A working mother in the community, because she wants to return to the workplace, is afraid of rising milk because of work. So, she wanted to wean her baby early. Ask for help in the group of mothers in the community and ask which mother has experience. A mother shared her experience: boiling Northeast barley tea to drink.
The mother also specially reminded: if you cook barley tea and wean, you must cook it and drink it.
Like the situation of this working mother, I believe that there are many kinds in real life. Even if you are reluctant to have a child, you have to consider weaning your child.
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Wean your child
The matter of weaning the child really can't complain about the mother's cruelty. Although breastfeeding is now promoted, it is sometimes more important to be able to eat than to eat enough. Many mothers wean their children, really not for their own sake, but for the sake of the family.
Xiao Zhang of our unit, after giving birth to a child, took maternity leave and returned to the unit. After two days of drying, because of the problem of milk swelling, it was embarrassing at any time. The department leaders encountered did not understand very well, and often fell into the small Zhang. Xiao Zhang was wronged and went home to tell her husband that her husband did not understand and thought that Xiao Zhang was too sensitive.
There are many mothers like Xiao Zhang. In the workplace, the leaders you may encounter simply cannot understand. They just think that Xiao Zhang has returned to the unit, which proves that he can work. If you want to work, you should work as you used to. However, physical problems are really not so easy to endure. The pressure that Xiao Zhang is facing, on the one hand, is embarrassed to say it, and on the other hand, he does not know how to say it.
There are many mothers who choose to wean their children, but also to make work more convenient. Because, to repay the mortgage, to buy milk powder for children, such economic pressure, you must let the working mother maintain the same rhythm as before she was born. When a mom is determined to wean, she needs understanding, encouragement and support, not blame and discussion.
Although weaning is OK, weaning must be scientific and do not believe in home remedies. You know, home remedies weaning are more harmful to the physical and mental health of mothers.
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Scientific weaning
Just like the mom in our neighborhood, she wants to wean, but there really isn't anyone to ask. So, just want to find experience to ask. Why can't you ask your own mom? Because, the previous generation may not have been weaned.
When weaning, be sure to be scientific, do not superstitious folk remedies. If the home remedies are not hindered, it is okay, and if there is a problem, it is easy to cause other problems.
There is a saying in our hometown that nursing mothers cannot eat leeks. If you eat leeks, it is easy to return milk. If the milk is returned, the child will have nothing to eat. Therefore, nursing mothers must not eat leeks.
What do the facts look like? In fact, eating leeks during lactation is completely fine. My sister-in-law was breastfeeding, and she especially loved to eat dumplings stuffed with leeks, not only did not return milk, but also raised her children to be white and fat.
Therefore, when weaning, be sure to ask experienced people for advice, do not be blind. If there is really no one, you can also ask the doctor.
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Foods that can be weaned
Many mothers generally prefer to be safe when choosing to wean. Like the boiled barley tea recommended by another mother in our community, it is a commonly used one. In addition to barley tea, what other foods can be weaned? Recommended foods on the web are:
1, big supplement food: ginseng, pigeon soup, barley tea, etc.
2, vegetables: leeks, leeks, bitter melon, celery, coriander, toon, etc.
3, fruits: watermelon, persimmons, plums, hawthorn, etc.
4, seafood: snails, snails, crabs, etc.
5, seasoning: cinnamon, pepper, fennel, etc.
6. Others: mint, stir-fried malt, chrysanthemum tea, spirits, espresso, strong tea, chilled cold drinks, herbs and aromatic water, chocolate, etc.
For these foods, you can ask the people around you. Because, everyone's situation is different. Again, weaning should be scientific, don't be superstitious about folk remedies.