"No matter how poor you are, you can't be poor in education, and no matter how hard you are, you can't be bitter about your children." In a word, it reveals the importance that Chinese parents attach to their children's education.
Over the years, TV dramas about children and families, such as "Tiger Mom and Cat Daddy", "Young Pie", "Little Parting", "Reading Mom", etc., will cause a hot discussion after each broadcast. Last year, a film known as "Growing Up with You" called "Growing Up with You" was broadcast for more than ten consecutive days to win the first place in the ratings of the six networks, and many parents shouted "real" after watching it.
"Growing Up with You" is starred by Liu Tao and Li Guangjie, co-starring Ying'er, Li Zonghan, Hu Ke, Tao Xinran, Jia Jinghui, Zhang Ruihan and many other powerful actors, Zhang Lu special starring, director Chen Kunhui directing, Liu Miying, Wu Ji, Cai Hui as screenwriters.
In the play, education policies, early childhood anxiety, private lottery, school district housing, pushing preferential quotas, full-time mothers... These current parenting environments and concepts, which are both real and crazy, are involved in every aspect. In order not to let the children lose at the starting line, the 4 groups of families staged different educational methods, and the children they raised also had their own characteristics.
"What is the most important thing for a family?" A thousand families will have a thousand answers, but either answer will lead to the ultimate answer without "children".
Su Xing (played by Liu Tao) and Xi Bin (played by Li Guangjie) is a dual-career family, as a gold medal designer, Su Wake's various design awards have been soft, the family hires a nanny, responsible for her son's study and living and housework, she only needs to work with peace of mind, husband Xi Bin's education of her son is also positive and happy, the husband and wife have not thought of giving their children any tutoring classes and interest classes, and their son Xi Wang has also grown into a lively and cheerful personality, and the family is happy and harmonious.
This seemingly problematic approach to education was overturned by her son after waking up to attend one of her son's debriefing performances. After comparing with the children around him, he woke up and changed the Buddhist system of the past, not only shifting the focus from work to the child, but also ignoring the persuasion of her husband, arranging a full set of learning tasks for her son, not memorizing formulas or doing exercises every day, and only wanting her son to catch up. But she is handy at work, tutoring children to write homework is always brought to the point of collapse, in her high-pressure state, the whole family is nervous, it seems that even the children have been forced out of the problem...
The families of Lin Yunyun (Played by Ying Er) and Gu Jiawei (Played by Li Zonghan) are typical "Wolf Father and Sheep Mother". Gu Jiawei is a company executive with excellent family conditions, and his wife Lin Yunyun is a full-time mother. But this mother is not a laid-back rich wife, because her husband is harsh on her daughter Crescent, "In our family dictionary, there is no second place, only the first place!" Lin Yunyun always bears great pressure, not only to contract all the housework at home, but also to take care of the children at all times, as small as what vitamins to eat, as large as what tutoring classes, to accompany the children to practice dance, practice the piano and also to help with homework, Lin Yunyun's daily time and mind are poured on her daughter, constantly running on the road of "chicken baby".
Adults still can't stand this kind of life, let alone children. For the 5-year-old crescent moon, she has never been encouraged by her father, some are just endless encouragement and blame, under the influence of her parents, the new moon, which is excellent in all aspects, seems to slowly become "vain, good face, love performance"...
He Jinghua (Hu Ke) and Jiang Bo (Jia Jinghui) are typical robbery-style families, with a son and a daughter, the daughter is in the rebellious period of adolescence, and the son is a little demon king of the mixed world. The eldest daughter was faced with a life choice, and was once intervened by He Jinghua, but the more she intervened, the more rebellious she became, until she realized her daughter's true thoughts, she realized that she was wrong, but it was too late.
And the youngest son Si Yuan is in the training class, if he does not study, he will not forget it, scribble, throw and tear, and every teacher will come to her to complain. The training class outside has been so wanton, and at home, it has been turned upside down, every day on the verge of being beaten and frantically tempted, which makes He Jinghua angry every day, while the little father Jiang Bo follows the two people every day to clean up the mess and maintain the harmony of the family. Coupled with the intergenerational doting of grandparents, a horizontal lever in family education makes the management of this family more difficult...
There is also a "single parenting" family composed of Shen Xiaoyan (Played by Tao Xinran) and Li Xiang (played by Zhang Ruihan), the couple was divorced, but in order not to let their children be ridiculed and discriminated against, they chose "divorce and not separation". For the sake of the child, Shen Xiaoyan is willing to work several jobs every day, hoping to provide a better learning environment for the child, report a good cram school, and not let the child fall behind.
Fortunately, the son is angry, is a full-fledged "cow baby", learning talent do not have to worry, but also very sensible, in the mall, he wants to play robots, but a class will be 380 yuan, see the mother's hesitation, Li Extraordinary decisively and his mother said "no play", it is really painful to understand people...
"Growing Up with You", four groups of families, four children, four kinds of education. Although the way of education is different, the heart of loving children is the same.
From the family education in the play, we can also see that parents always want to leave the best for their children, and do their best to make the next generation take fewer detours, but children always have their own way to go, and what parents can do is to guide, not to interfere too much.
In this "growth adventure", parenting is not self-nurturing. From March 19, Straits TV will accompany you to count parenting matters at 18:35 every night at 18:35.
Edit | He Jiayi
Editor-in-Chief | Wei Bennie
Producer | Wang Liming