After the broadcast of the realistic urban emotional drama "Heart Residence", many troubles that occurred between Feng Xiaoqin and the Gu family directly blew some viewers up.
Feng Xiaoqin (played by Hai Qing) is a daughter-in-law who married into Shanghai from abroad, and has been at home full-time since marrying into the Gu family, taking care of the food and living of the Gu family.
How bitter Feng Xiaoqin's life is, let's take a look:
Every day, she had to take care of the food and living of a large family of gu family members, cleaning and cleaning, washing and shabu, and the gu family never helped in these incidents.
All the big and small things in the family, including the medicine of the elderly, Gu Dad's glasses, the husband and the child can't find anything, the child's school pick-up, even if the needle eye is a big little thing, it all depends on her to worry about and do.
Her "365 days without dead ends" style of hard work, in exchange for being taken for granted by the Gu family, and as long as the family affairs are slightly inattentive, they will immediately attract dissatisfaction and complaints.
What is even more infuriating is that the Gu family has never fully trusted her, and when there is an important matter, it will discuss her aside, and the family has never regarded her as a family at all.
From the above point of view, you said that Feng Xiaoqin's life was bitter and not bitter, bitter and not bitter, no wonder she was insecure, who changed who gained a sense of security in such a family!
But then again, in order to take root in Shanghai, Feng Xiaoqin was Gu Lei, who she took the initiative to pursue, and she knew what kind of person Gu Lei was at that time.
After marriage, she believes that making money is a man's business, which has always forced Gu Lei to be motivated, while she herself just continues to work as a full-time wife, and never thought of relying on the joint efforts of the two to buy a house.
Therefore, now that her life has been like this, of course, the responsibility cannot be blamed on others, after all, the cause of a series of bad things in the back is the inevitable result of her wanting to take shortcuts and her personality is not independent enough.
If you want to take root in Shanghai, you can struggle on your own; if you want to buy a house, you can work together as a husband and wife; as long as you have fought hard with all your strength, no matter what the result is, your heart will be calm and peaceful, and people will be affirmed and respected by others.
I also want to take root in Shanghai and be looked up to by the people of my hometown, and I want to buy a house alone in Shanghai to get a sense of security, and I want to rely on others to complete it, which is not only difficult to achieve in the play, but also in real life.
Why would the Gu family be wary of Feng Xiaoqin? In fact, the plot has already explained that it is because they also saw that Feng Xiaoqin's motivation for pursuing Gu Lei was not very simple.
After all these years of getting along, the Gu family had already put down most of their vigilance against Feng Xiaoqin in their hearts, but she insisted on buying a house at this time, which instantly aroused the Gu family's wariness of her, which led to the fact that in the next life, the Gu family often used words to beat her.
Later, Feng Xiaoqin was made intolerable, and in front of the Relatives of the Gu family, she became angry and told her bitterness, grievances, and the idea of why she wanted to buy a house, which made Gu Dad realize Feng Xiaoqin's bitterness and agreed to lend her money.
But the eldest sister-in-law Gu Qingyu (played by Tong Yao) has never put down her prejudices against Feng Xiaoqin, and as long as she has the opportunity, she will chat with her family and tell her family about her unilateral analysis.
After a meal, when Gu Qingyu analyzed Feng to the Gu family, she was accidentally overheard by Feng, she angrily pulled the suitcase and was about to run away from home, her husband Gu Lei saw it and pulled and persuaded, pulling Gu Lei stepped on the air and fell down the stairs, resulting in something that made "Feng Gu and both sides regret it".
After that, Feng Xiaoqin's life was even more difficult, she not only did her housework, the children took care of it, but also had to send takeaway food to make money to raise small tigers, came back a little later, and had to be complained about by the number of gu milk at home.
After seeing Feng Xiaoqin's current encounter, many viewers were simply angry and directly exploded, and unanimously said that they felt that Feng Xiaoqin's previous efforts were not worth it.
Xiao Man believes that "Heart Residence" can make the audience feel this way after watching it, which means that it has successfully told the story.
Feng Xiaoqin lived her life like this today, and indeed the Gu family also had responsibilities and should also be scolded. But after the scolding, we also have to think, what is the cause of all this? It is because Feng Xiaoqin has no sense of independence in her heart, wants to take shortcuts, becomes a Shanghainese shortcut, and wants to take a shortcut to buying a house after marriage.
People like her are very miserable and real in THE TV series, and such people in real life are not much better, and they will also have a great chance of being despised and guarded against, and this result is the inevitable result of causality, and they are doomed to escape this disaster.
Feng Xiaoqin in the play has a very hard time, but we in front of the screen are very lucky, we are fortunate to see the consequences of "taking shortcuts" and "relying on others" in life through Feng Xiaoqin, and we will naturally hate this way of life even more angrily, because we hate it and will not repeat Feng Xiaoqin's bumpy road.
Feng Xiaoqin only wanted to rely on others for the first half of her life, and now she has paid a corresponding price for this idea; Feng Xiaoqin is now becoming independent, and her idea will definitely make her "heart more peaceful and better"!
I'm convinced of this, what about you?