Someone once launched an investigation about school bullying. In this survey, we found that at least 50% of students have been bullied on campus.
There was a father of a kindergarten child, who was in the kindergarten where he was in, and this happened. It is hard to believe that the kindergarten in everyone's heart is naturally harmonious, and I did not expect that there would be a situation of campus bullying.
Originally, the bullying of the kindergarten campus was just the naughty mischief of the boys. But because no one is in charge, his behavior becomes more and more excessive.
The mother of a girl he had bullied had told her teacher about it. However, the teacher does not solve the problem fundamentally. The mother has no choice but to go to the boy's mother to communicate.
The girl's mother was furious, but she did not immediately rebuke her. Instead, first ask the boy's mother if the kindergarten teacher went to her to talk about the child's mischievous behavior.
After learning that the boy's mother did not know about this, she told the boy's mother that the boy bullied the girl in the kindergarten and hoped to be strictly disciplined.
In this regard, the boy's mother did not apologize, but instead asked the girl's mother with a very bad attitude what she had to do to be satisfied.
The girl's mother was not choked by her words either, and she told the boy's mother that she wanted her to educate her son well and apologize to her own daughter, which was what she should do.
At this time, the boy's mother still has a bad attitude, using the naughtiness of the kindergarten child as an excuse to tell the girl's mother that she can't do it to make her son stop bullying next time.
The girl's mother is also not a vegetarian, and told the boy's mother bluntly that if she can't educate the child well, then she can only educate herself.
The child's father watched the storm and felt unfair to bao's mother. The mother's son has not bullied people once or twice, and the teacher does not listen to how to discipline, and when he finds a loophole, he will bully people, which is the number one person who makes the teachers particularly headache. Their own children trouble the teacher and harass their classmates, which is already their own problem and should be well disciplined. In ancient times, this was called a family style.
However, she not only did not educate her son well, but also indulged her son to bully his classmates, and even said such words, which made many parents whose children were bullied by boys very angry. Many parents blamed the mother in the parent group and turned over one thing.
Her son once held the tip of a pen in the eyes of another daughter, and you must know that the slightest carelessness will cause her to lose her light. After the parents heard about this incident, they were even more indignant.
After all, he can point the pen at the daughter of another family, and he can take the pen to his own daughter. So parents told the teachers not to separate their children with the boy to avoid accidents.
At this time, the boy's mother did not dare to scare the girl's mother, and she chose to remain silent. This kind of shrunken-headed turtle's behavior is really not like something that an adult can do.
But parents will not be so calculated, since she does not care to teach children, then let netizens evaluate and evaluate children. Someone posted a screenshot of the parent group online, and netizens blamed the boy and the boy's mother.
This incident tells us that not everyone in this world can reason with her. So, how do parents educate their children so that they don't suffer from school bullying?
The impact of school bullying is very serious. The survey found that at least 40% of students who suffered from school bullying would stop going to school and ruin their future. At least 25% of students do not come to school for a short period of time. Few people are able to continue school after school bullying, mentally the same as before.
The father of the kindergarten kid had a friend who had been classmates. The friend was very thin, and his classmates would often make fun of him and even physically attack him.
However, at that time, my friend's parents told my friend this. His parents taught him not to always play with them, not to always provoke them. They're not bullying you, they're joking with you.
A friend's parents may forget it and not take it seriously. However, for his friends at that time, this remark from his parents made him suffer more deeply from school bullying.
And the inaction of his parents made him not escape the bullying in school. In the school bullying, his psychological state has deteriorated a lot, and his grades have also declined. The whole person became cowering and shrinking, afraid to speak. He did not finish his studies, and when he reached junior high school, he took a break from school to work.
This incident tells us that when children are bullied in school, parents must not be inappropriate, and do not tell children to be patient. This will only lead the child into self-denial, affecting learning and affecting the psychological state.
So when children encounter school bullying, how do parents teach their children to be correct?
The first method of education is to enhance the child's physique. Persimmons pick soft pinches, which is why friends are bullied in school. If his own child is tall and tall, then his classmates want to bully him, but they can't bully him.
The second educational method encourages children to make more friends. Experts found that 72 percent of kids got rid of school bullying because they made new friends. Friends are a weapon of support, and you can also exercise your child's social skills. After all, socializing is important in the future.
The third method of education is to be sure to tell children about school bullying when they are young. Some parents believe that when their children are not exposed to the evil side, they do not need to tell their children. After all, the child is very simple and does not want to let her understand this dark side too soon.
But it only hurts children, and experts show that at least half of the children don't know what to do when they are bullied in schools. They don't know how to refuse, they don't know how to say "no" to their classmates, "I don't like this behavior", etc. If his position is not firm, his classmates will continue to bully him when they find him bullying.
If you have children, then Xiaobian strongly recommends that you take your children to read the "Children's Anti-Bullying Awareness Enlightenment Education Picture Book". This set of books tells children how to deal with bullying in schools. It's not just boring text, but also vivid and interesting pictures that allow children to have patience to read through it and know how to deal with school bullying.
After reading this set of books, the child's heart is bottomed. He will know what bad people are in this world and will respond correctly when he encounters bad people. Know to be brave enough to say "no" out loud when you meet a bad guy. I don't like to be ridiculed or insulted, and I don't like that, so don't do it again in the future.
There are eight books in this set. Eight books tell children in great detail what to do when they encounter school bullying. There is also audio, which parents can play and learn about school bullying with their children.
Anti-school bullying is very important, no one wants their children to be bullied by other children, right? Parents are not in school every day, and they can't control the behavior of those bastards. Feedback to the teacher also takes a certain amount of time, and it is not necessarily successful. At this time, the child knows how to deal with it, and the parents can be reassured a lot.