Text/Moran
Regarding the feelings between the opposite sex, it is actually very wonderful.
In the process of getting along between men and women, we must know how to grasp the degree and maintain a certain distance and way in order to get along and erase. A good heterosexual relationship is more of a process of mutual growth.
Two people together will experience some setbacks and tests, but the attitude towards each other's feelings will directly affect each other's feelings.
The real long-lasting relationship is to find the most suitable way to get along with each other. Therefore, between men and women, if they do this, they can enjoy long-term love.
Mutual respect, mutual recognition
A long-term relationship is always based on mutual respect.
Everyone has their own life and secrets, and to love someone is to learn to respect and give each other space. Since you are with a person, you must recognize the other party and respect each other's words and deeds.
Two people together, will experience a lot of things, sometimes there may be misunderstandings, sometimes doubts, at this time to come up with their own attitude.
In any case, the basis of loving a person is to give respect and affirmation to the other party, and to love him is to firmly believe in the other party and determine his character.
If you say that you are with a person, you are always disgusted and suspicious, such feelings cannot stand the test.
The real long-term relationship has always been to let go of each other's prejudices, to be able to recognize this person from the bottom of your heart, and to be willing to grow together and make progress together.
Only by maintaining mutual independence and respect for each other will the feelings become more and more harmonious.
Understand each other and tolerate each other
When two people are together, even the best feelings will have contradictions, and at this time, they must test each other's feelings.
Good feelings are more about being able to understand each other, being able to know how to accommodate and tolerate. To love someone is to think from the other person's point of view, rather than blindly satisfying the self.
Originally, two people coming together is the collision of independent individuals, and there are problems that are normal, but the attitude towards problems determines how far you can go.
Encountering problems with each other is not a problem, the key lies in how you solve and face them. To truly love someone is not to be calculated, but to learn to be tolerant.
With a person, the other party only sees themselves, does not know how to compromise, such a person is not worthy of love.
True love is that each other is willing to give in, know how to think differently, understand each other, and be willing to make changes, only such feelings can go better.
Trust each other and be honest with each other
In a relationship, everyone may make mistakes, and everyone will have their own secrets.
But for the people you love, the best way is to be honest with each other, choose to believe each other, and not be too jealous.
Loving someone is more about giving each other a space than moral kidnapping in the name of love to control each other.
Many people are accustomed to demanding that the other party has no secrets about themselves, but a good relationship is to choose trust, no matter what happens, always willing to believe the other party, rather than hearsay.
Your blind guessing will only push the other person farther. If a person truly loves you, there is no need to test it, he will give you enough security and make you feel at ease.
But anything that you need to work hard to prove is actually meaningless.
Your distrust, your defense, will only make the other party disappointed in the feelings little by little, and finally completely hopeless.
Therefore, good feelings are built in a comfortable way and distance, giving each other space, not blindly doubting.
summary:
I have always felt that since I have chosen a person, I must believe unconditionally.
Since you love someone, give each other a little more space so that each other can be themselves, and sometimes the more you manage, the closer you get, the more counterproductive it is.
After all, good feelings need to be thin and long-term, maintain a good state, get along comfortably, and the feelings will be long-lasting.