There are usually two kinds of feelings between the opposite sex, one is a couple with a heart to heart, and the other is the most ordinary friendship relationship, and there are few red-faced confidants between the two.
Or you would say that there is pure friendship between men and women, and not all of them can develop into lovers, but they are one level closer to each other than ordinary friends.
But to be honest, the longer two unrelated men and women spend together, especially if they will say some heartfelt words to each other, when each other's hearts get closer and closer, it is difficult to maintain the most ordinary relationship.
If you don't want to be a couple, then keep a little distance and be the purest friend, instead of doing something unremarkable with each other, saying some non-marginal language, and slowly your relationship will no longer be simple.
If the opposite sex has said these 3 words, the relationship will sooner or later "cross the line", don't take it seriously!
01
Often speak some ambiguous language
This situation is relatively common, originally thought to be some joke, but in the case of unrelated people, it may not sound like such a thing.
For example, you'll often say something like, "I actually like you like this," or "If I didn't have someone, I'd choose you."
Maybe you think it's just a joke between friends, but the more this kind of ambiguous language is said, it's less pure, and even if you want to keep it pure, the other person's thinking may have changed long ago.
After all, if you are just an ordinary friend, it is impossible to say some ambiguous things often, so that the other party sounds a little interesting, but he will not go one step further, and your relationship has become a mystery.
Sometimes, the transgression between the opposite sex, that is, from these jokes, step by step escalation, if you do not want to cross the line, it is still necessary to pay attention to each other's words and deeds, do not have a transgression.
02
They will share their inner secrets with each other
I believe that everyone will have some secrets in their hearts, which is not enough for outsiders, even if he wants to say it, he will find the closest people to tell.
If one day, he is willing to share his innermost secrets with you, it is a manifestation of his complete trust in you, of course, ordinary friends can also share, but believe that in his heart, you are not an ordinary friend, but a closer confidant.
Only by treating you as the most trusted person can he fully open his heart, say something that he usually does not say to outsiders, and pour out some deep secrets in his heart.
It is not easy to do this, people in modern society are used to hiding, will not easily expose their own hearts, and only treat you as a confidant, he will do this.
So, if you don't want your relationship to deteriorate, don't share your inner secrets too often, the more you share, the more you feel differently.
03
Willing to nag with each other on a daily basis
Maybe you will feel that everyone is a friend, talking about the current situation together, talking about each other's daily life, this is a normal thing, but everything should have a degree, once beyond this degree, the relationship is no longer simple.
If the other party is willing to nag you about daily life and share some of the no-no, it means that he regards you as a very close friend in his heart, at least deeper than the feelings of ordinary friends.
Otherwise, he wouldn't have talked about some parents, which are not important, but when he is willing to share them with you, they become very important.
If two people want to be very simple friends, or keep more distance, do not often share their daily life together, this will only make others misunderstand.
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Conclusion
Is there pure friendship between the opposite sex? Maybe there are, but relatively few, especially in the process of getting along, once the boundary is crossed, the relationship is no longer simple.
If you want to maintain the relationship of ordinary friends, it is best to grasp a certain measure, do not say what should not be said, and do not make words and deeds that are not in line with your relationship, only by keeping the boundaries, the relationship can be maintained more purely.
Especially in the case of each having a partner, it is still not advisable to get too close, do not say that you are friends, for a long time, no one can say what the relationship is.
Everyone should have a bottom line in the relationship, this is the responsible attitude, I hope everyone can have some understanding!