#电视剧心居征文 #
From miss Qianjin in the past, the wife who became an economic prisoner, ge Yue, who had a simple and honest mind, except for one sentence, "I don't know his things", I don't know what else to say, Ge Father hates iron and steel, "Then what else do you know?" He expressed his helplessness and regret. Maybe taking care of Ge Yue too well, making her like a flower in a greenhouse, not knowing the sinister world, the complicated life, is a mistake, it is really a mistake to become Ge Father, and defeat is also Ge Father.
Faced with the fall of his father and the imprisonment of his husband, the weak Ge Yue had to start from scratch on his own. She hoped that she could be like Feng Xiaoqin, and her husband could live well after she died, but she also thought that it was better for her husband to cheat than her husband to braid, and without her husband, she didn't know how to live. There is a son under the age of two in the family, she is pregnant with Liujia, and her husband is in prison for economic crimes for at least three years, where should she go?
Can the weak Ge Yue of the past support the whole family on his own?
The princess married low, and the mother-in-law disliked it
Ge Yue works in the propaganda department of the new district government, a girl, has a stable job as a civil servant, it is said that she is not worried about eating and wearing, her father is the deputy director of the Land Planning Bureau, the real Miss Qianjin, a silk scarf of 800 yuan, bought it and gave it to her mother-in-law, her eyes do not blink. In addition to her ordinary appearance and short stature, the background behind her is beyond the reach of many people. Before Ge Yue met Gu Xin, he was like a pure and glowing white paper, emotionally poor and white, and never fell in love. Growing up under the aura of her father, she has not experienced the twists and turns and troubles of life, making her a simple and honest girl, even Xiao Lu of the unit has a good feeling for her, she is also unaware,
She didn't understand men too well
。 Ge Yue did not know what kind of man was worth loving, worth entrusting herself to for life, she thought that men expressed enthusiasm and good feelings for her, that is, like is love.
Ge Yue's misfortune began when she married Gu Xin...
Gu Xin's parents are young people in Xinjiang, he grew up with his parents to live in Xinjiang, to school age, Gu Xin returned to Shanghai, foster care in his aunt's house. He studied hard from an early age, passed the hurdles and was admitted to university, and successfully became an excellent civil servant after graduation. He had a girlfriend in college who loved poetry and painting, and had broken up since he met Ge Yue.
The story of a poor boy who looks up to the director's Miss Qianjin and abandons his former girlfriend begins.
When Gu Xin showed Ge Yue's photo to everyone, everyone did not make a sound, only Feng Xiaoqin said a word, and she looked quite beautiful. When Feng Xixi saw Ge Yue's first face, she secretly said to Feng Xiaoqin,
This woman is even uglier than in the pictures
——。 Gu Xin abandoned his beautiful girlfriend, climbed up to the ordinary-looking Ge Yue, and saw the power of the old man's director who wanted to take shortcuts in his career, and it was clear. Gu Xin said that he did not pursue Ge Yue, but only expressed his good feelings for her.
Hooking her fingers, she came over like a puppy.
Father Ge was reluctant to be wronged a little by his own thousands of dollars, and all the marriage degrees were the best. Dowry 5 million to pay a down payment of a house, promised to mortgage after Ge Father to help pay the loan, a Mercedes-Benz SUV to Gu Xin as a gift for the new marriage. The woman runs a banquet, a high-end restaurant, more than 10,000 tables.
Gu Xin didn't look like he was marrying his wife, but rather like marrying himself to Ge Yue
。 More than 20 million marriage rooms, 240 square meters, decorated with golden splendor, the living room is spacious and bright, the north and south are transparent, the floor is carved with marble, and the workmanship is meticulous. Art ceiling, doors made of top ebony, kitchen appliances complete set Miller, imported from Germany. Whole house floor heating plus fresh air system, all electronic devices are connected to the mobile phone APP, not at home can also be controlled.
