A cry for help, a marriage, a violent incident behind a divorce
Preface
Recently, a surveillance video of the Jingzhou Jianli Expressway toll station has caused heated discussions on the Internet. In the video, a woman suddenly shouted for help when a black sedan passed by the toll booth, her voice was full of despair and fear, saying that her husband wanted to S her. Such a scene makes people unbearable to listen to, and people can't help but worry about the couple's marriage.
It turned out that the woman's call for help was not a momentary impulse, but because of a conflict with her husband, which even turned into a domestic violence incident. Under the circumstances, she felt that she was in great danger, which is why she made such a move, hoping to get help and attention from the outside world.
Although the police eventually intervened and mediated the couple, such an incident was still a wake-up call. Conflicts and run-ins in marriage are unavoidable, but once they cannot be properly handled, they can easily turn into violent incidents, bringing harm to family members and negatively affecting social stability.
1. Contradictions in marriage
Marriage is a responsibility and commitment, and it is also a relationship that requires both husband and wife to work together. In marriage, conflicts and frictions are unavoidable, and every couple needs to learn how to tolerate and understand each other, and how to properly deal with the contradictions between each other, so as to make the marriage go more smoothly and lasting.
However, marriage in real life is not always so rosy, and the conflicts between husband and wife can sometimes become very acute and serious, making both parties find it unbearable. Especially in the face of some major family decisions, such as fertility issues, economic problems, family responsibility distribution, etc., if the opinions of the two parties have differences, it is easy to have contradictions, and even affect each other's feelings.
In addition, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the personality differences of the husband and wife, living habits, etc., may become a contradiction in the marriage, if the two parties do not have enough communication and tolerance, such contradictions may gradually accumulate and eventually evolve into irreparable consequences.
2. Violence in marriage
Conflicts and frictions in a marriage are a very normal thing, but if not handled properly, they can turn into violent incidents that can cause harm and fear to family members.
Domestic violence is a very serious illegal act, which not only brings harm to the physical and mental health of the victim, but also has a negative impact on social stability. Moreover, domestic violence does not only refer to violence against husbands against wives, but also any form of violence between family members should be given sufficient attention and vigilance.
In this case of Jianli in Jingzhou, the situation at that time did give people the feeling that the husband was threatening his wife violently, because it can be clearly seen in the video that the husband is holding a knife and also waving at his wife, and the wife's expression is also full of fear and despair.
Such a situation cannot help but make people feel distressed by what happened to the wife and also indignant at the husband's behavior, because at any time, threatening someone with a knife is a very serious act of violence, and it is also a violation of the law, and no excuse for violence, for whatever reason.
3. Police involvement
In this case of domestic violence, in the end, the police intervened in a timely manner, mediated and criticized the husband and wife, and seriously dealt with the husband's illegal behavior, so that more serious consequences were avoided.
For domestic violence incidents, the intervention of the police is very important, they not only need to stop the violence in time, but also need to provide psychological counseling to both parties to help them properly deal with conflicts and re-establish healthy family relationships.
In addition, the police also need to carry out corresponding legal education for violent actors, so that they can realize the seriousness and consequences of their actions, and also need to deal with them in accordance with the law, so that they can bear the corresponding legal responsibility for their illegal acts, so as to effectively deter others and protect the legitimate rights and interests of victims.
epilogue
Conflicts and frictions in marriage are unavoidable, but no matter what difficulties and challenges arise, they should not be used as an excuse for violence, but need to be faced and solved rationally by both parties.
I hope that in the future life, every couple can know how to tolerate and understand each other, and also know how to properly deal with conflicts, so that the marriage can go longer and happier.
At the same time, it is also hoped that all aspects of society can pay enough attention to the problem of domestic violence, strengthen the rational understanding of marital relationships, and strengthen mental health education for family members, so that more people can realize the seriousness of domestic violence, so as to jointly create a harmonious and warm social environment.