Feng Xiaoqin, a girl from abroad, she was insecure since she was a child, when she first came to Shanghai, she did not have too much ambition, and she tried to find a reliable person. Live a life of peace and happiness.
However, after eight years of marrying her husband Gu Lei, she quit her job in order to get married and have children, and she single-mindedly supported the whole family. Often look at the faces of children's grandfathers and husbands and grandmothers.
I worked hard to fry a table of dishes, and Grandma said while eating that this dish was fried and salty. This old lady was still not satisfied with her granddaughter-in-law all day long, waiting for every meal, every pill, and everything that was waiting for Feng Xiaoqin.
Feng Xiaoqin, who was sweating profusely, was impatient, watching his son eat while eating. The child's grandfather Gu Shihong finished eating, pushed his own dishes and chopsticks, left the dining table, and did not want to wash it off. Feng Xiaoqin, a foreign daughter-in-law, has completely become a "nanny" for the Gu family?
Giving up the opportunity cost of work, exhausting physical and mental strength at home, but not in exchange for a proper position in the family. How do you think the value of housewives can be recognized?
Feng Xiaoqin has to go to school every day to pick up her son Little Tiger from school and go to piano lessons. Go home and cook, then watch your son finish his school homework, accompany him to dinner, and coax his child to sleep at eight o'clock on time.
The husband's inaction, idle internet cafes to play games, in order to take an accounting certificate to study also have to be supervised by his wife Feng Xiaoqin, but under supervision, he also went to the Internet café, deceiving her to say that she was taking online classes.
Feng Xiaoqin often comforted herself: If you don't keep an eye on Gu Lei now, she will be the one who will accompany Gu Lei to suffer in the future. I hope that her husband Gu Lei can be a little out of the ordinary.
How tiring and hard is it for a woman to take care of a large family's food, clothing, and living, and how many men can appreciate it?
Feng Xiaoqin wholeheartedly wanted to have her own house for the sake of this family, but she could not get the support of her husband. She wanted to have her own space, she wanted her son to have a school district house, but she didn't have the financial means.
Her husband, Gu Lei, often complained to his sister Gu Qingyu that he did not want to take the accounting certificate. However, a middle-aged man should have shouldered the burden of a family, but he was not as good as a woman's Taoist family.
Buying a house to borrow money, he also asked his wife to type a draft, completely memorized it himself, and his sister was embarrassed to open his mouth. Just talked about borrowing money from his sister Gu Qingyu, Gu Qingyu was afraid that they would have to borrow money to buy a house, so he said in advance that he also wanted to buy a house.
Gu Shihong, Gu Lei and Gu Qingyu, three people surnamed Gu, gathered around the house and whispered about buying a house, completely wary of Feng Xiaoqin, a foreign surname, Gu Qingyu told his brother Gu Lei to add his name to the real estate certificate. After all, Feng Xiaoqin was smarter than Gu Lei and would plan for herself, and in the future, if there was any other heart, ten Gu Lei would not be able to get her.
The younger sister came to Shanghai to rely on Feng Xiaoqin Lai to live in the Gu family, and the Gu family was also worried about what if Feng Xiaoqin's younger brother came back to Shanghai in the future. But then again, who doesn't think about their younger siblings when they have a foothold in a big city? Didn't Gu Qingyu also stand on his brother's side and speak?
Feng Xiaoqin's kindness to the eldest sister-in-law was completely ignored.
Feng Xiaoqin gave Gu Qingyu a hand-knitted scarf, and Gu Qingyu saw that the hourly worker aunt liked it, so he gave the scarf to the aunt. Feng Xiaoqin and her girlfriend were shopping, and accidentally saw Gu Qingyu's aunt, wearing a scarf around her neck that she gave to her eldest sister-in-law. The heart is not a taste.
Gu Qingyu completely saw through Feng Xiaoqin's purpose of buying a house. Feng Xiaoqin also did not like Gu Qingyu's appearance of being on top of the top, pointing out the relationship between their husband and wife, and the appearance of a tall person. If it were not for Gu Qingyu stirring up their husband and wife feelings, Gu Lei would not have rolled downstairs and died. Feng Xiaoqin said a word to Gu Qingyu, "You don't always treat me as a fool. Gu Qingyu is also used to treating others as fools.
The Gu family attributed Gu Lei's death and all the grief and anger to Feng Xiaoqin.
What Feng Xiaoqin got in the Gu family for eight years, the Gu family still regarded him as an outsider. Whether it is the busyness of being a full-time wife in the early stage, or the hard work of becoming a delivery man after the death of her husband in the later period, it is all empathetic.