Although many parents hang on the saying that the back of their hands and hands are meat, in fact, there is still a favoritism for several children. In fact, everyone will have preferences, and parents will naturally be no exception. Therefore, for several children, a bowl of water is uneven, and the palm of the hand is more than the meat on the back of the hand, which can still be understood.
But this kind of differentiation caused by personal preferences, it is best to have a degree. If it is too obvious, it will not only affect the feelings between several children. The most important thing is that the child who is favored often does not end up being what the parents want. Because I am spoiled, I don't know how to be grateful, and I don't know how to pay, the possibility of becoming a "giant baby" is too great.
Parental preferences originally have high expectations for this child, but preference often ruins the child. If parents can wake up in time when things happen in the later stages, they can still be saved. If the eccentric parents are still obsessed and obedient to the child as always, the final result will not be too good, and the price of preference is to raise the child.
Zhao Ke was born in a patriarchal family, and although her parents were not harsh on her, they did not have much hot feelings, especially after the birth of her brother. At that time, Zhao Ke's parents had formal jobs, and they could not have a second child. But because Zhao Ke is a female doll, in order to leave a root for this family, the two would rather resign, and finally fined a lot of money, and then hid in Tibet and gave birth to a son.
The scruffy girl who had not seen her parents for more than a year, and her glamorous brother, the first time they met, they realized that their future life would be more difficult, and at this time, she was only 5 years old. But no matter how uncomfortable she is in her heart, because her parents have always instilled in her that her brother is younger than you, you should let your brother take care of his younger brother. Therefore, in the following decades, Zhao Ke really put his brother first everywhere and took care of his brother everywhere.
Barely finishing junior high school, her parents did not agree to Zhao Ke's continued education, even if her grades were good, even if a teacher came to the door and offered to fund. But his parents still asked Zhao Ke to follow the villagers out to work and make money, in the hearts of his parents, it is useless to just not spend money, and they still need to make money. After all, the economic conditions in the family are not good, and the son needs money to marry and start a family later.
Zhao Ke and her husband Wang Qiang met when they went out to work, and the days of wandering outside, in addition to hardship, are more lonely. Wang Qiang, from the next village, also came from this stage. He felt sorry for Zhao Ke and gave Zhao Ke a lot of help, whether it was at work or in life. With the increase of time together, the two have feelings for each other and establish a romantic relationship.
After reaching the age of marriage, the two ended their part-time work days and returned to their hometown together. Zhao Ke originally thought that her parents would be very opposed to her finding a boyfriend with ordinary financial conditions. As a result, the parents only nagged a few words, but did not interfere much, let alone put forward a high bride price request. This made Zhao Ke very happy, and she thought from the bottom of her heart that her parents still loved her, just a little less than her brother.
After getting married, Zhao Ke and his wife did not continue to work outside, before Zhao Ke and her parents discussed, her parents were quite supportive of her decision to start her own farm. In addition, Wang Qiang also inquired everywhere, and the money in his hand was enough to start a capital, so the two began to start a business. Of course, the money in this is all Wang Qiang's, because the money earned by Zhao Ke's part-time work has long been given to his mother's family.
Although the entrepreneurial road of the two is very difficult, because they are energetic and hard-working, they can bear hardships and stand hard work, and they have found the right project, so they quickly earned back the cost and earned the first bucket of gold. In this process, the mother's parents reached out to Zhao Ke from time to time to ask for money, and this money was naturally used for their son. Zhao Ke was almost responsive because of his gratitude to his parents for not obstructing her marriage at that time, and the habit of taking care of her brother formed over the years.
Although Wang Qiang has opinions, because the family income is really good, coupled with the pain of his wife, in addition to nagging, he did not strongly stop it. In this way, Zhao Ke can be said to indirectly raise a young brother who is idle. Some time ago, her brother finally had a marriage partner, Zhao Ke was very happy, she firmly believed that with her own small family, her brother would become a responsible and responsible person.
Zhao Ke even consulted with Wang Qiang to expand the scale of the farm, and also chartered the nearby farm, which can be used as a whole to make a farm. In recent years, urban people like to come to the countryside with fresh air. Zhao Ke was ready to let the two of them do it all over again, devote themselves to the operation of the farm, and leave the farm to his younger brother to run. But Zhao Ke's self-righteousness was soon punched in the face on the eve of his brother's wedding.
Zhao Ke did not return to his mother's house at the agreed time, but a day in advance. Because she happened to go to the village for an affair, she took the gift money and prepared to go back to her mother's house. Now as long as you are willing to spend money, the wedding feast and these things, there are people wrapped up, and there is no need to rush and panic in all kinds of family members. When her brother got married, Zhao Ke naturally wrapped up a relatively large amount, plus the previous gold and silver jewelry, she almost spent about 100,000 yuan.
Zhao Ke was not distressed at all, it was his only brother, but it was this only younger brother, who was spoiled by his parents and directly punched her in the face. Just arrived at the door, Zhao Ke was about to open the curtain, but he heard his mother and brother mention their names. Zhao Ke stopped moving and stood in the doorway listening. My mother said, "Your sister told me some time ago that she wanted you to take over the farm, and you've been treating your sister a little better lately. ”
The younger brother laughed and said, "I just won't go, how hard it is to farm, you see my sister is much older than her peers." Besides, is my life bad right now? Even if you don't do anything, doesn't my sister still spend money every month to support us? Why suffer. The mother sighed and said, "At the beginning, I just liked Wang Qiang's good character, and I knew that he would not stop your sister from filial piety to her mother's family, otherwise why do you think I agreed to your sister marrying an ordinary family." ”
"But there is a time limit for this, your sister's children are growing up slowly, and if she puts her children first one day, there will be nothing for you." You listen to your mother, first promise to take over the farm, then you can be lazy, your sister will not leave you alone. If you have the ability, maybe you can get a little income from the farm, what a good thing! The mother said as she grabbed her son who was leaving.
Zhao Ke did not hear the end, the result was no longer important, these conversations were enough to subvert Zhao Ke's cognition. Her parents never really loved her, and all the warmth of her parents for her was for their sons. At this moment, she finally understood that Wang Qiang's nagging was actually right every time. The progress between relatives is actually more serious than that of outsiders. And the only way to stop this kind of behavior is to wake up.
The next day, Zhao Ke reduced the amount of the gift by half to his mother, and said that the previously agreed farm to his brother would be invalidated. Because the money to rent the farm was not enough, I found a partner, and in the case of outsiders, everyone said that they would not use their relatives. In the future, I am busier, and I may come to my mother's house less often, and I will have less help for my brother, because the money is invested in the farm, and I am also nervous.
Zhao Ke's words and deeds attracted a scolding from his mother and brother. The mother said that she accused Zhao Ke of being cold-blooded and cold-blooded, saying that she disregarded her affection. The younger brother said that the sister was impersonal, and the only younger brother could leave it alone. Looking at the faces of his mother and brother, Zhao Ke was extremely glad that he had woken up. You say, is Zhao Ke's decision really cold-blooded? I felt that she woke up too late, and hoped that she would always insist on her decision and not change because of her mother's crying.
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