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Menstruation represents the little girl becoming a big girl, and for girls, menstruation is a very important node!
A flower girl's path to study was interrupted due to a menstrual holiday
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Yunyun is a left-behind child, her parents working in Shanghai, and she lives with her grandparents in her hometown in Hunan.
Every day, Yunyun only cooks, and usually goes with her grandmother to do farm work in the field during the holidays, so Yunyun has been a very sensible child since childhood!
Grandma is relatively silent, and she is not very good at educating children, and she has never mentioned the physiological characteristics of girls to Yunyun.
In the first year of junior high school, Yunyun went to the school to live in the school and went home once a week.
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Once, when she was in school, Yunyun suddenly came to menstruation, and she found that her white pants were all red, and Yunyun was very nervous, thinking that she had some serious illness.
Just behind Yunyun sat a few male classmates, when Yunyun stood up, several male classmates saw a piece of red on their pants!
One of the male classmates with bad eyes said that Xu Xiaoyun was bleeding, was she pregnant and miscarried?
This bad-eyed male classmate once wrote a love letter to Yunyun, but Yunyun did not give him any response, so he just seized the opportunity to fool around, and other male classmates also followed suit!
Yunyun was scared to cry, fortunately, there was a female classmate next to the class who had come to the menstrual holiday, pulled Yunyun back to the dormitory, gave Yunyun a sanitary napkin, told her that this was a menstrual holiday, and she had to put on a sanitary napkin!
This classmate also said that girls are really too troublesome, and they have to buy sanitary napkins when their stomach hurts during menstruation!
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Yunyun herself is also ignorant, she does not know what the menstrual holiday is, hearing her classmates say that this is a very troublesome thing, she is very sad in her heart.
Because she is a left-behind child, her mother is not around, and her grandmother has her own things to do, so Yunyun is most afraid of causing trouble to others.
When I went to class in the afternoon, the male classmates in the back were still whispering, and they were still saying that Yunyun must have had a miscarriage of her boyfriend!
Because of the addition of oil and vinegar by male classmates, many students have caused many students to think that Yunyun is really having a boyfriend and has a miscarriage of pregnancy.
Yunyun feels aggrieved and sad in her heart, but there is no one to talk to, usually she does not communicate much with her grandmother, and then the inner pressure is too great, resulting in Yunyun's soul in class every day, and she does not think about tea, does not want to eat, and cannot sleep at night.
The class teacher found that Yunyun was wrong, so he called his mother, and his mother took Yunyun to the hospital for examination, and found that he had suffered from severe depression, and the doctor suggested that he take a leave of absence at home.
Just because parents did not give their children the knowledge of science holidays in time, because of the bad eyes of their classmates, resulting in a young girl with a colorful age, they dropped out of school.
When a girl comes to menstruation, the mother should tell the child 5 things, which will benefit the child
Item 1: It's a good thing to tell your child to menstruate
Many people think that menstruation is a troublesome thing, stomach pain, and then blood.
But for girls, menstruation actually means that she has grown up, which means that she has become a real girl.
The more positive our mother's evaluation of menstruation, the more calmly our children are when facing menstruation.
Item 2: Pay attention to protecting yourself
Girls menstruating means having fertility, so after menstruation, they should be more clean and self-sufficient, and if they get pregnant at a young age, it is a big stain on the child's life.
Item 3: Pay attention to a healthy diet during menstruation
When menstruating, some girls will feel stomach pain, and some may feel dizzy, so during menstruation, pay attention to eat nutritious food, eat more meat, vegetables, fruits, and eat less cold food.
When your stomach hurts, you can put a hot water bottle on your stomach or drink more hot water.
Item 4: Proper use of sanitary napkins
When menstruating, it is necessary to replace the sanitary napkin in time, and when the amount is large, it is necessary to replace a tablet in half an hour, and if the amount is smaller, it is also necessary to replace a tablet in 3 to 4 hours.
Do not change a sanitary napkin for a day because the amount is less, but it will breed bacteria, which is not conducive to the health of the body.
Item 5: Wear your bra correctly
When menstruation comes, the chest will generally mature, so the mother should buy a suitable bra for the child and teach the child to learn to wear a bra.
After the menstrual period, the child will have a variety of physical problems, psychological problems, and the mother also needs to pay attention.
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