Remarriage is already controversial, there is no need to force others to remarry, there is no need to wronged yourself, and the concept of marriage and love can once again walk in the forefront of the times.
First, live a quiet and idle life by yourself
There is actually nothing wrong with living a person's life, I have lived most of my married life, and my wife is gone, which just means reuniting with a single life for a long time. After marriage, you will realize the beauty of being single, and since you have lost the good of being single, you will cherish it more. One person's life does not have a run-in between the lives of two people, so there is no friction, no collision, neither the other half that makes you angry, nor the other half that makes you angry. At the same time, a leisurely life will come into being, a person who manages his own diet and living will be comfortable, do not care about the feelings of the other half, not to mention for the other half of the life needs of the body or distraction, the time saved can cultivate their hobbies. The hobby of this scene is only to please and please oneself, so that you can enjoy yourself anytime and anywhere all the time.
Second, take care of each other with your children and add less confusion to your children
Remarriage, even if it does not directly add chaos to the children at the moment, will indirectly create hidden dangers for the children in the future. Remarriage is a controversial second marriage, which involves more than two families, will increase the burden of old-age care for children, and re-find a wife will participate in the vested interests of dividing up their children. Moreover, the re-sought wife may not be compatible with the children, and if it is not good, it will also stir up dissension, which is bound to increase the estrangement with the children. If remarriage does not have a good beginning and a good end, the way forward will not work, and the back road of children will not be able to go back until they look back, but find that there is no most difficult to walk, only more difficult to walk. Therefore, by weighing the pros and cons, it is necessary to know the advance and retreat, instead of risking to find a wife again, it is better to use the mentality of seeking stability to consolidate and strengthen the relationship with children, so as to achieve stability and progress.
Third, relying on yourself will never become obsolete
Independence in terms of economy, autonomy in living, and a healthy body, the wife is not an indispensable person in life. On the contrary, the life without a wife is more arbitrary, you can go out for as long as you want, and you can do what you want at home. There is no need to look at the face of the wife as usual, and I am accused by the wife at every turn, not to live for myself, but to live for my wife. Therefore, under the premise of following the rules, you can wholeheartedly please yourself, and for the rest of your life, in addition to making changes for yourself, you will no longer make changes for anyone, and then live the most authentic self.
Conclusion: Sending away the wife means to usher in a new life, since life has reached the link of long-term consideration, it is necessary to weigh the pros and cons, and then make a wise choice, whether it is a happy life with the wife or a painful life, the rest of the life must strive for a different way of living.
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