Accompanying children to grow up, anger, joy, helpless emotions are collected in the softest hearts of parents.
However, no matter how in the hearts of every parent, children are the most precious and priceless.
Some time ago, after the video of the host Chun Ni playing with her children in the snow was posted on the Internet, many netizens sighed: Like my children, when they see snow, they will be happy.
After helping the child record the wonderful picture of playing with the snow, he interacted with the mother next to him, saying: Three years old is the most difficult for children to carry, and the younger the child, the better.
Although Chun Ni's words are simple, but almost all the mother's voices, in the minds of many mothers, when the child can not run or jump, it is the best to bring, and it is also the most fun time.
However, as children grow older, they enter the age of three, almost becoming the existence of "people who hate dogs and don't want to see".
The reason why the three-year-old child is criticized by the mothers of the whole network is entirely because of the following reasons.
【Reasons why it is difficult for 3-year-old children to bring】
1, curiosity is very strong
Children around the age of three, curiosity is very strong, maintain a strong curiosity and concentration on all things.
I hope to understand the world and the surrounding environment through my own exploration.
It is precisely because of their strong curiosity that they want to touch everything, they want to touch it.
The danger to parents' ears will not be taken to heart in the slightest.
This is also the reason why many parents are exhausted when caring for their three-year-old children.
Children at this stage do not know how to take care of themselves, and do not know the truth of the ruthlessness of water and fire, and are likely to fall into a dangerous environment, so parents dare not relax in the slightest.
2, the mobility is very fast
Compared to babies who can't crawl yet, three-year-olds are very fast.
Not only did they learn to walk, but they even used the running method every time they walked.
The speed of action is very fast, especially when parents take their children out, running on the road and in public places, and there are many hidden dangers in the surrounding environment that cannot be ignored.
This also makes many parents complain: three-year-old children are simply too energetic, and they must empty their parents' spirits at all times.
3. We are in a period of rebellion
As children grow, they go through several stages of rebellion, and three years old is their first rebellious period.
Everything likes to be at the top with parents, and this situation is completely to show the fact that they have "grown up".
In the face of parental advice and discouragement, they will not pay any attention to it.
This desperate effort to prove to parents the state of growing up has made many parents cry and laugh.
However, they are in a period of rebellion, which also makes many parents distressed, because they are completely unable to communicate.
4, express desire is very strong
Children around the age of three are the key periods when language and expression skills are gradually formed and established.
At this stage, their desire to express and express is very strong, and they are very eager to be recognized and praised by their parents.
Once parents are in a state of neglect of their behavior, they will also use their amazing destructive power to attract the attention of parents.
At this time, most of the parents' emotions are very grumpy, and they will even yell at them.
Children around the age of three are almost the natural enemies of their parents.
Always challenging the emotional bottom line of parents, and even the possibility of driving parents crazy.
However, if you can grasp the tricks and keys to get along with the three-year-old child, you will be able to make the parent-child relationship more harmonious, and at the same time, you can also make the child grow up in a more stable environment.
【How to get along with a 3-year-old】
1. Give equal respect
If you want to get along more peacefully with three-year-olds, use your own educational philosophy to guide them to grow up healthily.
The first thing to do is to give them enough respect, especially when they consult their parents, and don't treat them like children.
As long as parents can give three-year-olds equal respect in thought and behavior.
Although they are only three years old, the calmness and maturity they show will also make parents extremely happy.
2. Pay attention to the way of communication
When a three-year-old child tries to challenge the bottom line of parents and the destructive power is amazing, parents must pay attention to the attitude of communication with their children.
Stay in a more stable state, remember not to use the yelling method, this is ineffective, it will only provoke the three-year-old child, which is not good for their growth.
【Author's Message】
Montesquieu once said that he liked to read, which was equivalent to replacing the lonely light of life with a moment of great enjoyment.
Three years old, for every child, is a necessary stage, however, three years old is in the stage of sensitive thinking.
Whether they are in action or from the mind, they are in a stage of gradual transformation, but many parents complain: children brush the sense of existence.
In order to avoid wrong behavior in the first rebellious stage of your child and hinder their healthy growth, the method of getting along with a three-year-old is shared with you.
Today's topic sharing: What do you think are the most unacceptable behaviors of three-year-olds?