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Guide
What is the true meaning of love, maybe a hundred people have a hundred answers, and only by truly experiencing feelings can we taste what love in other people is.
Love is also a compulsory course in life, after all, marriage is a major event in life, forming a family and spreading leaves, this is almost everyone's life goal, because of this, marriage should be cautious, love needs to polish the eyes.
Some people say: Whoever plays the human world will eventually achieve nothing.
There are many people in this world, some people are cautious about their feelings, carefully manage, and finally carry out love to the end.
There are also some people who treat love with a playful attitude, only coveting temporary pleasure, but never thinking about what price they will pay.
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A number of strange women called: he is a scumbag, don't be deceived
Lu Qi (pseudonym), a 23-year-old girl living in Changsha, Hunan Province, and her boyfriend Yang Ming (pseudonym) met on a dating app, and the considerate and gentle Yang Ming attracted Lu Qi at once, and after getting along for a long time, Lu Qi had the idea of entrusting her life.
However, all this is shattered with a call from a strange woman.
One day, Lu Qi suddenly received a call from a strange woman, but hung up without saying a few words, out of curiosity, she added the other party's friend.
In WeChat, the woman advised Lu Qi to break up with Yang Ming and let her not be deceived, she said, Yang Ming is involved with many people outside, and she is also a victim.
Lu Qi did not believe it at first, but when the other party took out the photo, she also had to believe it, and under some questioning, Yang Ming also admitted to the matter.
Lu Qi originally wanted to break up with this, but Yang Ming apologized tearfully, and even knelt down to beg her, and Lu Qi forgave Yang Ming for a moment of softness.
But soon after, another woman called to find Lu Qi, who claimed to be Yang Ming's ex-girlfriend, and she said that Yang Ming had some economic disputes with her and hoped to be resolved through Lu Qi.
Yang Ming also mentioned this ex-girlfriend to Lu Qi, her name is Li Wenli (pseudonym), Lu Qi did not want to take care of her, but Li Wenli repeatedly proposed to meet in detail, and Lu Qi also met with Li Wenli.
After that, Lu Qi was surprised to find that Yang Ming had actually been married once and had a son, which made Lu Qi refuse to accept it no matter what, he did not say how good the conditions were, but the divorced man she said that she would not consider anything.
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In a year of love, she had two ectopic pregnancies
Indeed, Lu Qi is only twenty-three years old, she has a college diploma and she is not born in society for too long, and she can find a man with the same conditions to marry her.
In order to find out all this, Lu Qi and Li Wenli came to the Yang family together, Yang Ming was not at home at this time, and Yang's mother was also emotional when she saw the two women who came to the door.
She believes that both sides are adults and should pay for their own actions, and in any case, she can't blame her as a mother, and she has long been impatient with Lu Qi's repeated visits to the door.
It turned out that during the love between Lu Qi and Yang Ming, there had been two pregnancies, but they were both ectopic pregnancies, and finally unfortunately miscarried, and in June this year, the two reached an agreement to break up, and the Yang family will pay 50,000 yuan to Lu Qi as compensation.
Yang Mother believes that the conditions in her family are good, Lu Qi is looking at her son's family property, which is all kinds of entanglement, for her son's deception and concealment, she thinks it has nothing to do with her.
But Lu Qi's family situation is also very good, in general, not to lose the Yang family, and even the expenses during the love period between the two people are Lu Qi's, Yang Ming's clothes up and down are all bought by her, and it cost almost 270,000 yuan before and after.
Yang Ming did not return home for a long time, Lu Qi and Li Wenli had to leave, Li Wenli said that when Yang Ming borrowed online loans in her name, there were various disputes after breaking up.
This scam-like love, Lu Qi really can't go on, she now only wants to listen to Lu Qi's words, the two people are scattered in two shots, and they will not communicate again.
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He said: Everyone is just playing, how she takes it seriously
Yang Ming finally appeared, he said that he and Lu Qi were just playing, not rushing to get married, and there was no need for him to tell her everything.
Yang Ming said that he was just a substitute, when Lu Qi had just ended his last relationship, he needed someone to come out to fill the gap, he just happened to appear, let nature take its course, and there was no need to be so serious.
He also admitted the fact that he was ambiguous with other women, and at the same time, he also said that Lu Qi was also very playful, and he was just trying to get revenge on her, which was not clear with other women.
He said that he had married early as the age of twenty-three, but he was young and crazy, liked to go to bars, ignored his ex-wife, and the two divorced because of their emotional discord.
Now that a few years have passed, Yang Ming now has no idea of getting married, and falling in love with Lu Qi is purely "playing", moreover, Lu Qi in his eyes is also a little "dishonest".
In any case, he also failed Lu Qi, concealed his marriage history and even let her pregnant twice, and now his attitude is very irresponsible.
Now Lu Qi only has timely stop loss, she first went to the hospital to check her body, fortunately her fertility was not affected, and now she only wants the Yang family to fulfill its promise as soon as possible and compensate herself.
But Yang Ming's mother and son did not do it, because Lu Qi had brought people to make trouble once before, and they believed that Lu Qi had breached the contract first, and now they were unwilling to compensate Lu Qi again.
Helplessly, Lu Qi had to seek the help of the mediator, who believed that both sides were at fault for today's situation, and Lu Qi, as an adult, should also pay for his own rashness.
At the same time, the mediator also advised Yang Mother, the so-called son does not teach, the father's fault, Yang Ming made the mistakes made today, she is also responsible for the mother, this is not a glorious thing, I hope that each of them will put aside their prejudices, so that they can get together and disperse.
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The price of loving the wrong person
Yang Ming insisted on refusing to perform the agreement, so he asked Lu Qi to go to court to sue himself, and when the court's judgment came down, he would naturally implement it.
Yang Ming's love is also over, for him, Lu Qi is just one of the women who fall in love with him, but for Lu Qi, Lu Qi, who intends to fall in love with him, has paid all.
Lu Qi finally looked at the wrong person, put a piece of her own heart on the person who should not be placed, fortunately, she still had the opportunity to turn back, the cliff was restrained, the back was the shore, she was still young, let this painful love affair pass away with the wind.
I hope that Lu Qi will live well in the future, this emotional experience can also be regarded as a lesson in life, I hope that she can polish her eyes in the next relationship and find her destiny as soon as possible.
Whether you are in love or ready to fall in love, don't forget to maintain a certain amount of sanity and prudence, love does have a sweet taste, but at the same time it is so sweet that it is psychedelic and often makes people confused about reality.