Recently, I saw a more distressing news, a young woman was beaten by her husband to stop her heartbeat, and rescued her in the hospital for more than 20 minutes before recovering her heartbeat.
After staying in the hospital's ICU ward for five days, he finally died because his condition was too serious, and the video detonated the circle of friends of many people for a while.
However, some extreme people are still saying cool things, such as why they didn't ask this woman what she did, which means that this woman is not without reason for domestic violence.
Seeing these people say this, many netizens are very angry, and many netizens have said that they also want to know what this woman has done.
According to the woman's family, the woman actively lived and opened a clothing store herself, while the man had not had a serious job for several years after marriage.
It is obvious that the family is supported by the woman, and the man is quite a bit of a soft meal, what did the woman do, so that she was beaten to death by her husband.
If the woman has done something angry and resentful, the man can directly choose to call the police and come to a great righteousness to kill the relatives, if the two are just emotionally broken, then they can also choose to divorce, and the two sides can get together and disperse.
It is said that the one-day husband and wife are a hundred days, not to mention that the two have two daughters, and they were the most loved people in the beginning, and they should be a little affectionate.
But the man has such a heavy hand, obviously there is no sense of thinking about the old love, such a man really does not deserve to enter the marriage.
It is normal for two people to have conflicts together, and even occasionally quarrel and escalate to hands-on is also normal, in fact, there is an essential difference between husband and wife quarrels, fights and domestic violence.
The former, at best, is a simple physical conflict, and they will keep their hands on each other, which will not cause any serious consequences at all, and the latter is completely reckless and cathartic.
Therefore, when you feel that you may be abused by domestic violence, you must actively confront, do not easily compromise and forgive, because domestic violence is the same as betrayal, there is only a difference between zero times and countless times.
The woman who was beaten into the ICU by her husband and died was certainly not the first time she had been beaten, and seeing a person who seemed to be a family friend of the woman speak, regretted that she had advised the other party not to divorce.
Many people believe in persuasion and dissuasion to leave, especially after having children, generally advise not to divorce, but must be divided into situations, for those who are experiencing domestic violence, must be advised to divorce.
Whether it is a boy or a girl, when choosing a spouse, be vigilant against people with the following three characteristics.
The first type is a person with a short-tempered personality and difficulty in controlling his emotions
Everyone will have emotions, whether you can control your emotions is actually a very important thing, seemingly simple things are actually impossible for many people to do.
The kind of person who has a grumpy personality and is difficult to control his emotions is actually like a time bomb, very good times, but very scary times when bad.
The other party encounters a little thing that makes them slightly uncomfortable, or hears something unsatisfactory, and may be angry in an instant.
Maybe he just loses his temper at first, but this violent temper will gradually rise, and eventually become a pain that you can't bear, and maybe in the next second the other party will do something to you.
The second type is a person who has a sense of revenge and is prone to regret doing things
Some people are really very terrible, you only need to offend him once, he can remember for a lifetime, and then find an opportunity to retaliate against you, without the ability to temporarily lie dormant, waiting for the opportunity to attack.
If you find that the other party has a very strong sense of revenge, it is best not to provoke such people, and secondly, the kind of people who do things very easily and regret it.
The performance of this kind of person in life is also obvious, it is easy to make various impulsive decisions, such as finding a little unpleasantness and immediately breaking off the relationship, but after calming down, I regret it very much.
When the anger comes to the head, thinking that everyone will not interact with each other from now on, wait until everything is calm, and regret the decisions they have made, this kind of person they are always impulsive, and always regret.
The third kind, people who are inconsistent in appearance and are good at acting
It is said that people nowadays are good at disguise, and they live every day with masks, but living with masks is one thing, and it is another thing to have two faces before and after people.
The former is just to live a better life, but the latter is the embodiment of a person's personality and conduct, and when encountering people who are inconsistent in appearance and good at acting, they must stay away.
This kind of person is the same in front of the unit leader and colleague, the same in front of the friend, and another at home, and it is not an exaggeration to say that it is a thousand-faced demon.
This kind of multi-face person is very good at disguise, some personalities are good at deception and concealment, think of many domestic abusers exposed, not all are good people in the eyes of neighbors.