As a parent, first of all, we must teach our children to oppose bullying in schools, and when facing bullying, we must have the courage to say no. At the same time, it is also necessary to educate children, not to be bullied and not to bully others. Many perpetrators of school bullying, family education must be missing, parents must have forgotten to tell their children, can not bully others.
Many film and television dramas have depicted campus bullying, such as Guo Jingming's "Sorrow Against the River", And Yi Yao's encounter is the most extreme epitome of campus bullying. After watching it, it was really depressing, not to mention the parties who were bullied every day, how desperate they should have been at that time.
There is also a movie "Young You" is also a campus bullying theme, Chen Nian, played by Zhou Dongyu, suffered serious school bullying and was bullied by various kinds, and later Xiao Bei, played by Yi Qianxi, secretly protected her after appearing, so that her original dark world had a little more light. In fact, the bullied crowd is a very heart-wrenching crowd, whether physically or mentally, there will be indelible trauma, it is difficult to be healed.
No matter what age, there will be bullying, even there may be verbal bullying between children, in the "Kindergarten" documentary, a little boy pointed at the little girl and shouted: "Don't sit with me!" Another boy also said, 'I also don't like it when you do what I do across from me. I didn't expect that such a small child would also have a mean side, maybe it was nothing in their opinion, but for the little girl, the mood may be very low because of this sentence.
The harm of language violence to people is also very strong, as an ordinary person, you may encounter a lot of such things, but also know the way to deal with this kind of thing, that is, to fight back, if you endure once, endure twice, always do not fight back, will give others the illusion of good bullying, will have to inch forward, this is human nature.
As a parent, teaching your child to fight back against school bullying is the key and an important step in growth, and nothing is more important than your child's physical and mental health.
If the child bravely fights back when he encounters "bullying", others will feel that the child is not good, and the next time he encounters a problem, he will not treat it in the same way. This is human nature, whether adults or children, there will be more or less bullying and fear of hard mentality.
If the child does not know how to fight back and blindly shows that he is very cowardly, where does the confidence come from? Where does bravery come from? As a parent, we must teach our children to deal with problems that may occur, teach children in advance, and deal with these methods and techniques, so that they will not be bullied and avoid the problem of being bullied. Every pair of parents should prepare a "Children's Anti-Bullying Awareness Enlightenment Education Picture Book" for their children to increase their awareness of prevention and learn the ways and methods of coping.
There are 8 volumes in this picture book, which tell how to deal with rumors when they are rumored, how to refuse when they are robbed, how to fight back when they are ridiculed, and how to deal with them when they are touched.
Standing in the child's position, more able to empathize, from the child's point of view to describe, more able to strengthen understanding. Use a lot of small stories to teach children the big truth.
There are some real cases of being bullied in the book, look at how the protagonist in the case responds, and more realistically learn the skills and methods from the case to deal with these things. Eventually become a braver and better child.
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When a child learns to refuse bullying, in the true sense, it forms a character that is not bullied, which is very beneficial for future development.
In the face of bullying, we must be brave and blindly tolerate, which may cause more serious consequences. Blindly forbearance will make yourself inferior and cowardly, which is really not possible, and will have a huge impact on your future personality. A happy childhood can cure a lifetime, an unhappy childhood requires a lifetime to heal, and rejecting bullying starts from a young age. Fundamentally become more confident, courageous, and never weak in the face of bullying. This set of books has a good educational significance and is a must for every family. Let children develop a tenacious and indomitable character from an early age.