Ge Yue's hardware strength is so good, the mother-in-law not only did not feel that her son took advantage, but thought that her son had suffered a loss. Her son temporarily moved to her father-in-law's house, and she felt that her son was married, and she only came back once a week to eat, and after eating, she did not stay, and soon left. Ge Father gave Gu Xin the car, and she felt that it was expensive and did not want to go out with them. Ge Father sent 5 million dowries, she thinks that if there is money, it is up to them all to calculate, buy such a big house, from the beginning of the house to the end of the house will be afraid. Ge Yue and Gu Xin invited their mother-in-law to go out to dinner, after eating and too expensive, a look at the bill frightened, and a number of drops, life to calculate, otherwise it is demolition of belongings, jinshan silver mountain have to run out. Ge Yue listened next to him, unable to say a word. Ge Yue, an honest woman, is not flattered by the money, let alone resisting, and if she is unhappy, she will only suffocate herself in her heart.
Not surprisingly, his son will soon be promoted to deputy director, and it is rare that his son has such a good result in his early thirties.
And his daughter-in-law, short and thin, eyebrows are unfocused, talk like a mosquito, but some like his own useless man, there is no way to get his hands on it
。 Originally, I felt that Gao Pan, and then thought about it carefully, and I felt that my son had suffered a loss. If Gu Xin is not a baby, will he come here so badly?
Ge Yue with tens of millions of dowries, what about it, or to be hated and accused by the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law will not be grateful to the daughter-in-law for not abandoning her son's poverty, but will only think that her son is excellent. The marriage of the next marriage can never escape the in-laws who are cheap and complacent, and then step on you a few feet to show their self-righteous superiority.
Ge's father fell off his horse and moved back to his in-laws' house
Ge Father was demoted because he was found out in a real estate development project, but fortunately there was no sentence and he retired. The ending was very embarrassing, the office was moved from the 12th floor to the 2nd floor, the main hall level became the deputy section level, and the several houses originally owned were all forcibly disposed of, leaving only a two-room self-occupied house. It's crazy. The father-in-law's mother-in-law moved on the front foot, and Gu Xin moved back to his parents' house with his wife on the back foot.
Show your attitude and draw a line when it is critical
。 As for the door-to-door son-in-law, it is impossible, and Ge Yue will have to live with her in-laws in the future. Without the support of Ge's father, the original marriage mortgage payment, their economic income is not enough to pay. Ge Yue proposed that selling the house would have a burden and would not be happy. Now that Dad has been demoted, without Dad's support, they naturally can't afford to live in such a good house.
Ge Yue thought that she could buy a smaller house and not live with her in-laws, but Gu Xin didn't have any thoughts, and she no longer insisted.
His father had an accident, but he had a feeling of being sorry for him
。 Shouldn't the most comforting person at this time be Ge Yue? Ge Yue's parents are also worried about Ge Yue, they know that their daughter is weak, they are afraid that she will suffer losses in her in-laws' house, Ge Yue's father will rely on yourself in the future, speaking with a heavy heart, Ge Yue's heart suddenly developed a kind of pressure.
Gu Xin cheated, and Ge Yue endured
Because of his father-in-law's demotion, Gu Xin was also affected by his own unit, and he was listless all day long, and he was not as enthusiastic about Ge Yue as before. Originally, he took a leave of absence and promised to accompany Ge Yue to the maternity examination, but when he left the door, he changed his mind and lazily lay on the bed. Ge Yue, an honest woman with a good temper, really went to the obstetric examination by herself. Thinking that it is close to home anyway, it will take about ten minutes to call a car, and it is okay for one person. Ge Yue is such a duty and kind and simple woman, pregnant with 8 months pregnant, standing up with a big belly to go to the maternity examination alone, her husband lazily lies in bed, she is not angry or complaining.
Her good temper, as well as the hidden lack of hardness and confidence in her heart, made her choose to be patient.
The deputy director of the selection, Gu Xin lost the election, originally with Ge Yue's father fell, Gu Xin did not have hope for the selection, but the person selected was his peer, and his ability was much worse than him. A person who was inferior to himself became the deputy director, and Gu Xin could only blame his bad luck. Not only that, but the new deputy commissioner, who sprinkled a handful of salt on his wounds, said to him, in fact, you are much better than me, but your luck is worse.
Gu Xin didn't know if it was his bad luck, of course he knew that he needed someone else to remind him again. Gu Xin was sullen in his heart, and took the opportunity of the Gu family's dinner party to get drunk and drunk, and when he returned home, he quarreled with his mother. Gu's mother saw that her son was depressed and so discouraged, so she wanted to comfort a few words, but she couldn't comfort the idea. Gu Xin gritted his teeth and said, "I already knew that there was not much to do,
Previously, people were scolded to eat swan meat, but now the swan has become a duck, both ends are empty, and the face is all gone
。
In the final analysis, it is still a bad fate, and each person is born with his own life, and it should not be
Wish for the moon
。 "Mother Gu said, when you say such a thing, are you angry with yourself or angry with us?" Gu Xin said, of course, it is angry with himself, and anything under the sky can be picked.
