Everyone hopes to harvest a true feeling in the relationship, especially for women, and what they want more is that the other party continues to pay sincerity.
But in this process, many women have used the wrong way, she thinks that only by being humble and pleasing to a person can he always love himself deeply, even if he does not love for a while, he can also be moved.
This is not the case, if a man does not love you, no matter how much you please, it will not help, and even make the other party bored, think you are too impersonal.
In fact, what a man wants is not a humble and flattering woman, but a person who understands him, to put it bluntly, that is, to be able to understand him and support him, not that he says that you don't understand anything, and what he does you oppose.
In fact, it is easy to love a person, it is much more difficult to understand a person, after all, to be synchronized with the other party, it is not that it can be done with one word, but to understand him from the depths of the heart and understand him.
Therefore, if you want a man to continue to pay sincerity, not to humble and please, but to achieve "three understandings", when you do this, he will naturally love you more.
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Understand his language
Two people get along, the most feared thing is that there is nothing to say, even together, it is also a mobile phone to play with each other, there is no word, such a relationship is also very embarrassing.
Maybe in the past process of getting along, he also tried to communicate with you, but every time he said something you didn't understand, and even felt that his words were redundant, then slowly he didn't want to share anymore, preferring to live in his own world.
Therefore, you must learn to understand him, to understand his language, even if you do not understand, but you are willing to listen, willing to give him comfort, he will feel very warm.
Instead of what he said, you didn't listen to it, and even thought that what he said was all nonsense, then how dare he speak your inner language?
02
Understand his thoughts
It's often common to hear people talk about "soul mates", which is actually looking for someone who understands themselves, and think about it, you don't need to say anything, you just need a look to understand each other's intentions, how rare it is!
Men have always been reticent, but this does not mean that he has no heart, but he chooses not to say, if at this time you can understand his heart, and send comfort at the right time, it will make him feel warm and happy.
He will feel fortunate to have you around, so that he is no longer alone, even if there are so many things on his mind, as long as he looks at you and is with you, those things are gone, and only the good is left.
If you keep talking about it when he is very worried, then I believe that he will be irritable in his heart and will not even want to be in a space with you.
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Understand his troubles
Even the strongest man will have a vulnerable side, he is not without troubles, but hides the troubles in his heart, leaving only the happy side to you.
Some women are more retarded, or not so considerate, so when men are very annoyed, she will also ask the other party to accompany her very ignorantly, and even do something that the other party does not want to do.
Maybe he won't express his dissatisfaction, but he will also feel tired inside, at this time, what he needs most is the understanding of women, or needs a quiet rest, rather than you have been noisy to let him accompany you.
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Conclusion
In a relationship, understanding is more important than love, and understanding is the warmest language in the world.
Sometimes, it doesn't need you to say anything more, just a word of affirmation from you, just a gentle encouragement from you, and he will be full of motivation and feel that you understand him.
What a man needs most is a woman's understanding, and if you don't understand him and are unwilling to support him, then he will feel that it is wrong to be with you, and he does not want to cherish the days with you.
If you want a man to continue to give his heart, then try to read him, give him understanding, give him tolerance, believe that he can feel your tenderness and honey, and believe that he will always be willing to love you.