Only after watching the "Human World" that describes the northerners, another "Heart Residence" about the southerners of Shanghai, looking at the characters and plots of the two dramas, the same family ethics are also told, which really makes people feel the great difference between the north and the south!
It is often said that most northerners treat people simply and warmly, while southerners are good everywhere, that is, they are too shrewd, in fact, this statement is not unreasonable.
After watching "Heart Residence", I realized the true meaning of the ancients often said "home and all things are happy", the truth!
I have to say that "Heart Residence" is another work of word-of-mouth, although it is not as profound as "The World of Man", but the theme of the play reflects the daily life of our ordinary people, causing a series of ordinary and realistic problems, which is worth pondering by each of us.
Although "Heart Residence" did not start broadcasting for a long time, the plot progress can be called a "divine turn", only the first 6 episodes, has reached 2 climaxes (especially the 2 "outbreaks" of Feng Xiaoqin, the daughter-in-law played by Haiqing), which is really gratifying! Chasing 6 episodes in a row, I can't stop at all.
01 Is the role of Feng Xiaoqin worthy of our sympathy?
To tell the truth, more than ten years later, Haiqing has not changed at all, why does she always choose this role of "stupid with essence"? It makes people pity and sympathize with her and at the same time not like it. The reason why many people don't like Feng Xiaoqin is that you can imagine it.
Some people accused her of being too aggressive, too scheming, too purposeful, too greedy.
Indeed, take her borrowing money to buy a house, obviously know her current situation, but also a mouth is to borrow 1 million, the son is waiting to be fed, the husband of this mess can not support the wall, he has not yet worked, people who have bought a house know that paying off the mortgage is the real pain, even if the down payment is successful, the pressure of the mortgage alone is afraid to overwhelm her, then what to pay back with 1 million? Or is there another calculation behind the borrowing?
It is not that she Feng Xiaoqin, this life status quo is not worthy of buying a house, not worthy of borrowing money from her family, but to think about it in the long run and do what we can!
Whether it is buying a house, or consumption, we must act in accordance with our own ability category, ambition to match their own ability, others to help you is the love, do not help you is the duty, whether you recognize or not, this is human nature, but also reality!
Therefore, why did the Gu family not support Feng Xiaoqin to buy a house? The reason is this, their worries, their concerns are not unreasonable.
In the end, after unremitting efforts, Feng Xiaoqin finally got what he wanted, the old man took out 500,000 yuan from his pension money to lend to Feng Xiaoqin to pay the down payment, but Feng Xiaoqin's "people's hearts are not enough to swallow the elephant", this side just borrowed 500,000 from the old man's hand, the face is really thick, and the other side wants to borrow another 1 million from Sister Gu Qingyu, this woman also has to inch in! Don't forget that your own sister is still living with someone else's parents.
I can only say that I am very sympathetic to feng Xiaoqin's stall for such a husband and her living situation, but I do not agree with her personality and life. Because, no matter what the reason, even if there is a great reason, once people cross the bottom line of being a person, they still talk about sympathy and pity!
Is Gu Lei really just a tool for Feng Xiaoqin to use? A dollar in mental loss fees speaks for itself!
Some people say that Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei got married, just looking at Gu Lei's Shanghainese identity, as a foreign daughter-in-law, ostensibly as a cow and horse for the Gu family, willingly doing 8 years of free nanny, but in fact, using Gu Lei, the husband as his stepping stone.
When her husband Gu Lei died unexpectedly, Feng Xiaoqin began to show the fox tail, in the play, for her husband's accident, she could not cry, did not shed a tear, is she really just using Gu Lei, 8 years of married life, there is no real love for Gu Lei?
Wrong, when Gu Lei died unexpectedly, Feng Xiaoqin had no tears on the surface, in fact, her heart was dripping blood!
Why?
Do you remember, in the first few episodes of the plot, Gu Qingyu birthday, the couple quarreled because of the matter of borrowing money, angry Gu Lei was driven out of the bedroom by Feng Xiaoqin, and after Gu Lei fell asleep on the sofa, a warm detail touched the audience, no matter how angry Feng Xiaoqin was at the time, he did not forget to give her husband a birthday, gave her husband a fake rose, pinched a little to give her husband birthday wishes, but unfortunately Gu Lei did not see.
This detail is enough to prove that Feng Xiaoqin still has feelings for Gu Lei, although it is not vigorous, but it is warm and pleasant, which makes people envious!
After Gu Lei's death, Feng Xiaoqin was really miserable, and even felt desperate, especially when she cried with her girlfriend and sister: As long as Gu Lei is alive, I am willing to exchange anything for anything!
Feng Xiaoqin's accusations against Gu Lei are not really disgusted from the heart, because of love, so scolding, if you don't force him, he will always be a "giant baby" husband who does not grow up, and Feng Xiaoqin's approach is at most just hating iron not steel.
02 Feng Xiaoqin is actually not so bad, and the mental loss fee of one yuan is enough to explain everything
If Feng Xiaoqin completely loses her humanity, just like Gu Qingyu said, when Gu Lei dies, she has every opportunity to take advantage of the legal channels to knock a bamboo lever, she can completely ask the parties for huge mental loss fees, 1 million is not too much!
But Feng Xiaoqin did not, and offered the court a one-yuan mental damage fee as compensation and accepted an apology, which hit Gu Qingyu's condescending, self-righteous face fiercely.
In fact, Feng Xiaoqin really just wanted to ask for an explanation and an apology for her dead husband, that's all, after everyone compensated ten thousand yuan, which she deserved, she didn't take it, although she regretted it afterwards, because she knew very well that her husband was gone, and the Gu family's concerns and precautions for themselves were even worse, and they might even be swept out of the house, and they didn't have a job.