Only mom and dad can't pick it. So is Ge Yue, and so am I. ”
As the old saying goes, the poor do not blame the Father
。 Gu Xin's career was frustrated, but he spilled his resentment on his parents, complaining that their parents had no prominent social status and no rich economic conditions. Although his father-in-law was once prominent and his family was rich, he fell from power and became a father who should be blamed in his eyes. He not only blamed his parents, but also blamed his father-in-law, why he committed a crime, why he was arrested, even if he was scolded by people to eat swan meat to take shortcuts, his reputation was lost, he did not fall well, his father-in-law was arrested, he was also implicated, his reputation was gone, his personality was low, and his career was naturally affected. Gu Xin blamed all his resentment on his parents, but also on his father-in-law, blaming Ge Yue for not picking a good father.
This man is too irresponsible
。 I really don't know what Ge Yue loves him. Women choose men, without vision, really hurt themselves.
Shortly after Ge Yue's son was born, Gu Xin traveled to Xinjiang on a business trip, and she would worry about Gu Xin and would not come back once she was gone. Ge Yue's humility really wanted to wake her up. Gu Xin is an indifferent character, he does not care about his son, cold to his parents, play a video every day, are the same few words, is the son good, are you okay with your father and mother, it seems that there is no other word to say.
Ge Yue also began to do what her mother did to her father, paying special attention to the environment next to her every video, whether there were any women's clothes and items.
There are factors of weak personality, and there are also influenced by her mother, and her husband who cheated in marriage is not the first time she has seen it.
Ge Yue looked for Feng Xiaoqin, made a bunch of preparations in front of him, and finally said that there were women outside Gu Xin. She asked sister,
In other words, you, what will you do, you teach me.
According to Feng Xiaoqin's vision, Gu Xin is actually not as good as Gu Lei, his appearance is not handsome, he is stuffy, and he can't see any advantages. Feng Xiaoqin knew that this woman outside was her sister Feng Xixi, and she felt a little guilty. She said, "I know an elderly man who told me about her pursuit of her husband. Sing Yue opera, buy snacks he likes to eat, wear clothes he likes, and knit him a sweater hat. As long as people have weaknesses, they can't lift their heads after losing a lifetime. Grab the big and let go of the small, grab the big thing, and let the small thing go. What you can see is small things, and what you can't see is big things. ”
Ge Yue understood Feng Xiaoqin's meaning, cheating is a small matter, as long as he can get by in his heart, it is not a thing.
Ge Yue loves Gu Xin, and she still wants to work hard to please him and hope that he will accept it. Even if I know that my husband is cheating, I can still be able to hide my hair, not hysterical, not howl and cry, I admire Ge Yue, and I also feel sorry for such a Ge Yue.
Ge Yue is wearing a white mini-short nightdress, transparent lace on the chest, the upper body is looming, almost like not wearing, the face is still wearing light makeup, she said, the newly bought skirt, you said, like to see me wearing white. Gu Xin squeezed out a smile, said good, and turned to the computer again. She stopped, reached over, put her arm around him, and said,
I sing a piece of Yue opera to you, okay?
Gu Xin had no love for Ge Yue, but he felt a little pain, looking at Ge Yue, who wanted to cry but was patient, it seemed that out of instinct, Gu Xin hugged Ge Yue tightly from behind.
Soon after, Ge Yue became pregnant again. Gu Xin wanted to break off his relationship with Feng Xiqian, the two were originally used separately, and there was no sense of truth, but they were bumped into by Ge Yue again. Ge Yue wanted a divorce and ran to the hospital to have an abortion, but her mother-in-law followed her twice and stopped her no matter what. In fact, the mother-in-law did not come, and Ge Yue did not want to be a child, she could not bear it. The time has passed in the middle of the hesitation, and the child in the belly is six months old. Gu Xin was investigated.
