The most hurtful thing in your feelings, in addition to betrayal and concealment, is probably the person you love deeply, who has been cheating and calculating you.
People often tell me that don't be too serious about feelings, and if you are serious, you will lose. In fact, the people who really lose are often people who are "not serious" in their feelings, who seem to disguise themselves well, but in fact they can't even get stability.
A 23-year-old girl falls in love with a demolition household
The 23-year-old Lu Qi fell in love with Yang Ming, a man 6 years older than her, whose family was well-off, handsome, or a demolition household, and the house was divided into many suites. Gentle and considerate, he easily captured the little girl's heart. Like ordinary couples, they had a sweet and hot love between them, but now the past has shattered into glass slag, and the two are left with a deep hatred for each other.
Lu Qi said that during the relationship, Yang Ming repeatedly maintained ambiguous relations with other women outside, and even once, someone sent a photo of Yang Ming lying on the bed in the hotel, and finally learned that the original "other women" were also victims, and they did not know the true side of Yang Ming.
Until a female netizen found Lu Qi through contact information to tell her a secret, many years ago, Yang Ming had a marriage experience, the party suddenly realized: was deceived for a long time!
How could I be a stepmother to someone else? Knowing that, I wouldn't talk to him!
Yang Ming dropped out of school at the age of 13 and entered the society and formed a family, because of the "playfulness", often jumped to the bar, left his ex-wife alone in an empty room, and eventually led to divorce, she had a daughter between her and his ex-wife, so many years, Yang Ming has always been uncertain, the game life, and all this, Lu Qi is completely unaware, otherwise from the beginning there will be no relationship, so long, the man conceals the most important facts, the woman has been kept in the dark, regret not the beginning.
Father's Parents: I only recognize one daughter-in-law
In order to be with Yang Ming, Lu Qi had two ectopic pregnancies, and although the child was knocked out, the damage to the body was immeasurable. Now the feelings of the two people can not go back to the past, several tosses, love has been scaled all over the body, when they broke up, they had an agreement, the man's agreement mentioned that he would give the woman fifty thousand yuan compensation.
Now that the man is dragging his feet and not giving money, Lu Qi is angry and only wants an explanation to let the other party compensate for his losses.
In the process of the two people's interaction, Yang Ming never took Lu Qi to see her parents, and when she found Yang Ming's family, the other party's mother did not admit the fact that her son had a girlfriend, she said that the reason why Lu Qi was close to her son was because she planned a house, and said that the woman was also a casual person, no self-respect, no self-love.
"You pretend to be affectionate, I am more affectionate than you"
Yang Ming is not a person with a mature mind, and frankly admits that the relationship between him and Lu Qi is a scene. He thinks that Lu Qi is not a good woman, secretly taking other men home, he pretends not to know, but it does not mean that he is a fool, since the other party is to deal with feelings with a playful attitude, then there is no need to be too serious.
Yang Ming said that the two of them met on social software, because Lu Qi wanted to get out of the last relationship as soon as possible, and then he was with Yang Ming, just using him as a substitute tool, not serious, so he did not tell each other the secret of his divorce.
In the end, the relationship between the two broke down, and he promised to compensate the woman for 50,000 yuan, but because Lu Qi was anxious and called someone to come to the house to make a big fuss, he broke the jar and refused to take responsibility.
At the end of the matter, the mediator advised the man's family to fulfill the agreement as soon as possible if they wanted to rest in peace, and continue to drag on, which was not beneficial to both parties.
People who do not respect feelings will be abandoned by feelings sooner or later
One has just entered the society, young and immature, and the other, although he has been crawling in the society for many years, has no sense of responsibility. Separation is only a matter of time, the man is not responsible for the feelings is a fact for all to see, if you want to get real love, you should treat others with sincerity, rather than using a sentence "accompany you to act" to completely deny the relationship between each other.
Perhaps he thinks that interacting with people with a playful mentality can protect himself from being hurt, but in the end he will find that people who play with feelings have no luck to find people with noble character, things are clustered, people are divided into groups, and finally lose their own character.
The man said that his feelings for his ex-wife were true, and he was just playing with Lu Qi, but in the process of getting along with his ex-wife, he couldn't bear to let the other party stay alone in the empty room, but he spent a lot of time outside, indicating that he did not have the responsibility and responsibility of a man, even if he met a good girl in the future, he would not cherish it.
Women who do not know how to protect themselves will suffer losses sooner or later
Objectively speaking, it is the woman who is physically hurt in this relationship, and it is really not worth it for this kind of man! In the case of not meeting each other's parents and not understanding his family, there have been two ectopic pregnancies, and girls do not cherish their own bodies!
Some people may say that one is willing to fight, one is willing to be beaten, and when the love is strong, it cannot be restrained, and it can be said that it happens once because it is because of ignorance, and if the number of times is too much, do you still have to deceive yourself?
We can't deny that there are pure and clean feelings in the world, but people are separated from the belly, couples who have been together for many years may not see the true side of each other, not to mention the "boyfriend" who refuses to take you to see your parents, emotional injury is always better than physical injury, irresponsible to themselves, and ultimately can only eat their own evil consequences.
When I was young, I didn't know the gift of fate, and I had already secretly marked the price. Some people regard youth as wayward capital,
Please take the feelings seriously, even if the two do not have a fate to go on, you are still left with a sincere self, a person who deceives others, and finally finds that even you can't find yourself.