Husbands and wives should be honest with each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, and must not cheat or conceal. At the moment of entering marriage, you must be ready to stay with each other for a lifetime.
Some couples have been together for a lifetime, although there is a small quarrel, but it does not affect the feelings of husband and wife, because two people will inevitably bump into each other for a long time, as long as it is not a matter that touches the bottom line, there is no need to go on the line.
However, some couples fight not long after they get married, clamoring for divorce, and even going to court. Originally an intimate lover, it is also a last resort to get to this point, usually one of the parties has done something unbearable.
Just like the following couple, the woman who has been married for two years will divorce, and the man will fight when he learns the truth, and even sue his wife in court. So, why should a wife get a divorce? And what makes the honest husband fight?
Liu Fei, thick and honest, family conditions are average, to 30 years old or bare sticks, the family is worried about his marriage. He himself was anxious to straighten his hair, until he was introduced by the matchmaker to meet the 22-year-old He Jing, and then he had his own small family.
He Jing is a full 8 years younger than Liu Fei, and Liu Fei is naturally very fond of her. The two men had an intimate relationship soon after they met, and soon afterwards they got married. Soon after the marriage, He Jing became pregnant, and Liu Fei was naturally very happy. In order to earn more money to support his wife and children, Liu Fei chose to go out to work.
Although it is very hard to work outside, liu fei is full of strength when he thinks of his wife and children in his hometown, and he sends all the money he earns back to his wife in his hometown. However, when the child was two years old, Liu Fei, who was working outside the home, received a divorce complaint from his wife.
Liu Fei didn't know what had happened, because there was no conflict between him and his wife, so why did his wife file for divorce? In order to dispel the doubts in his heart, Liu Fei hurried back to his hometown.
When I returned to my hometown, I saw that the bed sheets and quilt covers at home, including furniture, etc., had been moved to her mother's house by my wife. Originally, He Jing said that she was tired of carrying a child at home alone, so she wanted to go back to her mother's house with her child. Liu Fei's father felt that a person with a child without help was indeed more tired, so he did not think much about it.
Liu Fei felt that his wife's marriage to himself was a scam, because the neighbors said that the children did not look like him, and he himself looked at the children in the photos, and indeed there was no place like himself, and then he thought of the suspicious signs before marriage, and his heart was more suspicious.
Liu Fei and his wife had an intimate relationship shortly after they met, and his wife was more active than him, and now that I think about it, maybe my wife was trying to hide something at that time. When they went to apply for a marriage license, the wife filled in the marriage registration form for the first marriage, but the staff changed it to a second marriage.
But Liu Fei, who was honest and generous, was embarrassed to ask his wife. It was not until the night of the wedding that Liu Fei expressed his doubts to his wife. His wife told him that she had been married once before, but because her ex-husband had mental problems, she divorced not long after she got married.
Liu Fei listened to not only did not blame his wife, but felt that his wife was a victim, and he should be better to her, not to mention that they had already obtained a marriage license, and his wife was pregnant with her own child.
And now that I think about it, everything is like a scam. Liu Fei immediately ran to He Jing's house, picked up the two-year-old child and left. But the people in He Jing's family saw him holding the child and snatched the child from his hands. This made him even more suspicious, because if there was no problem, why would they stop him from holding the child?
Liu Fei asked He Jing to come out and give an explanation, but He Jing had been avoiding him, and Liu Fei was angry and made a big fuss over there, and even moved his hands. He picked up a small bench and tried to smash He Jing, but unexpectedly hit one of He Jing's grandmothers.
Because Liu Fei was making trouble, a relative of He Jing's family rushed out and beat Liu Fei. The honest and generous Liu Fei was not the opponent of the relative, and he beat him several times. After investigation, Liu Fei understood that his wife suffered from sheep epilepsy, so her ex-husband abandoned her.
But He Jing's aunt did not say so, she said that Liu Fei suspected He Jing's children for no reason, so He Jing was very angry and proposed a divorce. He also said that his niece herself knew best, and that she was not with other men at all.
Liu Fei secretly took the child to Shenzhen for a paternity test, and the results of the appraisal showed that the child and Liu Fei were not related by blood. However, the people in He Jing's family did not recognize the appraisal report, and said that Liu Fei must have used someone else's child to do this paternity test.
Liu Fei said that he would do another paternity test in front of the reporter, and He Jing's aunt would no longer speak. The fact is already obvious, He Jing concealed the fact that she had been married in a mad way, and married Liu Fei with someone else's child.
Liu Fei said he would go to court to sue He Jing and ask her to return the bride price and child support. In order to marry He Jing, Liu Fei's father used up the family's savings, and he did not expect that in the end it was such a scam.
Netizen views:
Some netizens said: This woman has gone too far, how can she deceive an honest man like this? Men who are too honest always do the takeover man, although it is not right to hit people, but they are also forced.
Some netizens said: This man obviously won, but hit people but lost. Because if you hit someone and hurt your grandmother by mistake, you will have to pay a certain price. For such a woman, it is not worth it.
Editor's opinion:
The most intolerable thing in marriage is concealment and deception, although He Jing has a history of marriage, but Liu Fei did not blame her for this, but was better for her. If it weren't for He Jing going too far, hiding his illness, and marrying him with someone else's child, Liu Fei wouldn't have been so impulsive.
Any breach of the bottom line in a marriage is intolerable, and since the decision to enter the marriage, it is impossible to hide cheating and do some intolerable behavior from the spouse.
A good marriage must be a husband and wife who help each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, and operate together. Only when two people work together can they run a home happily and stably.