In school, parents and teachers are most afraid of one thing, is school bullying, these phenomena appear most often in junior high school, this time the children are in adolescence rebellious time, the more you do not let him do anything he wants to do with you, many rebellious children will often sprinkle anger on their classmates, so there will be school bullying.
Recently, an 8-year-old female classmate of Jinsha Primary School in Zhengzhou City, Henan Province, danced a dance on the hot search, this dance revolves around campus bullying, mainly about how to oppose campus bullying, this real picture makes the parents who watched it cry, some parents even thought of their children being bullied in school, every picture pokes at people's hearts, so in our lives, what kind of children are most likely to suffer from campus bullying?
The first category is people who do not fit in with the class, people who do not fit in with the class, their lives will become very single, very lonely, campus bullying is actually a struggle to bully more, those bullies in the school are generally based on groups, almost all of them are a group of people bullying a person, and people who do not fit in with the class, in their view, is an independent individual, losing the protection of the class group, they will naturally choose to bully you, when you are bullied, it is not that you are not good enough, It may be a warning that you are out of the group.
The second category is people with weak personalities, we all know that whether in school or in society, most of the bullies are bullying soft and afraid of hard, the weaker your character is, the more they bully you, the more they have a sense of achievement, because your weakness is to give them a flame, if your character is very weak, when they bully you, you certainly do not dare to tell parents, teachers, they can not be punished as they deserve, will only become more and more arrogant, think that no one in this school can subdue them, the more weak you are, The more you are bullied.
The third category is people who can't say things directly, the first thing this kind of child thinks about when they encounter things is whether they can talk to their parents or teachers, whether they will beat me, this kind of child will have such a thought, generally from the behavior of parents, some parents often scold children because of some small things, for a long time, children are reluctant to say anything, they are afraid to say it and will be beaten, so they are bullied, they would rather be aggrieved in their hearts, than say it and then be scolded by their parents.
The fourth category is the people who have grievances but cannot say, this type of people and the nature of the third type of people is the same, some children are bullied at school, the heart is very wronged, run back to tell their parents, parents say why people can not meet such a thing, you can meet, in the face of parents such an attitude, over time, even if they are wronged in school, they will not come to their parents to cry, lose the parents of this dependence, those people will only bully them more brazenly.
Therefore, even if we live a very hard life and work very tired every day, we cannot neglect the feelings of our children, and even if we have more resentment, we cannot sprinkle on our children, such actions will only push them farther and farther away. Even if we are tired one day, we must listen to what happened to the child at school one day, we must not put ourselves out of the matter, the child is a part of our life, one day because of our rebuke will be far away from the distance between the child and us, then our hard work in this life will be wasted, originally we worked so hard to make money is to give the child a good living environment, so we must not do this kind of thing that is not worth the loss.