Haiqing's new drama is very worth watching, so I came to chase "Heart Drama". Just watched the beginning, some questions Ha and the relatives chasing the drama to chat about the feelings: foreign daughter-in-law Feng Xiaoqin, in her marriage full of human fireworks, what is the pursuit of?
Gu Lei is not the ideal type of Feng Xiaoqin, and after getting married, she is dreaming of jackie Chan every day.
Gu Lei's personality should not have become like this after marriage, his nature is like this. Not very smart but kind and generous, there is no planning for life to get by and do not feel any pressure, from appearance to personality to IQ reflects that Gu Lei is a small rich that is not seeking progress of ordinary middle-aged men.
Feng Xiaoqin is shrewd, and she should know what kind of person her future husband is before marrying Gu Lei. Is it a malleable talent? Then why is Feng Xiaoqin still so reluctant to force her husband to change his nature? Obviously, he is a lazy stupid bird, and he has to force him to fly and struggle.
Forcing another person to break through himself in order to achieve personal goals is a particularly stupid thing in itself. How can a shrewd person pin his expectations for the future on another unreliable person? Therefore, Feng Xiaoqin, who looks quite shrewd, is actually a fool.
All the comments flying on the barrage are condemning Gu Lei, and I thought: Why do you condemn Gu Lei? His life creed is to lie flat, and the current family environment also has the conditions to lie flat according to the life concept and level of the Gu Lei family (except Feng Xiaoqin). It was Feng Xiaoqin who imposed his will on Gu Lei, which further highlighted Gu Lei's incompetence and inaction.
In the marriage with Gu Lei, why didn't Feng Xiaoqin have a sense of security and belonging?
Because Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei are two kinds of people at all. Personalities vary greatly, expectations for their future lives are different, and their responsibilities from their original families are also different.
Gu Lei had the conditions to lie flat, while Feng Xiaoqin did not. The original family behind Feng Xiaoqin has too high expectations of her, and the greater the pressure on her, and she also has a strong sense of responsibility for her family and her sisters and brothers. However, the reality is that Feng Xiaoqin's cultural level is not high, her cognition is very limited, and she has no friends who can help her.
Gu Lei, a local with a flat IQ and no ambitions but a Shanghai hukou, is the only ladder in Feng Xiaoqin's life that can help her achieve a leap in life, and she can fully grasp it. Therefore, she firmly grasped Gu Lei and successfully achieved the first step - she became a down-to-earth Shanghai daughter-in-law. After marrying Gu Lei, Feng Xiaoqin is ready to help her family members continue to achieve a great leap forward in the living environment.
Things have two sides, Feng Xiaoqin is indeed a good daughter-in-law, the elderly children and husbands of the family, etc., are well taken care of. On the other hand, her hard work and hard work is a choice she has made in her life, and it is not worthy of sympathy. Her efforts are purposeful, she just wants to firmly root in Shanghai, but also to drive the resources she now has at her disposal - her husband Gu Lei and gu Lei's family members and local social relations to help her turn her sisters and brothers into Shanghainese.
Feng Xiaoqin has love and affection for Gu Lei, but the initial should be used a little more. The clever Gu family did not understand this, so it was inevitable that the Gu family would arouse Feng Xiaoqin.
Gu Lei's performance as a husband is too mediocre, the laziness of family construction, the neglect of his wife's inner thoughts, he does not understand Feng Xiaoqin's suppressed strong selfish desires. Feng Xiaoqin's type of person, only by firmly grasping the wealth in her own hands will have a sense of security, and in the Gu family, she is after all a foreign daughter-in-law, no blood relationship and shows the intention of wanting to be attached, so it is normal for the Gu family to guard against her.