In "Heart Residence", it is really full of foreshadowing. Gu Lei died, Feng Xiaoqin quarreled with Gu Qingyu, she said: You took Gu Lei's luck, in the mother's belly you pressed him, and now even more. Unexpectedly, Gu Qingyu, who had the advantage, also began to take the "downhill road". Today, Feng Xiaoqin is getting better and better, while Gu Qingyu's luck is getting worse and worse.
Gu Qingyu's "bad luck" began with marrying Shi Yuan. Marrying the wrong man is the greatest tragedy of a woman.
1. Two people who can't really communicate
Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, the two are indeed deeply in love with each other. However, this love is different from ordinary love. Gu Qingyu loves obsession and imaginary love, and Shi Yuan loves Gu Qingyu's original intention. Therefore, two people seem to be in love with each other, but in fact, they do not love each other.
It is for this reason that they have never been able to really communicate.
Gu Qingyu married Shi Yuan and let Shi Yuan live in his home. Seeing that Shi Yuan wanted to sell the piano to pay off the debt, he immediately bought it himself and put it in Zhan Xiang's home.
She felt that she was doing a good job, but she did not expect to be discovered by Shi Yuan, and then the gap between the two people arose. Shi Yuan said that even husband and wife have things that they don't want others to interfere with. If this antique piano is sold, it may be able to temporarily alleviate the difficulties in the family. However, as soon as Gu Qingyu did this, Shi Yuan could not sell it.
Gu Qingyu, in fact, she was also cautious in this relationship. She knew that Shi Yuan would get up every night after she went to sleep to translate the materials, and then pretend to sleep in the morning. There was even a time when Shi Yuan tricked her into leading a group abroad, but in fact she stayed in Shanghai. Gu Qingyu happened to see him playing cards, but she didn't poke them.
Between husband and wife, both people have secrets in their hearts, and many things cannot be communicated on the table, do you think such a marriage can last?
Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan are not as good as her and Zhan Xiang, so they can say anything, and Zhan Xiang can always hold her. This is the sense of security that should be in a marriage.
2, family troubles continue
As the saying goes, "home and everything is happy", if the family is not harmonious, it will affect a person's luck. This sentence seems unscientific, but if you think about it, if you have a bunch of family chores, can you handle things at work with peace of mind? Can you live happily?
After Gu Qingyu married Shi Yuan, the family problems have always existed and there is no way to solve them.
Although Shi Yuan's mother was bipolar, even if she was awake, she still looked down on Gu Qingyu. How to say it, it may be the kind of "superiority" in the bones, there is no way to easily put it down. What's more, Shi Yuan's mother was once a famous and prestigious family, and the "shelf" of this kind of person is to be held for a lifetime.
As for Gu Qingyu, she has a very high self-esteem, of course, she also has proud capital. Therefore, her contradiction with Shi Yuan's mother is irreconcilable. Logically, with Gu Qingyu's IQ, she should be able to figure this out, just stay away from Shi Yuan's mother, there is no need to rush to please.
After all, avoidance avoids escalating contradictions, while getting along deepens them.
What's more, Shi Yuan's mother is also a sick person. In fact, Gu Qingyu lived her own life well, there is no need to always please Shi Yuan's mother, otherwise people will not accept her flattery, she still has to get angry and complain once, why bother?
In the trailer, the two families eat, and Shi Yuan's parents and Gu Qingyu's father seem to have a very pleasant meal. Gu Qingyu quarreled with Shi Yuan again.
Moreover, you see, after Gu Qingyu married Shi Yuan, she has not been very happy, and even her father can see that the two of them are not very harmonious. Such a married life is not as happy as the previous single.
Therefore, a woman, do not be like Gu Qingyu "love brain", the mind is hot to get married, must examine his family situation. Marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two people's families, don't think of it as simple.
A marriage full of contradictions will only drag down your life.
3. The cause is hindered
Gu Qingyu's family life was not only disrupted by Shi Yuan, but his work was also disrupted by him.
Gu Qingyu didn't care how much money Shi Yuan made, because she was very rich. However, Shi Yuan is very concerned about money, because he is carrying a debt and has to earn money to see his mother. What's more, his mother had high hopes for him to have a decent job.
So, when The Company hired Shi Yuan, he was excited, and his mother was very happy. More importantly, he felt that in this way, he would be worthy of Gu Qingyu.
Unfortunately, Gu Qingyu did not think so. Because she knew that Aimon's true purpose was to use Shi Yuan's relationship with her. She spoke frankly to Shi Yuan, hoping that Shi Yuan would understand. Shi Yuan understood, but he couldn't refuse, because this job was too important for him, not to mention that he pushed this job, and his mother couldn't agree.
Gu Qingyu said that he supported Shi Yuan's decision, but he was actually very angry.
It seems that Ai Meng's move either made Gu Qingyu's work suffer a crisis, or let her marriage suffer a crisis. Just imagine, in such a situation, can Gu Qingyu's work still be so smooth? Can she still dodge Jack Liu's "open gun and dark arrow" as luckily as before?
Marriage is a woman's second reincarnation. This is not false at all. Gu Qingyu's career is now spelled out by herself, but her marriage has brought unprecedented resistance to her and become a "stumbling block" on her life road.
Her contradictions with Shi Yuan cannot be reconciled and she is destined to divorce. At this moment, even her beautiful vision of love has been broken, and her life will definitely fall into a great trough.
Therefore, marriage should still be cautious, marrying the wrong man, is to open your "bad luck".