In the world of feelings, we must have our own bottom line, because two people can love each other, which is originally a blessing cultivated in a past life, so we cannot do anything to be sorry for our children and the other half.
In real life, we are often emotional in the face of feelings, so we will easily hurt each other because of a momentary confusion, but if you just join this person because of freshness, then you can never escape the dead cycle of freshness.
When you have your partner, if you can't stick to your bottom line, your family will also become broken.
Two people who have a family with each other, but secretly love each other, do two words to win, that is, a trade-off.
Wang Jing and her husband have been married for 7 years, the two met through work, when Wang Jing's husband was her party A, when she first saw this man, Wang Jing was attracted by the charm of this man, and later in the process of communication between the two, the three views are particularly suitable, so the relationship between the two has become more and more intimate.
Later, Wang Jing took the initiative to pursue this man, the two also under the catalyst of love, smoothly entered the palace of marriage, after marriage, the emotional life of the two is also very sweet, giving birth to a son and a daughter, but the arrival of the child, but the feelings between the two become particularly cold.
Because she has to take care of her children at home, Wang Jing basically has no time to make up and dress herself, which makes her husband particularly dislike her, and in her husband's eyes, Wang Jing has long lost her charm.
At this time, Wang Jing's husband chose to divorce, and even did not hide the fact that he cheated in marriage, that is, this incident made Wang Jing completely dead to the husband he once loved.
In married life, in fact, the most feared is indifference, two people together, if you can not get along well, then do not hurt each other, extramarital affairs, often the killer of married life, such a practice is also cold and ruthless to each other.
For two people who have families with each other, if they secretly love each other, in fact, it hurts nothing more than two families, but what we do not deny is that each of us has the right to pursue happiness. But the sense of responsibility for the family is also the embodiment of our character.
When you're in love with someone you shouldn't love, you have to understand that the person who has been by your side is the most important.
Love and marriage are sacred, and we cannot lose care and companionship for each other because our passions are dissipated.
The trade-off we are talking about here is actually to let us look at a relationship with a rational attitude.
By taking what we mean here, we mean people who cannot be abandoned.
The renunciation mentioned here refers to our renunciation of feelings that we should not have.
If the person you like also has a family of their own, then with the attitude of being responsible for your own family, you must also learn to cut through the mess quickly.
Some like it, but it's just because of a momentary impulse, so you have to learn to think twice.
When you find that there is already an ambiguous atmosphere between you, you have to learn to cut off the connection with each other and return to family life, if you have been trapped in it, then in the end Shanghai is only two people.
When the feelings between you are not particularly strong, it is easier to give up on each other, maybe at the beginning you will feel pain, but when you really understand each other, you will understand the true meaning of giving up.
In fact, it is normal for other people of the opposite sex to be moved after marriage, but we must adhere to our own bottom line and principles at all times.
When you have feelings for others, you have to think about your own family and children, and even think back to the happy moments of yourself and your lover.
If you have feelings for others after marriage, then giving up decisively is the best choice, because a person's heart can only hold one person, and there are too many people, then in the end it will become a kind of harm.
Don't indulge your love, don't let the sharp arrow of desire shoot you. —Shakespeare
No one's married life will be smooth sailing, two people in the family life conflict is also a normal thing, if you because of a momentary happiness and confuse your eyes, then in the end the relationship will become dispensable.
There is no regret medicine to take in this world, and each of us will pay for what we have done wrong, so when you find yourself with bad signs, you have to learn to stop the loss in time.
It is not so easy to let go of a loved one, but when you understand what love is, you can cherish the people around you more.
If you are loved by others, then love others and make yourself lovely. - Franklin
In love, the most taboo is betrayal, because if you hurt the person who loves you deeply because of a momentary confusion, then the road to love will become far away in the end.
I also hope that everyone can assume their responsibilities in their feelings, rather than changing people frequently.