, Ms. Zhou, is a local, has an older brother, is the pearl in the palm of her parents, and has a better family. My father-in-law was very optimistic about Mr. Zhu, a down-to-earth and capable son-in-law with outstanding character, and relied on his personal connections to help Mr. Zhu find a job.
In the beginning, the relationship between Mr. Zhu's father and daughter-in-law was not bad, the two people did not have much intersection, and Ms. Zhou also respected her father-in-law. However, with the birth of Mr. Zhu's eldest daughter, the relationship between father-in-law and daughter-in-law immediately dropped to a freezing point.
"At that time, wasn't it stipulated that a family could only have one?" My parents have three children, only one son, so the hope of passing on the generations is pinned on me, and my father is particularly angry when he sees my daughter-in-law giving birth to a daughter. ”
After the daughter-in-law gave birth to her granddaughter, Mr. Zhu's father not only did not help take care of the child, but also scolded and grinned, eager to point at the bridge of the daughter-in-law's nose every day, scolding the daughter-in-law's stomach not to argue, all kinds of ugly words can be spoken, Ms. Zhou's mother protected her daughter, scolded her father-in-law, and drove her father-in-law away.
After such a drama, the relationship between Ms. Zhou and her father-in-law will naturally not be much better, and when it comes to the original matter, Ms. Zhou is full of complaints about her father-in-law.
02. My mother-in-law loves her daughter and helps me take my baby for 18 years, and I promised my brother-in-law that I would honor my mother-in-law;
The child was born, it was necessary to bring, Ms. Zhou had a job at that time, the income was not low, if you give up, it is a big loss for the family. However, he did not have a mother, and his father could not count on it, and who would bring the baby became a major distress for Mr. Zhu.
"Send the child to me, it just so happens that I also have a granddaughter, and I brought it with me."
Although the mother-in-law offered to bring her granddaughter and said it very easily, Mr. Zhu also knew that it was not easy. After all, taking care of a child is hard enough, not to mention two, not only to pay, but also to contribute, but also to attract the dissatisfaction of Ms. Zhou's brother-in-law.
Mr. Zhu is full of gratitude to the mother-in-law, in order not to let the brother-in-law blame the mother-in-law, he took the initiative to tell the brother-in-law that when the children grow up and the mother-in-law is old, he will also assume the responsibility of the mother-in-law's pension and take the mother-in-law to filial piety.
Mr. Zhu's father-in-law and mother-in-law are very loving old people, love their daughters, love Wu and Wu, when taking their granddaughters, they give their granddaughter the same treatment as their own granddaughters, and raise Mr. Zhu's daughter into a big girl.
Father-in-law is a teacher, attaches great importance to the children's learning, under the guidance of the father-in-law, Mr. Zhu's daughter is diligent and studious, admitted to a double first-class university, has graduated for 3 years, admitted to the civil service, has a good living conditions.
03. Even if you don't recognize me, there is no reason to drive away your father-in-law and mother-in-law to let you move in;
Father-in-law and mother-in-law helped themselves to take the baby for 18 years and raised their daughter into a talent, so Mr. Enzhu remembered it. However, before Mr. Zhu could repay his father-in-law's kindness, his father-in-law died of illness.
After losing her husband who had been married for 30 years, Mr. Zhu's mother-in-law was devastated, and she fell seriously ill three times in two months, and the person also aged rapidly, frightening the people in the family.
Therefore, Mr. Zhu took his mother-in-law to his home and honored his mother-in-law with his wife, after all, compared with his son and daughter-in-law, the daughter is the parent's little cotton jacket, which can comfort the mother who has lost his wife. In the company of Ms. Zhou, the mother-in-law's condition has improved greatly. However, at this time, Mr. Zhu's father did not do it.
"Where is the reason why the mother-in-law lives in the son-in-law's house?" What is she an outsider? You immediately let her get out of the egg, I want to move in, that is my son's house, only I can enjoy the blessing. ”
"Dad, my mother-in-law helped me take my baby for 18 years, if I let her go, I won't be drowned by the spit star!" Besides, you don't have a good relationship with my daughter-in-law, and it's easy to quarrel when you move in. Dad, your body is still tough, I give you 1500 a month, it is enough to spend, do you take care of yourself first? ”
However, Mr. Zhu's father was not a reasonable person from beginning to end, in his eyes, parents are heaven, and children do not have the right to say half a word to their parents.
Seeing that his son would not let him, Mr. Zhu's father scolded people while packing up his things and went to his son's house. Mr. Zhu knew his father very well, guessed his plan to forcibly move in, and invited his brother-in-law.
They confronted their father at the door of the community, quarreled all morning, and the people in the community also figured out what had happened. The residents all stood on the side of Mr. Zhu's mother-in-law, supporting Mr. Zhu, one by one, blocking Mr. Zhu's father dumbfounded and had to leave.
"My wife said, give my dad some alimony first, and when he's older, we'll find him a caregiver, or we'll give money to my two sisters to see if we can ask them to take care of them."
04. If people do not have a grateful heart, who is willing to be good to you?
In "Knowing or Not", Mr. Rong once taught Sister Rong a truth: "Good is good, and those who receive good should be grateful, sincerely cherish the blessings, and act humbly, and do good deeds gently." In this way, we can leave blessings for a long time and God bless people to help. ”
Regardless of why others are good to you, you just need to know that you have indeed accepted this good and benefited from it. Since you have received the benefits of others, you should be grateful and grateful, and even if others do not want you to repay, you should remember the truth of the fountain of retribution.
If people do not have a grateful heart, who is willing to be good to you? Even if the original intention of others to be good to you is not to ask you to reciprocate, they do not want to see a piece of their own kindness fed to the dog!
Wang Fu said: "Life needs a grateful heart to create, and a grateful heart needs life to nourish." ”
Even if Sheng Minglan treated Sister Rong and Lady Shao kindly, in the end, Lady Shao took revenge and almost killed Brother Tuan, and Sheng Minglan could no longer be as good to Lady Shao as before. And Sister Rong's sister Zhi En Tu bao completely saved her love affair with Sheng Minglan.
To be a person, you must have a grateful heart in order to handle interpersonal relationships well.
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