What is education? It must be the right values that parents teach their children in every word and deed.
Sometimes a sentence from you, sometimes a micro-expression from you, all cover the meaning of education.
And the child is indoctrinated from your words and deeds.
Let's take a look at the conversation between a mother and son below, and I believe you will be inspired.
one
The knowledge contest in the son's class was lost, and he went home to complain to his mother.
Son: The teacher was so blind, he chose a few of them to participate in the competition, and he lost, he knew that it was good to choose me.
Mom: Yo, my son is so strong, so confident.
Son: Of course, I can do those topics, better than them.
Mom: Then why didn't you introduce yourself at that time?
Son: I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to get it right, and when the time came, my classmates would blame me, so I thought that the teacher would take the initiative to pick me.
Mom: As a result, the teacher didn't choose you, you were very disappointed, weren't you? Think the teacher has no vision?
Son: Yes, if I choose, I won't necessarily lose.
Mom: There's a bag of oranges on the table, and you help me get a good meal.
The son looked at it and felt that all the oranges looked the same, and he couldn't tell which one was delicious and which was not.
Son: These oranges are the same, how to pick?
Mom: In the eyes of your teacher, you are no different from other classmates, how do you let him pick?
Son, at this time, I understand my mother's intentions, only if you are good enough, others will pay attention to you.
To be outstanding, you have to be outstanding.
two
A mother and son were waiting for a red light, and someone next to them ran a red light.
Son: Mom, how did he run a red light?
Mom: Maybe he's in a hurry, hurry up.
Son: Then we are also in a hurry, anyway, no one cares, let's go over.
Mom: He is him, you are you, running a red light is wrong, he did not mean that you have to do it, when you break in this time, next time you will want to break in.
Children, in the future, on the road of your life, you will encounter a lot of behaviors that affect your judgment, such as cutting in line, such as loud noises; many people will follow the trend and feel that this small rule is broken.
But breaking the rules is small, not following the rules is big; a person who never obeys any rules, he has no bottom line, when people do this, you must not take chances.
three
A mother and son go to the cinema to watch a movie, and the 4-year-old son always talks loudly.
Son: Mom, this movie is not good; Mom, where are we going to play tomorrow? Mom, it's funny to look at this chair; Mom...
The mother felt that it had affected others, so she took her son out.
Son: Mom, we haven't finished watching the movie yet, how did it come out?
Mom: You want to talk, I respect your rights; but if it affects others, I also want to respect people, so I take you out, and when you're done, we'll go in.
The son felt that he was not doing the right thing, so he stopped talking.
Behind the child's behavior, the parent's education is always reflected; if your child ignores the feelings of others in public, the family will say that the child has no tutor.
When the child has this behavior, parents should educate in time, and the child will put the feelings of others in the heart.
shop
After a period of rest, the mother is going to work, and the 4-year-old son is reluctant to do so.
Son: Mom, why do you want to go to work?
Mom: I went to work to not be disconnected from society, and now that you're older, I can go to work with confidence and do my own thing.
Son: What are you going to do? Don't you take care of me anymore?
Mom: I'm going to earn money for myself, increase my skills, make friends; I'll be able to take care of you when I get back from work.
Son: Isn't that tiring?
Mom: No, it's my own business.
Did you think this mother's answer was unexpected? When many people face this problem, they will say, "I'm going to make money, buy you sugar, buy milk powder."
Have you ever thought that if you say this, it will increase the burden of your child's thinking, and he feels that it is his own reason that the mother will be tired.
So, don't try to control your child with deliberate touch, he will live tired.
five
Under the epidemic situation, the child saw the news report, many people are gone, he is a little afraid.
Son: Mom, a lot of people are gone, will you too?
Mom: I will too, and after many years, when you grow up, I will die.
Son: I don't want you to die (with a crying voice).
Mother: Silly child, no one has escaped this fate, death is not terrible.
Son: No one is gone, isn't that terrible?
Mother: People go like grass, this year the grass is gone, next year it will grow; the leaves have fallen this year, tomorrow it will come back. The same goes for people.
Son: Mom, I seem to understand that you will come back too, right?
What Chinese children lack most is death education, which leads to adolescents ignoring life.
Telling the child about death in another way, both to dispel his fears and to make him optimistic, why not enjoy it.
Don't talk about death, the child's fears are all from the parents, and your way determines how much he is afraid.
True education has never been a skill of turning stones into gold and becoming Buddhas on the ground, but a process of spring wind and rain and natural inaction.
Education everywhere, education everywhere.
I believe that every parent is looking forward to Jackie Chan, looking forward to the female chengfeng, at the end of the article for all parents to share a good book, don't miss it!
Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!