I have seen a message before, saying that a 14-year-old middle school student in a middle school had a physical conflict with a classmate, which led to the death of a classmate.
This news has caused a lot of hot discussion among netizens for a while, especially netizens who have become parents.
Campus bullying has become a problem that has to be ignored, some netizens posted that if their children suffer from campus bullying, they will definitely let their children return teeth for eyes, and absolutely cannot promote their arrogance.
Some netizens said that in the future, they must teach their children not to swallow their anger in the face of school bullying, and to tell parents and teachers in time, so as to avoid the further occurrence of tragedies.
When a child encounters "bullying", parents should teach their children these things, rather than teaching him to retaliate with tit-for-tat
Someone bullies you, don't be afraid, mom and dad will always be your backing.
I remember when I was a student, I once encountered school bullying, at that time I was the youngest student in the class, and I was also the only student who transferred to this class halfway, there was a big student in the class, seeing that I was thin and small, thinking that I was a bully, he asked me to take pocket money to buy him snacks, otherwise he would "clean up" me.
In the face of such intimidation, I did not give in, but immediately informed the teacher of the matter, the teacher called my parents and his parents to the school, educated him, and since then, he has never mentioned the matter of buying him snacks, nor has he bullied me again.
However, not every child will properly deal with bullying in school, and some children will choose to swallow in the face of such things.
Because they felt that it was a shame to inform parents and teachers of such things, they chose to face the school bullying alone.
For example, some parents will let their children fight back, but if their children can beat other classmates, how can they suffer from campus bullying?
And some parents think that there is a problem with their own children, why do others bully you instead of bullying other students? Such a victim guilt theory makes the child heartbroken.
Tell your child the right way to deal with bullying in school and nip it in the bud.
A few years ago, when my nephew was in middle school, he was bullied in school, and one day on his way to school, he met several senior students in the same school who asked him for money to buy cigarettes, and beat him if he didn't give it.
This blackmail continued for many months, until my sister found the bruises on her nephew's face, realized the seriousness of the problem, and hurried to the school to report to the teacher.
Finally, with the help of the teacher, the school's monitoring was retrieved, and it was discovered that the child had suffered in the past few months.
In the face of campus bullying, you must not swallow your anger, once you swallow, others will think that you are weak, and then they will become more and more bullying you.
But we must not retaliate with tit-for-tat, eye for eye, that will cause unnecessary losses to ourselves, the correct way is to inform teachers and parents in a timely manner, and seek help from parents and teachers.
If the problem is more serious, you should promptly report to the police and take up the weapon of the law to maintain your personal safety.
Enhance children's awareness of self-protection to the greatest extent possible to prevent children from being bullied in school.
In the eyes of some parents, school bullying is generally encountered by children in middle and high schools, and kindergartens and primary schools will certainly not have such incidents.
But in fact, school bullying is regardless of age, and children in kindergartens and primary schools are likely to be bullied by other classmates.
For example, because of something to suffer from the isolation of other students, or there are classmates in the class who bully other students with strong bodies, these are hidden bullying, and the impact on the physical and mental health of young children is very large, and in the long run, it will even lead to children forming a cowardly character and inferiority psychology.
So how do we teach children to distinguish between school bullying and stay away from the harm of school bullying?
Here to recommend a set of "learn to say "no" loudly: teach children to distinguish bullying, away from harm", this set of books a total of 8 volumes, compiled by a professional child psychology research team, this set of books with 8 protagonists of the story, but also with exquisite American illustrations, so that children can read the story, understand what is school bullying, in the face of school bullying should be done.
After ms. Huang saw all kinds of school bullying incidents on the Internet, she began to worry that young children would be bullied in kindergartens, so she bought this set of books for her children.
After buying this set of books, Ms. Huang will spend half an hour every day reading the above stories with her children.
With the passage of time, Ms. Huang found that this set of books is different, this set of books not only from the perspective of children, to tell children how to deal with bullying in the face of school bullying, but also from the perspective of psychology, tell children how to adjust their mentality when facing different hidden bullying, and truly protect the "physical and mental" health of children and improve children's reverse quotient.
Now this set of books is doing activities, only 39.9 yuan, if you are worried that your child will encounter bullying in kindergarten, you may wish to show your child this set of books, so that children learn how to distinguish bullying, away from the harm caused by bullying.
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