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Under the background of the modern educational environment, children's education is more and more valued by families, and many families will want to have a person who specializes in bringing children. Thus, the "profession" of stay-at-home motherhood was born.
Stay-at-home mothers are fully committed to the education of their children and the care of their families.
The "benefit" of stay-at-home mothers is obvious, that is, they do not have to go to work, they can be at home every day, which is simply a "fairy-like" life for many office workers.
Many people have thought that in the future, they may want to be a full-time mother, and it is better to take the children at home every day.
However, the status of women in modern society has been effectively consolidated, many women have paid more and more attention to their career development, and even many mothers have devoted most of their energy to work in the process of taking their children, and they are more inclined to develop their own careers and rely on their own hard work to give their children a better future.
They are freer, more independent, and relatively speaking, they can achieve what they want to do by themselves.
So who will have a better life for stay-at-home moms and working moms?
Many people envy the life of full-time mothers, can not be bothered by work, only need to take children every day, do a good job of housework. However, at the same time, there are also people who think that work is the most important, want their own life, want to pursue their own ideals in life, which is not wrong.
Let's look at a comparison chart of a stay-at-home mom and a working mom, and compare the one-day life and work of a stay-at-home mom and a working mom to see which kind of life you will be more inclined to?
A day for stay-at-home moms and working moms
There is almost no difference between stay-at-home mothers and working mothers in the morning, they all get up around seven o'clock, and sometimes they will get up earlier, after all, they have to send their children to school.
However, full-time mothers are more carefully prepared for their children's breakfast, while working mothers pay more attention to their own external image, so they will spend more time grooming and dressing themselves, and the child's breakfast can be simple or rich, or it is sent directly to the kindergarten to eat.
The difference between a stay-at-home mom and a working mom when sending a child to kindergarten may be revealed. This is a little bit of a real feeling, working in the kindergarten for so long, this point is still more agreeable.
Stay-at-home moms have bland makeup, and it is likely that sometimes they simply wash their faces, get dressed, and send their children to school.
Working mothers, on the other hand, dress themselves exquisitely, giving people a more capable and beautiful feeling. It is said that the first impression will have a great impact on a person, the teacher will definitely have different educational methods and communication methods in the face of different parents, and the education of the child begins to go to the cross road.
Therefore, kindergarten parents are also advised to pick up their children without makeup, but do not wear pajamas to pick up their children.
After sending her children to school, full-time mothers can also prepare breakfast for themselves leisurely, and in the process of eating breakfast, they can also play with their mobile phones very leisurely, relax and relax, and they can also brush short videos, is it enviable?
Look at the full-time mother is rushing to the unit in a hurry, may be on the road to eat breakfast in a hurry, maybe breakfast can not be eaten, it is time to start the day's work. You said that you may also touch the fish and play with the mobile phone at work, which feels different!
After eating breakfast, the full-time mother began to have a day's routine "work" after playing with the mobile phone, cleaning and cleaning, cleaning her home clean, and giving the child a clean and comfortable environment.
The full-time mother is still working, but she is gradually tired, and she must do her job well when she touches the fish.
Doing housework seems to be most of the life of a stay-at-home mother, while working mothers have a short lunch break after lunch and start working in the afternoon.
But the afternoon work is always exhausting, and there is only one thing in mind: how long is there to leave work? I don't know if working mothers have also begun to envy full-time mothers at this time?
The advantage of stay-at-home mothers is that they have more time and can pick up and drop off their children from school every day.
However, working mothers can only ask their families or specially invited people to pick up their children to come home from school because of work reasons. Think about it, kindergarten is out of school at four or five o'clock, what work can leave work so early?
Even if the child is reported for a delayed service, the working mother will not be able to leave work at five o'clock to rush to the kindergarten.
Wait until after the child is out of school, the stay-at-home mother will play games with the child for a while, and then think about what dinner to give the child today, he will like it. Nutrition and deliciousness, of course, must be paired, and then start to tidy up again.
Working mothers do not have such an opportunity to give children, children will be taken care of by the elderly at home or better family conditions will ask a nanny to take care of children, but is this what children really want?
After dinner, the child will be ready to fall asleep after playing for a while, accompanying the child to parent-child reading, accompanying the child to read for the child's growth, the promotion of parent-child feelings have a decisive role. Stay-at-home moms will be happy!
But overtime is the norm for working mothers, busy after a day of work, working mothers also want to have some time to rest, but such wishes are sometimes extravagant, and they have to work overtime to meet and accompany their children? It's too hard!
After the child falls asleep, the stay-at-home mother ushers in her own "off-work time" and can relax.
This is a time of your own, you can communicate with the child's father or play with the mobile phone to relax, looking forward to tomorrow.
At this time, working mothers may have just finished a day's work, and the "996" work system is not too normal!
When you get home, the child has fallen asleep, even if you end the day's work, you are not in the mood to relax well, ready to go to sleep after washing, and the working mother who comes out early and returns late is likely to see the child on a working day.
A little bit of a message
Different jobs, the "treatment" is definitely not the same.
Full-time mothers lack financial resources, to a large extent, their own expenses depend on the child's father, and in addition to taking the children, doing housework, playing mobile phones, there are really few opportunities to go out to party.
Putting all your weight on the child's father is actually more like a touch of luck, the quality of his life is completely dependent on others, and he lacks the initiative.
On the other hand, although full-time mothers work very hard, their ideals may be realized, they have friends and circles, and have considerable economic income, but they lack the company of their children, which is not something that can be made up with money.
Especially for the cultivation of parent-child feelings is also a big problem, so the two have their own good and bad.
Whether it is a stay-at-home mother or a working mother, you must take care of ideals and reality, work and life, children and husbands. Be a qualified mom of a new era!
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Do you prefer to be a stay-at-home mom or a working mom?
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