Gu Xin was found in prison, and Ge Yue did not abandon him
The fact that Gu Xin abandoned his girlfriend Gao Pan bureau chief Qianjin has long made him lose his reputation, and working in the unit will naturally not be excessive. He did not want to stay in the district government any longer, so he applied for a transfer, and with a big stroke of the head, he was transferred to the town government. It is always easier to go down than to go up, Gu Xin did not seek anyone's opinion on the transfer of work, and his father-in-law was distressed to learn that he did not know how to cultivate obscurity, and he had no great ambition, and could not bend and stretch.
Gu Xin stared at the position of the deputy mayor, matching the deputy mayor with Ge Yue's uncle, as long as the town mayor abdicated, the deputy mayor went up, and the deputy mayor's seat was his. Unexpectedly, the mayor retired, and someone else was sent to take over, and the deputy mayor's years of operation failed. After a while, someone reported that the deputy mayor had a private transaction with Ge Yue's uncle, accepted high bribes, and granted public land to a private company, which was a serious violation. Further investigation also involves illegal financing and arbitrage. Gu Xin and Feng Xixi were shaken out one by one, caught off guard. Gu Xin faces at least three years in prison.
Gu Xin had an accident, the family was in a mess, no one had time to take care of Ge Yue, she took care of herself every day, whether it was at home or colleagues, she didn't talk much when she met, her father blamed her, she only said, his business, I don't know. As soon as Father Ge was in a hurry, his words became heavy, you grew up so big, what do you know?
In the past, Miss Qianjin, with the fall of her father, Yu Yin was no longer there, and she met her husband who cheated on her, and she was still pregnant with Liujia, and her husband was in prison again, at this time, Ge Yue stood up on her stomach, and she could take care of herself and go to work as usual. It really responds to that sentence, the tenacity of women, you can't imagine. The more quiet a woman is, the more able she is to take responsibility for big things.
Ge Yue went to the detention center with a big belly to visit Gu Xin, and Gu Xin said, if you want to leave, leave, I don't want to drag you down. She asked what the worst would happen, and Gu Xin said at least three years. Ge Yue replied,
Then wait for you for three years, come out and get a divorce.
Ge Yue loves Gu Xin, if he has no accident, he may leave in a huff, and now that he has an accident, she is reluctant to do so, even if she is scolded to death by her parents, she is reluctant to do so.
She wanted to change herself, that cowardly Ge Yue, and she wanted to dump her. She would soon be a mom of two, and she didn't want her kids without a dad.
Ge Yue came out of the detention center and asked Xiao Lu, who used to have a good feeling for her, and now the mayor of the town government is his uncle, Ge Yue blows gas to him like a lan, although he has practiced at home several times, he is still nervous, she said: "I sing Yue opera to you, okay?" ”
The changes in life never say a word, directly give people a blow to the head.
Ge Yue's life robbery began with marrying someone, fortunately, Ge Yue, who was short in appearance, had a strong heart, whether it was for the child or for herself, she was willing to tear down the cowardly Ge Yue of the old days and reborn the strong Ge Yue. The Gu family will gradually regain its vitality because of her strength.
Zeng Shiqiang: When choosing a man, don't rely on identity, status, and economic income, because these will change at any time. The first one depends on whether he has it or not
Responsibility
？ A person with a sense of responsibility can be trusted, and a person without a sense of responsibility, the more successful, the easier it is to gently discard the other half.
Look at her after you have a sense of responsibility
Minded
Big or small?
insight
Far away?
ideal
High or not? A person with a small heart, even if he has a sense of responsibility, cannot afford it, a person with a short and shallow vision cannot go far at all, a person who has no ideals at all, but is just messing around.
Test his ideals, his mind and vision, and finally see if he has it
Execution
？ There is no execution at all, it is just verbal talk, the mouth talks a lot, nothing can be done, it is very bad.
Does Gu Xin meet these three conditions?
Gu Xin cheated in marriage, gave birth to a son, did not care, no sense of responsibility. Even his mother said that your son was not brought by your wife with an oil bottle.
Ge's father had an accident, Gu Xin complained about his parents, complained about his father-in-law, had no mind, and did not find reasons from himself.
I feel that I can't stay in the original unit, so I want to adjust it down, have no vision, no ideals, and just want to have a day in the town government.
When a woman marries, it is like a second reincarnation, a woman, don't be as blind as Ge Yue.
Ge Yue, worthy of a good man's sincere treatment.