Speak boldly on a blind date
After the 40-year-old Li Jing divorced her husband, she has been dependent on her son for a long time, so after her son has successfully studied in college, she hopes to find a partner as soon as possible to bear the cost of her son's marriage. Because she herself has been working in the factory, her monthly income is only 3,000 yuan, which can barely maintain the life of mother and child, so she will have such a decision.
Li Jing's blind date, Mr. Wang, is 55 years old, although he is also a divorced family, but his daughter has become a family and has also opened a spicy hot shop, and his assistance is not needed in life. Mr. Wang himself earns about 4,000 yuan per month, and he also has a savings, and the pressure of life is basically gone.
Mr. Wang bluntly said during the blind date that he did not have bad habits such as smoking and drinking, but preferred to ride a motorcycle. During the conversation, Mr. Wang was very excited and said that he had just spent 20,000 yuan to buy a motorcycle.
However, Li Jing was not excited at all, but directly said that his son would get married after graduating from college, so he asked Mr. Wang if he could afford the cost of the house.
The atmosphere instantly became awkward when this remark came out, but Mr. Wang still euphemistically said that the cost of buying a house was too high, and he did not have such an ability now, but he had a house in his rural hometown, and if Li Jing was willing, he could return to the countryside with him.
However, Li Jing, who came from the countryside herself, was very disgusted with rural life, so she directly rejected this proposal. Then she turned to buying a house for her son. Seeing this, Mr. Wang already knew Li Jing's personality, so he decisively took the excuse to leave and ended this blind date.
Frustrated again
The blind date with Mr. Wang ended in failure, and Li Jing began a new blind date. This time, Li Jing's blind date is a very cool external image, named Zhang Bo, a 36-year-old divorced man.
Zhang Bo works as a security guard at an entertainment venue, earning about 7,000 a month, and after his divorce, he raises his 9-year-old daughter. However, because of his work, his daughter has been living in her sister-in-law's house, so he hopes to find the right person to help him take care of the children.
After Li Jing met Zhang Bo, because his appearance and income were satisfactory to herself, she was very proactive. However, Zhang Bo was more shy and said that he should understand it first before determining the relationship. Therefore, Li Jing had to ask the other party what requirements there were to transfer the topic.
As a result, Zhang Bo said very honestly that he had a 9-year-old daughter who needed to be taken care of, and that her daughter's temper was not good. Hearing this, Li Jing was very repulsive in her heart, because she did not want to be a nanny, but for the sake of her son, Li Jing did not show it, but began to test whether the other party was willing to buy a house for her son.
However, before Li Jing could begin to "start flickering", Zhang Bo shook his head in opposition and said that he was incapable, so this time he undoubtedly failed again.
After two consecutive failures, Li Jing felt extremely wronged, she thought she was a mother, of course, to put her son's affairs first.
The attitude of netizens who learned of this matter is relatively consistent, everyone thinks that Li Jing's impure blind date is very "naïve", and some netizens have directly commented on Li Jing to resist beating?
In fact, netizens will behave like this because the feelings are mutual, if they blindly take and are not willing to pay, then naturally they will not get any good results.
A marriage with an impure mind
One woman's post about her unhappy married life has attracted a lot of attention.
The woman, Named Zhang Yue, had two failed marriages, both of which were rushed. Unlike other women, Zhang Yue is a very face-conscious person, and when she learned that the man had a house and a car during the blind date, she agreed to get married.
After marriage, Zhang Yue quit her original job, stayed at home every day, lived a "rich wife" life, and when her friends discouraged her, she said that she was looking for a man to marry in order to be able to have someone to raise.
However, the good times did not last long, Zhang Yue due to a long time at home and her husband between the generation gap is getting bigger and bigger, and finally one day a conflict broke out between the two, under the dispute Zhang Yue chose to run back to her mother's house, the result of living for several months, her husband did not take the initiative to persuade her to go back, so Zhang Yue proposed a divorce, did not expect his husband to agree without hesitation.
After the divorce, Zhang Yue regretted it, but it was too late for her to have to go on a blind date again. This time, Zhang Yue directly and happily agreed after learning that the other party was willing to pay 80,000 dowry, and as a result, after marriage, she found that the man not only had a bad temper, but also committed domestic violence after getting drunk.
This time, although Zhang Yue wanted to divorce, she was worried that the other party would not agree, so she could only suffer bitterly.
epilogue
Whether it is a person like Li Jing who has a simple purpose and is bent on thinking only for her son, or a person like Zhang Yue who can choose to marry without scruples simply for the sake of face, they all have one thing in common, that is, they are very realistic. Love like the ageless, the love is not so important to them, so they can't get real feelings.