What if the senior year has a crush on someone?

Some people say that the third year of high school should be lonely, and all the emotional undercurrents should not appear at this time when they need to fight the most.

However, in the third year of high school, what if you know that someone has a crush on you, if you have a crush on someone else, if you have lost love?

Many small partners have these troubles, today I will talk to you.

In my third year of high school, I have a crush on someone, what to do?

@Anonymous user

I would like to hear the opinions of my friends. I'm a senior in high school and I really don't know what to do anymore.

I like a boy for a long time, two years, I also know, now is not the time to fall in love, a senior, and their own friends, told me to put the feelings aside first, high school, should fight for the ideal, but I really can't hold back, hold really uncomfortable, countless times told myself, can't think of him, people don't like you (I guess, maybe), but I think, high school, let him know that I like him, maybe I won't regret it.

At least I expressed my heart, no matter what he thought, whether he liked me or not, anyway, at least he knew that he liked him, and I also expressed that it might be better to say it. But I was also concerned about the series of problems that might arise after telling him, but I wanted to do it again.

He was always holding back, and he couldn't help but guess that his mind was also tired. But...... I can't express it clearly, but I can't help it.

Netizen Comments:

@CloudWay Star Airlines: Divert your attention, such as finding someone to chat with you every day to divert your attention.

@45* Smile: Always need to find a point to support yourself, plant a seed in your heart not to pay attention to him, it may be that you always deliberately care, in fact, without his days, don't you still live well?

@19 must realize the dream in the depths: feelings put aside first, learning is important, don't make the last as miserable as me back to re-read, I heard that he went to college to live very well, just began to re-read a few days he did come to greet me, care about me, but now it is!! I guess I have long liked others and forgotten about it, and I can see through these things.

@W.L.Z.: If you are friends, my personal advice is to wait until after the college entrance examination, because you want to think of the worst outcome, in case you fail (I mean if), you may not even be friends. So now what you have to do is to redouble your efforts and make yourself better, so that the probability of success will be much greater.

@ Yue Xinhan: It is recommended to put it down, after all, it is now the third year of high school, and falling in love is very energetic for girls.

@Jomy Han: There is a couple in our grade class B, every day in public, although this practice is too high-profile and undesirable, and their parents know that they are called to school, but they have both grades have been improving, boys with better grades have always been with girls to improve they are at the same table. Well...... This example is to illustrate that talking about love does not affect learning to see individuals, and for me personally, I think that crush and lost love are more hurtful. Of course, you can choose to use the reverse incentive method to remind yourself how much inner pain you have given up for the college entrance examination, and how much pain you must succeed in the college entrance examination in order to be worthy of the pain of these three years. Come on! There's nothing wrong with liking someone.

@ Shi Shi Xue: Or to recognize the reality, you can put your goals far, so that you will feel that you still have deficiencies, and it is possible that your attention will be more focused on learning. My experience is similar to yours, but she is in a key middle school, it is possible to guarantee Peking University, and I sprinted with her as the goal in the second middle school of the city.

@Krystal: I think the most important thing now is to study, I like a person for more than 4 years no matter when I think about him every time. As a result, high school studies are a mess today, and at that time, I couldn't help but confess that it is now a strange road.

In the third year of high school, what if you know that someone has a crush on you?

Let's first take a look at this little friend's troubles, I hope you have a better way to help her!

@ Empty travel has no dependence

To share a thing, there is a class of science upstairs a boy likes me, he did not confess to me, I know that after the class of last semester, the girls in their class told me, the girl said, the boy said that he had a long-term affection for me, everything is very liked, the girl asked him why he did not confess, he said I instigated.

Before that, I didn't know that I would say hello every time I met him every time I knew it, and I felt super embarrassed every time I saw him. Just after school, I met him at the intersection, he was riding an electric car, I was walking, close to home, five or six minutes away. I didn't know anything, said hello to him, said goodbye, green light, I walked forward, suddenly he followed, said, where is your home, I said it is not far ahead, XXX community. I said: Which direction do you go, he said it was okay, and then he kept following me, he said I'll send you, I said no, he said it's okay I'm not in a hurry. I said no, you hurry home, cold. He said, I'm not cold really. I said, I'm cold. He said I'll send you. Why haven't you let me, are you disgusted with me? I said no. He said, "But I am sad and disgusted with me." And then I went all the way to the door of my neighborhood, and when I arrived, I said goodbye to him, and he said goodbye.

But embarrassing, what to do, what to do tomorrow, what to do when you see him again! What to do is embarrassing!!! I'm still shaking...

Netizens' message:

@Little White Star: The words are just after 11.11, are you so good?

@ Blue Eyed Whale Cold Mix: Get used to it, don't care about him, study well, don't fall in love! Don't fall in love! Don't fall in love! Don't ask me why.

@Xiao Muxi: If you go on like this, you will also like him.

@ Try hard and try harder: like to consider, dislike to politely refuse, sooner or later have to face it... Just treat it as a friend, if you care, but let the other party think more.

@ Windmill: Lady, gentleman. No experience can save you.

@ Furry: You don't directly refuse, he wants to do what he wants to do, you are only responsible for the acceptance of what you want, the left ear that you don't want goes in and out of the right ear, if you directly refuse, he will feel very embarrassed, and you will, even friends, have no need to do.

@Hei Fu Ni: This boy is similar to me at the beginning, in my experience, you had better find an opportunity to be euphemistic, otherwise he will continue to be entangled, because you sometimes hesitate in some things, he will think that you have him in your heart, so, euphemistically tell him, you don't want to fall in love, you want to study, and also, don't say that high school does not plan to fall in love, after the college entrance examination, it is said, so it is possible that he will wait for you until the college entrance examination. I am such an example, like a person, wait for three years, after the college entrance examination what results, so, just study with peace of mind, face it calmly, be the best of yourself, love or something, wait for the fate later!

@That star: When the heart is moved, we are not too late to be brave; When we are brave, we have been scattered in time. We are creatures, and creatures have feelings. For the boy, if he really likes you, there is nothing you can do, he is him, you can't deprive people of the right to like you. But of course you can dislike him, make it clear sooner or later, or just be a normal friend and don't miss this wonderful old time. In addition, learning is not all people, and the importance of emotions is no less than learning.

@vision: As a high school student, you should make study your first priority, and fall in love with these things until you go to college. Tell him directly, I can only treat you like a big brother.

So, if the third year of high school is in love, what should I do?

In fact, for you in the college entrance examination, it is more important to study hard now and make yourself more excellent, and you will come into contact with more excellent people in the future.

But if you are already in love, at least make sure that the grades do not regress, or even progress, and do not become the rebellious child in the adult population.

If you want to enjoy the freedom to fall in love, you have to take responsibility for your own growth.

As a high school student, you are at least worthy of your parents and teachers and ta, as well as yourself.

Lu Xun once said: Don't neglect the essence of other lives for the sake of love—blind love.—

A person's life will go through several stages, each stage has its own specific tasks, the high school stage is mainly to deal with the college entrance examination, the others are secondary.

We want to be a smart person with a clear goal, as the saying goes: "The young man does not work hard, and the old man is sad."

Students, study hard!

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