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Today I want to share with you a story about obedience. Too many of us grew up in an obedient upbringing, we rarely have our own opinions, we rarely can express our different opinions, so slowly grow up, we always feel as if something is missing. So, we are always looking outward for what we are missing, but the more we look for it, the more we find that we do not have it.
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We have always been afraid of authority, and we dare not express our own views in the presence of authority. If you grow up and never find yourself having a time when you want to be independent, you will find that you have always been afraid of authority, and this issue will always bother you. Growing up in a family, you will take the will of your parents as your will, you dare not put forward different views in front of your parents, and in the workplace, you dare not challenge authority, even if you know that your views are right, you dare not say it.
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Children don't have to be too obedient, and it's important for parents to listen to their children. Maybe we rarely think from this point of view, we are too accustomed to having our children listen to us, because this is how we were taught by our parents from childhood, and we are too familiar with this parenting style. Times have changed, children are constantly improving, and as parents we also need to keep pace with the times, if we still hold the old model to deal with children, we will encounter obstacles.
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From paying attention to the child's external behavior, to paying attention to the child's internal needs. Every child faces a lot of pressure, some from parents, some from teachers, some from peers, some from themselves. We should not think that as long as children learn, there is no pressure, in fact, just learning can make children breathless. We need to see that every child needs the understanding of their parents, the affirmation of their parents, the attention and support of their parents, and especially the recognition of their parents, which are what every child wants to be nourished from their parents.
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Emotional stability for parents is the best gift to their children. If you find that your child is emotionally unstable and irritable, then ask your parents to return to themselves and see if this is the case with your parents. Many times, children learn from our parents, children are a mirror of parents, they can see what our parents have most clearly. If you want your child to be emotionally stable, parents should first give their children a good example.
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Parents should not label their children. The vitality of each child is very strong, and our parents do not need to worry about our children, the trust of parents is crucial for children. When a pair of parents accept their children unconditionally, the children can feel it and will grow upwards in the direction that the parents expect. Parents should not label their children at will, such as thinking that their children are lazy, not working hard, etc., and such labels should not be attached to themselves, nor should they be attached to their children. Today I ended today's topic with one sentence: "Instead of worrying, it's better to bless!" "For all parents and friends.
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