Yunyun's grandmother is an old man with a bit of a patriarchal mentality, but because of her 5-year-old granddaughter Yunyun, she has changed. In Grandma's heart, Grandma prefers her 5-year-old granddaughter Yunyun to her own grandson.
Why would a grandmother with a patriarchal mindset prefer her granddaughter to her own grandson?
Because Yunyun is not only smart, well-behaved, sensible, has a high emotional intelligence, but also very intimate and likeable. Every time Yunyun came to Grandma's house, she would not only bring tea and water to Grandma, but also rub her shoulders and pound her legs when she was tired. On weekdays, she would also help play with her three-year-old cousin, which made my grandmother feel a lot of worry.
Not only that, Yunyun is also a famous pistachio in the family, no matter where you go, you can bring a piece of laughter, and every time you go to your grandmother's house, you can always make your grandmother smile and close your mouth.
On the other hand, his grandson, because the old man is too spoiled, the grandson is not only domineering and arbitrary, but also always does something that gives the old man a headache. In contrast, the intimate granddaughter is more able to please the elderly. Although the old man has a little preference for sons and daughters, he still can't help but like his granddaughter Yunyun.
The reason why Yunyun can be so well-behaved and sensible, with high emotional intelligence, is entirely due to her mother's cultivation!
How did Yunyun's mother cultivate such a high emotional intelligence daughter? The educational method of Yunyun Mom is not complicated, but it is done in two aspects under the guidance of the nursery teacher.
Insist on talking with your child every day
Although Yunyun Mom is not at work, mainly responsible for taking care of the children, but Yunyun Mom also has her own affairs, because Yunyun Mom is a freelancer, in addition to taking care of the children's food and living every day, but also busy with some of their own other work, like most parents, the time spent with their children is not very much.
But unlike other parents, no matter how busy and how busy she is every day, she will take at least an hour to talk with her children!
Although at the beginning, Yunyun was like many children, he was not good at talking, and did not know how to express, there were many things he wanted to say, but he did not know how to express them. As the time for Yunyun's mother to chat with her children increased, Yunyun slowly opened her heart, and Yunyun's words also increased, and she was willing to talk to her mother.
As a result, Yunyun and her mother have nothing to talk about, everything will be said to her mother, her mother will listen patiently, and when she encounters happy things, the two people will laugh together; when encountering unhappy things, Yunyun's mother will continue to comfort and guide in time!
Slowly Yunyun not only became cheerful, but also willing to communicate with her mother, and regarded communicating with her mother as a very happy thing.
Although there may not be much time to really play with Yunyun every day, Baoyun will take an hour every day to chat or play with Yunyun, which also makes Yunyun feel her mother's love for her.
Insist on reading every night before bedtime
In addition to talking with her children every day, Yunyun mothers also have a must-do thing, that is, to accompany their children to read with their children before going to bed.
It is precisely because of this habit that Yunyun has developed a very good sleep habit and went to bed early. Usually telling a bedtime story for about half an hour, Yunyun fell asleep. After Yunyun got up early and went to sleep, Yunyun's mother also had more time to busy her own affairs.
Yunyun mother accompanies the child to read parent-child, which can make the child learn a lot of knowledge when listening to the story. For example, how to get along with friends, how to treat people, how to control their emotions, and how to help children develop good behavior habits... These can be learned from these picture books.
Reading with children at night, the child's heart is more peaceful, more focused, and easier to concentrate.
Therefore, after Yunyun's mother told her children more than three years of bedtime enlightenment stories, many stories yunyun could recite them by themselves, and sometimes they would compete to tell stories to their mothers, and they also told them with sound and color, plus some of their own small expressions and small actions, which were more vivid and cute.
It is precisely because Yunyun's mother has been reading with Yunyun for a long time, which has gradually improved the child's emotional intelligence. It also improves Yunyun's memory, language expression ability, and improves Yunyun's vocabulary.
When her daughter Yunyun does not brush her teeth and wash her face on time, Yunyun's mother will tell the story of the little lion who does not like to brush her teeth. Then ask Yunyun, do you want to smoke the children down like a little lion who doesn't like to brush your teeth, and then no friends want you to watch you play together? Whenever it comes to this time, Yunyun will consciously run to brush her teeth.
When YunYun is not serious about reading, her mother will tell Yunyun the story of kitten fishing. Then I asked Yunyun if she wanted to be the kitten who finally caught the big fish, or did she want to be a kitten who didn't catch any fish in her heart? Yunyun will definitely answer decisively, wanting to become a kitten who catches big fish, and then guide step by step.
In this way, when encountering many problems in life, Yunyun's mother will use the stories in the picture book to guide and help Yunyun make the right choice.