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In the cognition of many people, the blind date of middle-aged and elderly people should have more of a taste of generalization than that of young people.
After all, the middle-aged and elderly people have experienced a lot, and the set of "no one is perfect" can also be seen, and both men and women are no longer as picky as young people, and basically the conditions are almost enough to live.
But in fact, with the development of the times, some middle-aged and elderly people now have their own requirements for love. In their view, most of life has passed, and the days to come do not want to be in the future, if you can't meet the right object, it is not as good as a single and free.
Uncle Sang, 60, has not remarried since his wife's death. However, as he grew older, he also realized the benefits of having a wife to accompany him, so he came to the program team under the persuasion of his family to find a crush.
Uncle Sang took a fancy to the 52-year-old Aunt Lu and decided to meet under the arrangement of the program team.
I have to say that Uncle Sang is still quite romantic, as soon as they met, they sent a bouquet of flowers to Aunt Lu, which made Aunt Lu say with a big heart: My screen name is Lily, and I like lily flowers the most!
Uncle Sang explained in a timely manner: Lilies are a hundred years of good union. This means that this emotional intelligence, leverage!
Although Uncle Sang saw Sister Lu and said "very good" with a light breeze on his mouth, he knew from his expression that he actually liked this beautiful and fashionable Sister Lu!
When Uncle Sang drove Sister Lu to visit his home, the two people inadvertently talked about driving. Interestingly, Uncle Sang is an old driver, and Sister Lu has also obtained a driver's license, and their ideal of finding a wife to take turns to drive out to play is completely consistent, and they can't help but deepen each other's good feelings.
Who knew that just when the two sides were getting better, Sister Lu mentioned her concept of mate selection, and Uncle Sang suddenly asked: What about drinking?
It was because of Uncle Sang's words that the atmosphere in the car was immediately embarrassed.
It turned out that One of Sister Lu's mate selection views was that she did not want the man to drink, she smelled the taste of wine and was uncomfortable, if Uncle Sang liked to drink, she estimated that she would not be able to accept Uncle Sang.
The staff on the side suddenly became anxious, she clearly remembered Uncle Sang saying that he did not drink, was Uncle Sang going to stir up the blind date?
After a while, Uncle Sang said the reason, and everyone was relieved: he really did not drink, but deliberately used this to create a topic.
With the misunderstanding lifted, a line of cars finally came to the community where Uncle Sang was located.
Whether it is the environment in the community or Mr. Sang's 230-square-meter house, it makes Sister Lu happy to close her mouth. The most important thing is that such a large room is still spotless, and Sister Lu feels that Mr. Sang loves to be clean and can get along with himself.
At that end, Mr. Sang was also very satisfied with Sister Lu's attitude of not wanting a bride price as long as the feelings were good. But in the spirit of honesty, he decided to tell the other party about his physical condition.
Who knows, when Sister Lu knew that Mr. Sang was a diabetic patient for 4 years, the smile on her face suddenly narrowed, pulling the staff aside and saying: According to her, a man's diabetes will have an impact on the life of the couple, and she cannot accept sexless marriage! If you can be with each other, you definitely want everything to be in tune.
The staff saw that Mr. Sang and Sister Lu were very close, and naturally wanted to work harder.
So she tried to tell Mr. Sang about Sister Lu's confusion, and Mr. Sang, who was still calm before, suddenly said with some embarrassment: This age cannot be like a young man, but it should be no problem.
Next, Sister Lu's summary can be described as making people feel philosophical and irrefutable: this thing is like a color screen mobile phone and an old man's machine, the function must be there, and it is my business to use it or not. As for how that's an afterthought, but if it wasn't at all, I would really mind.
Seriously, seeing this, this Uncle Sang and Sister Lu are really sober in the world. What the two people have said is in the clear place, the right place is appropriate, and the inappropriate should not be hidden, but it is much better than some people who deliberately deceive and want to "cook mature rice with raw rice".
For her own requirements, whether it is the man's drinking, or married life, Sister Lu does not have a little intention of being satisfied, in her opinion, both sides are so old, don't be wronged by each other.
Uncle Sang, on the other hand, showed high quality, and was generous, funny and humorous, and sincere. Whether they can come together or not, in fact, the conditions on both sides are good, and I believe that they will meet the other half of their lives.
What do you think about this? Does diabetes really affect quality of life after marriage? Feel free to leave your thoughts!
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