Text/Moran
Good relationships are actually based on management.
Many times, the more intimate, the more attention should be paid to proportions, grasp, do not fight for a good relationship with each other, just say some unscrupulous words, it is easy to hurt each other's feelings.
It is said that the speaker has no intention, the listener has intentions, and sometimes if you say something without a heart, you may hurt a person.
In the process of getting along, you should talk less, do more, even if the relationship is good, do not say anything.
As the saying goes, illness comes in from the mouth, disaster comes out of the mouth, get along with people to know how to be careful in words and deeds, no matter how good the relationship, do not easily say these words, otherwise it is easy to destroy feelings.
Arrogant and arrogant
Two people get along together, no matter how good each other is, how big the gap is, the minimum respect should be.
Since as friends, the relationship between two people is good, it is more important to know how to respect, worry about each other's feelings, and consider each other's feelings when speaking and doing things.
It is said that people who are truly emotionally intelligent and intelligent will never blindly express themselves, and they will not show their advantages in front of their friends.
You know, this arrogance of yours is a kind of showing off and disrespect to the other party, which may be a basic display for you, but everyone thinks differently.
Born as a person, get along with people as much as possible to maintain humility, as a friend to maintain a sincere posture, others will be willing to communicate with you.
If you show your superiority at every turn, no one will want to have a deep friendship with you, and this will also affect each other's relationship. Maintaining a humble, low-key, sincere attitude is the best quality of a person.
Casual jokes
In fact, many times the words of the people around you have a great impact on a person.
Especially if the relationship is good, the other party will put a word you casually on the heart, and you will randomly ridicule it, and it will also make the other party doubt themselves.
People are sometimes very vulnerable, and the more sensitive people are, the more they care about other people's opinions.
As friends, you can joke, but you can't overdo it, and you can't take teasing others as the joy of life.
Everyone has their own thoughts and dignity, and the more they care about each other's relationship, the more they must know how to protect each other's hearts.
In daily life, sometimes we forget each other, casually tease each other, or ridicule each other, in fact, these small details are easy to hurt a person's heart.
No matter how good the relationship between each other, we must learn to grasp the measure, we must learn to respect, do not fight for each other's good relationship, just wanton ridicule, do not know that everyone's degree of tolerance is different.
Hit other people's harsh words
I believe that there will always be such a group of people in real life, who may have some achievements in themselves, and they will not look at others in their eyes, even if they are close friends, they will not put it in their eyes at all.
When a person reaches this point, that is, when he loses his friends.
Everyone's life is immeasurable, and nothing now does not mean that there will be nothing in the future.
If you stand on the moral high ground to hit others when you have achieved something, it is disrespectful to the other party.
As friends, what you have to do is encourage the other person to grow, not to discourage the other person's enthusiasm.
When a person is deeper and deeper into difficulties, as a friend, it is not to say cool words there, but to give each other strength and support, to give more support and encouragement, so that the relationship between each other will be better.
summary:
Getting along with people is originally a science, no matter how good the relationship, don't forget the original intention, forget the essence of your original togetherness.
If you say that a little achievement is forgotten, such a person does not deserve to have friends.
Therefore, when getting along with people, no matter how good the relationship is, we must also learn to respect, and do not say some hurtful crazy words, jokes, and cruel words to destroy each other's feelings.