Host Venus said:
"If men want to pursue teenage girls, they must use sweet words; men who want to pursue girls in their 20s must use flowers; men want to pursue women in their thirties and forties, and at this time they must use sincerity." 」
A woman's IQ will grow with age, and so will her emotional intelligence.
When a woman's IQ and emotional intelligence increase, when facing love, she will also become very rational, and when facing men, she will also have her own unique ideas.
However, no matter what age women are, they are eager for love, but after a certain age stage, women no longer long for the original romance, but long for that steadfastness.
A middle-aged woman, when facing the following three kinds of men, is also no resistance, which one are you?
01.
Warm men
If a man is warm enough, he can not see the woman's heart.
A middle-aged woman either suffered a loss in her feelings and did not get married for a long time, or she was hurt after getting married, so she divorced again.
Such a woman has a story in her heart, so it is easy to move, and her heart is relatively soft.
If a warm type of man appears at this time, the woman will feel that the man is a comfort in her own soul, and she is also willing to tell her heart to this man, and she is also willing to be with each other.
A warm man is more gentle, when a woman encounters something, the man will always accompany the woman, give the woman some warm language, so that the woman's heart has a sustenance.
Middle-aged women are accustomed to seeing the cold and warmth of the world, and will cherish warm people even more.
Maybe when you are young, the person that a woman pursues, love is vigorous, but after a certain age stage, you will find that even if you like each other again, the other party can't warm you, then, the other party is superfluous.
Therefore, warm men are very popular with women, no matter what age they are, as a warm man, everyone will like it very much.
Men must exercise their ability to be warm, and sometimes when they encounter something, you must know how to comfort the women around them. When you go to comfort this woman, the woman will also have some stability in her heart, and she will also be very secure, and feel that you love yourself very much and are very patient with yourself.
Some men are very cold when they face women, have a cold face when they come back, and when they speak, they still have a knife in their language, so that the feelings of two people will break even if they are good, not to mention that two people can develop from friends to lovers.
02.
Men with a lot of money
No one doesn't like money, as a woman, so as a man, you should make money well, and when you reach middle age, you should work harder to fight for your career, because at this time you are getting older and older, and your pressure is getting bigger and bigger.
When a woman reaches middle age, it is more realistic, so at this time, if the man does not have money, the woman does not want to be with the man.
If a man doesn't have a house and a car, then you can't feed a middle-aged woman.
Many men feel that the requirements of middle-aged women are relatively low, because teenage or 20-year-old girls are young and beautiful, but a middle-aged woman has nothing, and may find a poorer and handsome young man to marry.
In fact, a middle-aged woman is more demanding, because these women are more realistic than girls in their 20s, and these women will always consider each other's houses and cars when they consider marrying, and will always consider later life.
A middle-aged woman, in this society has experienced ups and downs, then at this time, women always feel that the most practical things in this society are the most important, the so-called romance and wind and snow, in fact, are empty talk, if there is no money, all this is in the mirror to see the flowers.
So you will find that when a woman reaches middle age, the requirements will be higher when she is blind date, more difficult than those young and beautiful girls, which is because the older the more realistic, at this time the view of men is not the same, generally no money men, these women are not worthy.
And if you are with this woman, you will find that such a woman has no feelings and often values the man's money. Because she has already been hurt in the relationship, or such a woman is looking for a rich person to wait until now.
Men must find a simple woman when looking for a woman, generally a middle-aged woman is not so simple, and being with you is not because of your charm, but because of your pockets.
Of course, there is always an exception to things, and it is better to have some middle-aged women.
03.
Capable men
If a man has the ability, such a man can enter the eyes of a middle-aged woman.
A middle-aged woman, under normal circumstances, will not like small fresh meat, because middle-aged women feel that such men are not mature enough, but also feel that such men are incompetent, so in their own eyes is not attractive.
A capable man can give women some help in life, so middle-aged women will find such men useful.
A capable man's career also has achievements above, so middle-aged women feel that such a man is attractive, and such a man's economic ability is also relatively strong.
If a man is successful in his career, he will also help this woman, maybe this woman does not have a job now, but because this man's job is better, the woman's work will be solved immediately.
A capable man will also make women feel that this man is very powerful, so they feel that this man is very attractive, and women have to think about relying on this man in their hearts, so at this time, women do not have any resistance to this man.
Men must exercise their abilities in their 20s, and when they are in their 30s, they will further develop, then, when they are middle-aged, they will be pure, at this time, you will become the best in everyone's eyes, and you cannot lack women around you.
When your ability reaches a certain level, you will know the meaning of that sentence:
"If you bloom, the butterflies will come."
Love sometimes depends on attraction, and capable men will attract more women.
Middle-aged women also have their own pursuits, and men are also essential. If this middle-aged woman does not have a man around her, at this time, the woman will also look at the more high-quality men around her. Then the above three kinds of men will attract such women.