Therefore, Feng Xiaoqin told her girlfriend: If the Gu family really drives her away, she will sleep on the street every minute!
It can only be said that people are self-aware! At this time, Feng Xiaoqin really deserves everyone's sympathy and pity!
For Feng Xiaoqin, it can only be said that buying a house is greedy, one yard is one yard, human nature has always been like this, in fact, Feng Xiaoqin is not so bad, why should she buy a house? Let me ask you, does the house mean anything to her Feng Xiaoqin? For women, it symbolizes the "reassuring pill", especially for women from other places, it is also a kind of catharsis for the "free nanny" life that has been working day and night for 8 years, to be precise, she is not buying a house, but buying her own precious dignity and security.
In fact, in a sense, the Gu family has long been inseparable from Feng Xiaoqin, although on the surface they don't like her, in fact, they are used to Feng Xiaoqin's care, so they did not sweep her out of the house, and Feng Xiaoqin, the outbreak broke out, although the Gu family still has prejudice and hatred for themselves, when she eased up, she was still willing to take care of the family dutifully.
Look at it this way
In this way, I suddenly don't hate Feng Xiaoqin so much!
In the final analysis, who is the real "culprit" who caused Gu Lei's death?
Obviously, after the accident, almost everyone thought that Feng Xiaoqin killed Gu Lei, and she was the murderer!
But is this really the case?
Why did Sister Gu Qingyu accuse Feng Xiaoqin so bluntly, but she didn't have the slightest sense of guilt?
And Feng Xiaoqin accused Gu Qingyu: Killing people does not see blood!
Gu Qingyu always stands on the moral high ground, with a hostile posture to examine the demands of his sister-in-law, never looked at her squarely, and Feng Xiaoqin can say Gu Qingyu's pain, indicating that she is not an idle person, two women, you scare me, I scare you, gunpowder taste is unprecedented, Gu Lei's departure, let the family into a crisis.
I just want to say that people are gone, why should women be embarrassed by women?
In Feng Xiaoqin's eyes, what kind of attitude the eldest sister has toward herself, Feng Xiaoqin knows better than anyone, in the past 8 years, it is too small to cook and not to brush the dishes, to hinder the purchase of a house, it can be said that Gu Qingyu will be Feng Xiaoqin's mind, feel through.
His husband must listen to Gu Qingyu for big things and small things, the whole family must take care of Qingyu's face, the Gu family has a small meeting, Feng Xiaoqin can turn a blind eye, but again and again, again and again, pointing out his marriage with her husband, and defending herself openly and honestly like a thief, and then a tolerant woman can't stand the analysis of Gu Qingyu who is overly shrewd.
Rather than "analyzing" Feng Xiaoqin, it is better to indirectly provoke the relationship between the husband and wife, on the surface, Feng Xiaoqin is angry with Gu Lei, but in fact, it is Gu Qingyu and Gonggong who are angry.
Therefore, let the younger brother become a "sandwich biscuit" for the two difficulties, so Gu Lei's death, Gu Qingyu has an unshirkable responsibility!
03 Looking back at the people in the play, Gu Dad is the wisest person, which can be called the "soberness of the world" in the play!
I know that you are making big decisions in the company, you can analyze everything rationally, good things and bad things you can put on the table to talk about, you are smart, clean and neat, this is your advantage, but we are living at home, can not be so clear, you keep forcing others, in turn is forcing yourself!
The old man's words hit not only Gu Qingyu's face, but also himself!
In fact, for the view of marriage, Gu Qingyu is always just a paper soldier, always using what she thinks is a black and white attitude to deal with the marriage of her brother and daughter-in-law, which has touched the bottom line of normal family getting along, and what is even more ridiculous is that she herself has not really experienced marriage!
Gu Dad is right, Gu Qingyu mistakenly applied the principles of the workplace to the family, so it caused Gu Lei's tragedy.
Why is it said that Gu Dad is the wisest person in the play?
After Gu Lei's death, Gu Qingyu began to "analyze and brainwash" his father according to his own ideas, ignoring the pain of the old man's loss of his son, and reminding his father of the possibility of feng Xiaoqin's remarriage.
At this moment, the old man finally couldn't help but get angry with his daughter: If you hadn't given Gu Lei an analysis one by one, Gu Lei would have been...
The old man's reaction surprised and sad Gu Qingyu, not really blaming his daughter's reminder and analysis, but his rational choice after careful consideration.
Gu Shihong (Gu Dad) knows that if he still listens to the woman at this time
Son, with her to calculate Feng Xiaoqin, what will be the consequences, and the final result is what he expects?
1. Obviously not, if Feng Xiaoqin is forced to go nowhere, then Feng Xiaoqin is indifferent, the worst thing is to pat his ass and leave, then his grandson will also go with him, the result of this fish death net is what he does not want to see, his son has just passed away, his grandson will also leave him, the blow of flesh and bones, how can the old man bear it?
2. Moreover, Feng Xiaoqin is the child's biological mother after all, if Feng Xiaoqin pities him and is willing to leave the little tiger, although Gu Qingyu will provide the little tiger's tuition and living expenses, and give him a worry-free life, but the little tiger who has "no" parents since childhood will really grow up happily?
3. Moreover, the normal life of a family is inseparable from Feng Xiaoqin's work and care...
For the happiness of the little tiger, but also for his own selfishness, Gu Shihong is more aware of the relationship here, so the departure of his son cannot and does not allow Feng Xiaoqin to be blamed.
I have to say that the old man is the real wise man!
The tragedy of Gu Lei and the shrewdness of Gu Qingyu tell us a very simple truth:
Husband and wife married life, outsiders are less mixed, even if they are re-relatives, if they have to shoot, they must be persuaded and not persuaded to leave.
Remember, everything has a degree, please be merciful, shrewd too much, it is a big tragedy and joke!