"Dear Child" Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu each set up a new family, and the ugly daughter-in-law must see her in-laws, so let's see what is the difference between the reactions of the two families when Fang Yinuo and Dong Fan see their mother-in-law.
Xiao Lu's family's lack of attention and indifference
Speaking of which, Xiao Lu's conditions are not good, the family conditions are not good, there is a brother who is not married and a mother who does not have a job; his own conditions are not good except for a better job, and he is still a divorced man.
It is reasonable to say that such a man has a girl to follow is a good thing to burn high incense. Under normal thinking, when Xiao Lu takes the girl home to see her mother-in-law, the mother-in-law should be warmly welcomed, eat and drink well, and greet her with a smile.
But no, let's see how Gao Caiping greeted Dong Fan.
Gao Caiping knew that Dong Fan was coming, so she prepared five dishes, of course, only one fish meat was like a hospitality dish, and the others were very common vegetarian dishes, potatoes, and tofu.
Dong Fan dressed up very decently to meet the mother-in-law, and the attitude was particularly good, and the mother-in-law was naturally happy to see such a daughter-in-law. But Gao Caiping was not very enthusiastic, and her face was full of displeasure.
Gao Caiping is a straight person, everything is written on her face, she does not smile, one is not to understand Dong Fan, the other is not too much approval of her son's remarriage, she still thinks of Fang Yinuo, especially her granddaughter.
Gao Caiping also deliberately put out the family portrait taken with her granddaughter, which is too obvious.
He even pointed at his daughter-in-law at the dinner table and said, "I didn't know you were coming, I didn't prepare it, and the food I cooked was not delicious. ”
Give the daughter-in-law a way out?
Gao Caiping knife mouth, tofu heart, and is a very traditional woman, she thinks that the husband and wife are still well matched, not to mention, she really appreciates Fang Yinuo.
So Gao Caiping is contradictory, she does not know what to do. It is quite difficult to give the new daughter-in-law a horse and to protect the son's face.
Let's look at Xie Tianhua's house next.
The grandeur and enthusiasm of Xie Tianhua's home
Xie Tianhua has a lot of family, so the atmosphere is very good, a look is a lively family, people are also very good, very supportive of the son's choice.
Fang Yinuo took his daughter Hehe to marry into the Xie family, if Xie Tianhua's parents did not really like it, did not really accept it, they could not do so well.
After all, let their parents accompany the acting, they will not, and they are not willing.
Therefore, seeing that Xie's mother has prepared so many dishes, she knows that she is welcome to enter the Xie family soon.
Mother Xie prepared ten dishes, and they were all hard dishes, giving enough face to her son and Fang Yinuo to face, and did not make Fang Yinuo feel unappreciated.
Mother Xie said that when seeing a daughter-in-law, we must pay attention to the number of etiquette, and we must not be without rules. Because there are etiquette and rules, it can be seen that Xie Mother attaches great importance to the other party's promise, and it also proves that Xie Mother loves the other party's promise.
The warm reception of the Xie family and the collective appearance of the Xie family all express the attitude of the Xie family.
They did not dislike Fang Yinuo as a second-married woman, let alone that she brought this girl. On the contrary, as long as his son Xie Tianhua likes it, they are supportive. What's more, they were satisfied with Fang Yinuo in themselves.
Generous and decent, polite, good work, very good for people, where do you say such a daughter-in-law to find?
In fact, the mentality of the two families is different, and the attitude towards the marriage of the child is naturally different. However, the difference in hospitality between the two is also too large.
From the initial non-acceptance, to the final discovery of Fang Yinuo's good, but also like Hehe, so the Xie family accepted Fang Yinuo is a process. Because of this run-in period, the Xie family is not so resistant to opposition, except for the sister who is full of welcome.
If it were me, even if the Xie family's enthusiasm was to make a scene, I would be happy, and I didn't want to see my mother-in-law's cold face the first time.
Do you like Fang Yinuo to see the mother-in-law or Dong Fan to see the mother-in-law?