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Divorce rates are getting higher and higher, and the statistical results are often surprising. Some people have done statistics that about 50% of newlyweds will divorce within 7 years of marriage, and the divorce rate of second-married couples will be higher, more than 10% higher than that of first-time couples. The divorce rate of second-married couples is so high that it is unimaginable.
Why are it easy for second-married couples to divorce? We also often think about these questions about what factors affect the stability of a marriage. In fact, the relatively high divorce rate of second-married couples has a lot to do with these aspects.
First, it is not easy to trust emotionally
Second-married couples, whether male or female, have experienced an unforgettable failed relationship, the painful experience of the previous marriage is easy to appear in life, and it is difficult to invest all the feelings in the current marriage, and it is easy to lose trust in each other.
Da Zhuang divorced with a son, considering that the son needs to be taken care of, he also needs a partner in his life, and after many blind dates, he finally found a satisfactory wife. Similarly, the wife also brought a son and a family of four living together.
At the beginning, the relationship between the two was quite harmonious, but because Dazhuang's ex-wife sometimes needed to see her son, Dazhuang was also in a past relationship, and often ate together as a family. Over time, DaZhuang's current wife is very worried, always worried that the old love between the husband and wife will rekindle, and he will eventually become an outsider and end up divorced. So there was gradual friction with Da Zhuang, from quarrel to cold war, Da Zhuang became more and more dissatisfied in his heart, and he also deliberately snubbed his current wife.
The two have been estranged from the beginning of their relationship, less than a year, if the situation does not improve, for themselves and their children, DaZhuang is likely to face a second divorce. This is the inevitable problem of second-married couples in their marriage.
Second, the family wealth is more clearly divided
To put it simply, second-married couples often live together as partners, and it is difficult to return to the feeling of first marriage. In addition to the emotional distance between the second-married couple, they are also very clearly divided in their respective wealth. Many times, second-married couples have their own careful thoughts, will not put their own finances in each other's hands, and will calculate very clearly in family expenses.
If this is business, it is understandable, but in the marriage relationship, this practice will cause a lot of distance between the two people and make the relationship between the two people estranged. If one party has difficulties and needs help, it is difficult to get family warmth. This relationship between second-married couples is not easy to eliminate, and if someone is tired of this atmosphere, it is easy to choose to divorce again.
Third, the attitude towards children is very different
Second-married couples usually bring their own children, and many times marriage is not only a matter of both parties, but also a combination of two families. This combination is often accompanied by many problems, especially in the investment in children and education, according to the normal psychology of people, they all want to invest limited resources in their own children.
Many second-married couples themselves are not rich and want their children to have a career, so when allocating educational resources, they always intentionally or unintentionally report the best tutoring classes for their children and find the best teachers. Because of the limited economic strength, it is difficult for both sides to do everything. This situation is easy to make the other party feel neglected, and the second-married couple who have little emotional basis are facing divorce.
The divorce rate of second-married couples is higher than that of first-time couples, which is an unavoidable situation, so it is advisable for couples in marriage not to divorce easily, do not believe how beautiful the second marriage is, and the reality will give you a slap. Second-married couples should not be discouraged, since it has become a fact, do not complain about the world, but find a way to manage their marriage.