For women, it is difficult to survive, how many women are always easy to sink in the rotten peach blossoms, and can not get out.
In fact, this is related to the belief that they uphold, some women will love themselves well at any time, so they meet people who respect themselves and love themselves, even if they encounter rotten peach blossoms, they will cut off in time.
And some women are too lacking in love, so that it is easy to be confused by men's rhetoric, so as to give their all, allowing themselves to sink in a deceptive relationship, and can not be redeemed.
Understand that the man who truly loves you will not deceive you, but can use clever words to you without any action, just because he does not love you.
Men are always easy to pinch the weakness of the lack of love for women, he will not care whether women will be happy in the future, just care about their current feelings.
Understand that a man with a family who is in love with you is just irresponsible, and he can completely solve his identity problem and pursue you as a free identity.
But he didn't, but put you in an awkward position, just pulling you into the abyss.
Don't believe in the love in the mouth of any married man, he can say it to you or to others, anyway, the love that opens his mouth does not cost anything.
To understand that there is no true love outside of marriage, please do not trust the love words of married men, and do not let yourself fall into a trap.
Just looking for a momentary freshness
For men, no matter who they marry, they will regret it, so there will be Zhang Ailing's metaphor of white roses and red roses.
But how can people be greedy, choose to be responsible, marriage is even more cautious.
No matter how vigorous love is, walking into marriage, it will fall into plainness, and it is always the same in life.
Two people get along day and night, what they see in their eyes is the shortcomings of the other half, and the triviality of day after day will make people feel tired.
Some men will not be willing to be indifferent to the blandness of life, a heart is always unstable, want to seek freshness, so they will lock their eyes on the outside.
When a man with a family says he loves you, don't believe it, maybe it's just because you just finished arguing with your wife, maybe it's just when you're lonely and bored.
Don't be cannon fodder, credulously believe men's love words, will put yourself in an embarrassing situation, can not get a good end, and will damage the reputation.
How much sincerity can a man who can court outside of marriage have? You're so sure you're the one, wake up, don't be used.
Just seek temporary comfort
In fact, men are more realistic and rational than you think, how can they let themselves fall into an embarrassing situation.
To know that divorce requires a cost, not only will bear the reputation of the blame, but also pay the economic cost, so it will appear very cautious.
He said he loved you, in fact, he had no identity to speak of, but he just wanted to seek comfort for a while, and you just happened to be around.
Do you think he will give up his now stable family for your sake? If he had a sense of responsibility, he would not have bothered you with the identity of a family.
Women really have to wake up, there is no true love outside of marriage, don't be cheated, married men are not qualified to say they love you, don't be confused.
The trivialities in marriage and the pressure at work will make men breathless, and there will be disputes with the other half, and your appearance will make him feel another simple world.
But why would he give up his family for you? Don't be silly, don't care about a man with a family, and don't let yourself be misunderstood.
He's just craving the feeling of relaxation for a moment, which comes and goes in a hurry, and doesn't really love you, don't take it seriously.
You must know how to say no in order to meet the right fate
A man with a family says he loves you, but you are complacent, do not know how to refuse, but just push yourself into the fire pit.
With a man with a family, you will bear the name, and there will be no good end.
A man who can betray his own family will also betray you sooner or later, and you will not be the exception.
In the face of such rotten peach blossoms, we must cut them in time, avoid falling into the swamp, and dare to refuse, in order to meet our own positive peach blossoms.
You have to believe that there is always someone who belongs to you completely, and you are in love with the right light, giving you your own place.
And a man with a family, no matter what he says, do not believe it, his betrayal shows that he has no sense of responsibility and morality, and does not become cannon fodder.
People always have to stand under the sun, hold hands and fall in love, and go in the direction of happiness together, only such feelings are worth running.
Love is difficult for women, but indecisive, will only make you rotten peach blossoms continuously, only courage and rejection, in order to meet the real appreciation of you, regard you as the only positive fate.