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Ying'er's post was like a depth charge that triggered a chain reaction on social platforms. She was deeply touched by the plot of "Faint Fire", and her sympathy for Nanya couldn't help but resonate with the majority of netizens. With the "Mimang" she mentioned, the audience seemed to return to the previous drama "Imperfect Victim", which exposed the haze of domestic violence.
Ying'er's question caused a heated discussion, and for those women who have suffered domestic violence, leaving is not an easy matter. Netizens left messages one after another, some expressed their support, some offered legal advice, and even worse, began to post their legal knowledge in the comment area.
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Domestic violence is not something you can endure if you want to
In the public mind, the perception of domestic violence is often oversimplified. Many people will use "whose family has no contradictions" to draw a reluctant fig veil for domestic violence, and the elders in the family may advocate forbearance and reconciliation: "endure the calm for a while", "the husband and wife have no fault is the Jin family", hoping to use this as a bridge to get back together. But the truth is that every tolerance can be a catalyst for the next violence.
An emotional apology can be followed by more serious harm. This constant vicious circle has plunged victims into deeper despair again and again. Society's indifference and contempt for domestic violence is actually a kind of connivance for the perpetrator. Ying'er's speech is undoubtedly an attempt to break through this seemingly tranquil surface of water and reveal the cold reality lurking underneath.
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There is zero tolerance for domestic violence
The topic of domestic violence has become hot on the Internet, and netizens have launched a heated discussion in the comment area. On the one hand, women who have been victims of domestic violence have been reminded to collect evidence, report to the police and seek assistance from the Women's Federation. On the other hand, some people began to share their own relevant experiences or cases around them, showing the cruel reality of domestic violence and the difficulty of seeking help.
There is no shortage of humorous comments, such as a netizen who claims to be a "legal novice" left a message: "I thought marriage was the grave of love, but I didn't expect that for some people, it was simply a battlefield!"
Demystifying psychological warfare
Behind domestic violence, it is often accompanied by psychological manipulation by the perpetrator. Ying'er's post mentioned that even after the violence occurs, the perpetrator usually recovers the victim's forgiveness by apologizing and pleading, thus forming a vicious circle.
Netizens expressed great concern about this, and the comment section was full of discussions and analysis of the psychological state of the victims. Some netizens joked: "Every time I see the sentence 'He's just impulsive, he still loves you', my heart is rolling my eyes." ”
The double standard of society
The discussion gradually deepened into the attitude of society towards the problem of domestic violence. Many netizens pointed out that there is a concept in society that domestic violence is a private matter between husband and wife and should not be made public. Far from helping to solve the problem, this thinking has exacerbated the plight of the victims.
In the comment area, netizens exposed this double standard in a relaxed and humorous tone: "Outside, he is a gentleman who looks like a dog, and when he gets home, he transforms into a boxer." The mask on the outside is so tight. ”
The legal dilemma of domestic violence
Ying'er's call for domestic violence to be punished by law has resonated widely. Many netizens began to discuss the powerlessness of victims of domestic violence in the comment area in front of the law.
Some netizens jokingly said: "If domestic violence can be solved by law, then lawyers may be more profitable than psychiatrists." It aroused the thoughts of other netizens.
The courage to choose
Finally, Ying'er's post emphasized the importance of victims' actions. She reminded those struggling with domestic violence to stand up and fight for their rights.
The atmosphere in the comment section has also become more positive and encouraging, and many netizens have begun to exhort those victims to find themselves and get out of the shadow of domestic violence. A netizen who claimed to be "from the past" left a message: "It is more difficult to get out of the shadow of domestic violence than to climb to the sky, but as long as you take the first step, the sky is the limit." ”