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Preface
Gu Lei was dead.
Because of the quarrel, Feng Xiaoqin dragged the suitcase back to his hometown, Gu Lei chased out, originally a contradiction between husband and wife, but who knows, Gu Lei had an accident when he went downstairs to compete for the suitcase.
He rolled down the stairs and plunged headlong into the glass, cutting the artery.
It is reasonable to say that Feng Xiaoqin died her husband, had no one to rely on, and dragged a child less than ten years old, which should be the most pitiful person. But the Gu family's grandmother first pushed Feng Xiaoqin to the ground, and then, everyone in the Gu family was guarding against her.
Before Gu Lei's death, whether it was the father-in-law, the father-in-law's old wife, or the eldest sister, he obviously said that the most inseparable person in this family was this daughter-in-law- Feng Xiaoqin.
After watching the drama "Heart Residence", I was shocked to feel that Feng Xiaoqin, who has been a "nanny" for eight years or an outsider, should be most alert to women: shortcuts in this world have a price. And Gu Dad's words made people understand the origin of Feng Xiaoqin's unhappy marriage.
Is Feng Xiaoqin a daughter-in-law or a nanny?
When the family was still asleep, Feng Xiaoqin had already returned from buying vegetables. Then, she woke everyone up, squeezed bitter melon juice for grandma, made eight treasure tea for her father-in-law, made breakfast, helped her husband find clothes, told grandma the dosage and time to take medicine, and sent her son to school...
This scene is just a fragment of Feng Xiaoqin's life in the morning.
In the words of Feng Xiaoqin: She takes care of four people alone, gets up early and greedily, and has three hundred and sixty-five days a year.
No exaggeration.
What impressed me the most was that when the guests came to the house, whether it was the eldest sister, the uncle's family, or the aunt's family, it was Feng Xiaoqin who bought vegetables, cooked, and washed dishes. Everyone finishes eating, or watches TV in the living room, or chats about home, but no one goes to the kitchen to help.
And this "job" of a housewife, Feng Xiaoqin has been doing it for eight years.
Is Gu Lei a husband or a son?
I have been thinking, how to evaluate Feng Xiaoqin's husband Gu Lei?
Some say he's honest.
I don't agree. Honesty should be loyal and honest, following the rules, not mediocre and muddy.
Gu Lei, a man who is almost forty years old. At home, he was a hand-thrower who didn't even know where his clothes were; at work, he relied on his sister's connections to eat and wait for death, and the manager called his sister at both ends of three days. Life, he also has no goals. Feng Xiaoqin reported him to the accounting training class, but he was unwilling to learn and did not dare to disobey. So, after work, he went to play games, watch movies, and mixed in until the evening before going home.
Gu Lei did not take the exam, Feng Xiaoqin gave him another accounting class, she said: "If you can't get out of the exam, you can continue to take the exam, once you can't take the exam twice, twice can't take the exam three times, until you take the exam." You don't have to wait until you are eighty, you can't get out of the exam at fifty, I won't force you. ”
But Gu Lei said to Feng Xiaoqin: It is useless for you to force me again, I just can't get out of the test, I am not that piece of material.
Gu Lei, like Feng Xiaoqin's son, is still an incomplete instrument.
Why is Feng Xiaoqin still an outsider after eight years as a "nanny"?
To tell the truth, I can understand that Feng Xiaoqin wants to borrow money to buy a house of her own. Moreover, to be fair, Feng Xiaoqin was quite thoughtful. The house she wants to buy is a second-hand old house, the area is not large, the price is not high, and it is close to the father-in-law's house. She even promised that after buying a house, she would be responsible for her father-in-law and grandmother's three meals a day.
But what did Gu Lei think?
Feng Xiaoqin wants to buy a house, Gu Lei feels that it doesn't matter whether to buy or not; Feng Xiaoqin feels that the old house where he lives now is not good in the junior high school district, Gu Lei feels that the school has also produced talents; Feng Xiaoqin feels that men should have responsibility, take a financial and accounting certificate to find a better job to support their families, Gu Lei feels that life can be lived. Feng Xiaoqin felt that she had become a dog around the old man and the child all day, and Gu Lei did not understand it at all.
For the relationship between their husband and wife, Gu Lei even said: Feng Xiaoqin is smart and capable, he can't get her.
Gu Lei's peculiar brain circuit, even Gu Dad could not see it, he said such a sentence:
"You still can't figure it out?" Your sister's meaning is not to let you get through her, but to enable you to work your own. You're out of breath, you two little ones can live happier, right? ”
The real reason why Feng Xiaoqin was treated as an outsider by the Gu family was that Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin had never been one heart. As a result, all of Feng Xiaoqin's wishes for life became desires in the eyes of the Gu family.
Write at the end
Zweig said: "All the gifts of fate have been secretly priced. ”
Deeply.
Feng Xiaoqin, a foreign girl with little culture, was in a hurry to marry Gu Lei. She is so shrewd and capable, why would she choose Gu Lei, who is lazy and lazy, and has achieved nothing?
Because, Feng Xiaoqin saw that Gu Lei was a Shanghai hukou, had a house, and people were good at talking. As for his laziness and unmotivatedness, he became secondary and acceptable.
But Feng Xiaoqin forgot that after marriage, life was after all two people.
And she and Gu Lei are not the same person at all. Feng Xiaoqin pushed Gu Lei too tightly, which was counterproductive; Feng Xiaoqin did not force Gu Lei, and she was not willing.
It can only be said that Feng Xiaoqin pinned her hopes on Gu Lei, which was originally a big mistake.
Girls, may you remain awake in love, because the shortcuts in this world come at a cost.
Today's topic: How do you care about the family's attitude towards Feng Xiaoqin? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.
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Author: Suzune Qinxin; every life is worthy of being cherished!