Nowadays, with the improvement of people's living standards, many families have begun to put the education of their children in a very important position. Education has an irreplaceable and important role in personality shaping, good family education can benefit children for a lifetime, on the contrary, wrong family education may affect the happiness of children throughout life.
Nowadays, people have entered a new era, women's social status is becoming higher and higher, many women have received higher education, they are very hard in the workplace after graduation, and their ability to work is no less than that of men. But the difference between women and men is still obvious, and in some cases, women are often faced with many choices than men.
When those women in the workplace have children, they will almost all face a dilemma, they either choose to work, the child to their parents to bring, but the elderly education method may not be suitable for the development of modern society, some elderly people will be over-doting on children, which is very detrimental to the healthy growth of children.
Some mothers will give up their jobs for their children, choose to become a full-time mother, return to the family wholeheartedly, and sacrifice everything for the happiness of the family. Such a mother is great and admirable, but is the mother's bottomless effort really conducive to the growth of the child?
In fact, although full-time mothers are not a specific profession, full-time mothers work very hard every day. Full-time mothers not only need to take care of the family's living, but also to contract all the housework in the family, full-time mothers obviously pay a lot for the family, but because there is no financial resources, full-time mothers are often misunderstood by the family.
In the traditional view, the mother should be the most selfless person in the family, and the mother should sacrifice everything she has to meet the needs of her family members as much as possible. Influenced by this traditional thinking, many full-time mothers are very unhappy in their lives, they are often disliked by their husbands, they hate themselves for not trimming, complaining that they will only spend money, will not earn money, and the suffering of full-time mothers is only known to them.
In fact, there is a big difference between the children cultivated by full-time mothers and working mothers, there is a big difference between the daily life of full-time mothers and working mothers, and their personal relationships are also very different, which will invisibly affect the formation of children's personality.
Working mothers are busy with work all day and don't have a lot of time to spend with their children, and they often send their children to various childcare institutions. Because the mother is often not around, so in some simple things, children must do their own work, in such a growth environment, the child's heart will become more independent, their personality will be stronger.
And working mothers are often more hard at work, their vigorous attitude in the workplace will also affect the child, the child will pass on the mother to their own spirit in daily life to carry forward, the specific performance is that the child will be extra hard in learning, they will show greater self-motivation and desire to win.
Stay-at-home mothers have a lot of time to spend with their children, they can take good care of their children's daily lives, and under their meticulous care, their children will grow up happily and happily. Children who grow up in such an environment tend to have a gentle personality and are more at home. They are very down-to-earth in their studies, although they sometimes seem very unremarkable, but their hearts are very gentle and can bring people a warm force, but such children often mature later, and they will be extra dependent on their mothers.
Elementary school teachers have seen more children and have learned more about families, so they have their own unique views on some family education issues. Many primary school teachers do not advise some highly educated women to give up their careers for their children, on the one hand, out of consideration for the healthy growth of their children, on the other hand, out of the heartache of these full-time mothers, because they do the hardest work in the family, but do not have their due family status.