The TV series "Growing Up with You" is directed by Chen Kunhui and starring Liu Tao, Li Guangjie, Ying'er, Li Zonghan, Hu Ke, Jia Jinghui, Tao Xinran, Zhang Ruihan, and Zhang Lu.
The play tells the story of the challenges and growth experienced by 4 families with "cute babies at home" during the "kindergarten to primary school" period.
After watching this TV series, there are different degrees of understanding of several families in the play, and with the deepening of the plot, there are different understandings of the four mothers in the play.
"Xi Wang's mother" woke up as a full-fledged working mother, a big designer, usually a Buddhist mother, free range children, in order to make up for the "lack" when the child grew up in childhood, transformed into a chicken baby mother.
"Jiang Siyuan's mother" He Jinghua has strong social skills, no matter what others say, she can always smile and greet, and neighbors like to contact He Jinghua. Therefore, whenever there is a wind and grass, He Jinghua is always the first to know.
"Fan Fan Mother" Shen Xiaoyan's family is not rich, but his children are very smart and always the first in the class. In Shen Xiaoyan's educational philosophy, learning has never been forced to produce results. Only by respecting the wishes of children can they grow up physically and mentally healthy.
"Crescent Mother" Lin Yunyun is a full-time mother, in the eyes of outsiders, Lin Yunyun's life is bright and beautiful, living in a villa, being a full-time mother, her daughter is beautiful and smart, but only she knows that full-time mothers are not good, especially her husband likes to point out all kinds of pointing.
There is a very real point in the play, that is, the mothers do not seem to have their own names, and when the mothers communicate with each other in the kindergarten, they are all "xx mothers".
In reality, this is also the case, many women after giving birth, it seems to lose their own name, others all refer to them by the name of so-and-so mother, they themselves have long been accustomed to it.
In the play, Su Xing and Lin Yunyun were sworn enemies at first, and later became girlfriends, and the appearance of Su Yunyun made Lin Yunyun realize that the family environment in which she was living was destroying herself little by little.
Lin Yunyun from a full-time mother at the beginning to a strong woman in the workplace later made me feel that this woman was not ordinary.
In the play, Lin Yunyun is a full-time wife, who is also married into a rich family, living in a large villa, and in the eyes of outsiders, she is bright and beautiful, and she is a winner in life.
But she is actually very unattractive at home, everything she has is family-centered, and her life is always around her husband and children. Her husband, Gu Jiawei, is an extremely macho person, and Lin Yunyun is harshly reprimanded and ridiculed by him almost every day.
Kneeling to wipe the floor, kneeling to put on socks for her husband Gu Jiawei are common things. Noda villa, did not see a nanny, laundry and cooking with children are all Lin Yunyun alone.
In the play, Lin Yunyun and Su Xing have had many quarrels, which seems to be a war between two women, but in fact, the real contradiction comes from the psychological contest between full-time mothers and working mothers.
In the awakened heart of working mothers, stay-at-home mothers live a leisurely life every day, unlike her, who needs to earn money to support a family.
In the heart of full-time mother Lin Yunyun, it is her ideal type, she envies that She can wake up to be a dashing strong woman, which is why the two people later became girlfriends.
And with the encouragement of awakening, Lin Yunyun began to change herself and collided with her husband's thoughts.
Later, Lin Yunyun was found by Gu Jiawei when he was ready to escape, even though the luggage was locked in the code room, Lin Yunyun still left the villa with the crescent moon and came to Gu Jiawei's office in full costume to ask for divorce procedures.
After leaving Gu Jiawei, Lin Yunyun managed Wei yun to gu Jiawei's expectations, and Gu Jiawei realized how wrong he was before.
The workplace allowed Lin Yunyun to find her former self and let her have dignity in this family.
There is also a scene in the play that impressed me very much, that is, waking up at home to work, Xi Bin took his son Xi Wang to play, and ended up falling asleep, who knew that Xi Wang swallowed the ring on his father's hand.
When she woke up and went to Lin Yunyun's house, when she talked about this matter, Lin Yunyun's first reaction was that it was all the fault of awakening, how could she give the child to a man to bring?
This society is particularly unfair to women, they think that women's nature is the most important thing for children, even if they are excellent at work, but they do not take care of children, she is defined as a failed woman.
Women in the workplace are discriminated against in this way, let alone those stay-at-home mothers?
Stay-at-home mothers in the traditional sense, who build their self-worth on their husbands and children, have everything around their husbands and children, and have no own thoughts.
In fact, I think that stay-at-home mothers should pay more attention to themselves, find more new fun outside of parenting, try to get out of the idea of "children above all else", and not always be buried in a lot of parenting books and nutrition recipes.
Finally, whether you return to the workplace or continue to be a full-time mother, I hope that you can find your own life and realize the value of your life.
-end-
(The above pictures come from the Internet, if there is infringement, please contact the deletion of the picture)