Author: Rui Mama
Source| Parents' Must Read (ID: jiazhangbid)
IQ determines people's ability to learn, and whether children are smart or not is one of the most concerned issues for parents.
If the child has the following 6 kinds of performance, it may be very high IQ, parents must not ignore, good guidance may have a great future in the future!
01
Love to laugh
It is said that "children who love to laugh will not be too lucky". Laughter is the most beautiful language in the world.
Some experts say that people's IQ will increase when they are happy. Laughter is good for brain development, and pleasant emotions can make children quickly receive new things.
After systematically studying the relationship between age and intelligence, American medical experts concluded that children with high IQs laugh at external things earlier and more often than the average child.
Babies 2-3 months old will laugh when they are teased by their parents, which is called an innocent happy reaction.
This is the first step in the baby's interaction with the outside world, and it is also a leap in psychological development, which is a beneficial stimulus for brain development, known as "a ray of wisdom".
Therefore, parents must seize this "dawn" in time to let the baby grow up in happiness, which is also an effective way for early intellectual development.
02
Love to ask questions
Mom, where did I come from?
Mom, why does it rain in the sky?
Mom, why does the sky thunder?
Mom, why can birds fly in the sky and we can't?
Mom Mom....
Does your family also have a baby who loves to ask questions like this?
Sometimes I am annoyed by the child's questioning, and I can't help but yell back a sentence of "Why is there so much!" ”
We find our children annoyed, first because we are impatient, and second, because we don't know the answer ourselves.
In fact, children love to ask questions, which is a good thing.
Children who love to ask questions have extraordinary curiosity, and they must ask questions about the problems they don't understand until they understand.
Maybe to others, this kind of child is a "small talker".
But from another point of view, this kind of child is quick-witted, has a strong sense of observation of the things around him, and can think and find answers by asking questions.
Therefore, parents should not be afraid of their children asking questions, and children who love to ask questions are smarter!
03
Love to imitate
Babies begin to make simple imitations of the people around them from birth, and the expressions of parents and mothers, the tone of speech, and the habits of life will have a direct impact on children.
Children learn and recognize external things through imitation. Neurophysiologists say that the stronger the imitation ability of children, the more developed the brain.
In daily life, the object of children's imitation is the parent. Therefore, the pictogram of the parent is crucial to the child.
Parents must read what Teacher Tian Xian said:
In order to cultivate excellent children, parents must first set a positive example for their children, so that children can subtly develop good habits and establish correct three views in the process of imitating their parents.
04
Imagination is abundant
Imagination is an indispensable thinking ability for us. The richer the imagination, the more active the brain becomes.
Imaginative children often tell some wild stories. Even if you see a few toys and a few animals, you will automatically make up a thrilling adventure story.
It turns out that children with rich imaginations are also more creative. Creative work such as writing, painting, and inventing usually requires the formation of pictures in the mind and then expressed through words or other forms.
A world without imagination is colorless.
In parent-child education, parents can cultivate their children's imagination through storytelling and reading picture books, while electronic products such as television and mobile phones will greatly inhibit children's imagination and let their thinking be confined to a fixed picture frame.
The more electronic products you come into contact with, the greater the impact on your child's brain development.
So, for the sake of your children's future, please put down your mobile phone and take them to nature to feel the adventure, which will definitely benefit your child immensely!
05
Love to dictate to others
Some children have been "child kings" since childhood, like to be in the limelight, and love to give orders to others. And this kind of child is very trusted by children and always likes to play with him.
Some parents will worry that children who love to be strong from childhood will become small overlords when they grow up, and it is difficult to discipline. However, from another point of view, this kind of child's organizational ability and management ability are very strong, which is exactly the potential that a leader needs.
Therefore, this kind of child needs more guidance from his parents, tell him what he can do and what he can't do, let the child distinguish between right and wrong from an early age, and prevent misdirection.
06
Do your own thing
In life, we often see three- and four-year-old children playing in the front, and a parent following behind, taking advantage of the fact that the children are not paying attention.
This kind of life of "clothes to reach out, food to open mouths" will only reduce the child's independence, resulting in the child's dependence on parents, lazy personality.
I once saw a video of an 18-month-old American boy who is not yet walking steadily, but he can already dress and wash himself.
In fact, sometimes it is not that children cannot be separated from their parents, but that parents think of their children too weakly.
The child has to eat by himself, and the parents are afraid that the child will spill the meal everywhere and insist on feeding it himself.
The child has to go down the stairs by himself, and the parents are afraid that he will fall, so they must personally hold him down.
The child wants to dress himself, and he thinks that he is not wearing it well, so he quickly puts it on.
Doing your own thing is the first step to a child's independence and the beginning of self-awareness. The sooner this independence comes, the more conducive it is to the child's development.
Of course, this premise is that what the child does is not dangerous and within the controllable range. In some dangerous occasions, such as on the road, even if the child cries and wants to go on his own, he must cling to it and not let go.
A person's IQ, in addition to genetic factors, is also closely related to the acquired growth environment and family education. We cannot change the laws of nature, but we can change the way education is conducted.
Give the child more patience and companionship, let him grow up in a loving family, even if the child can not stand at the top of the pyramid in the future, as long as we have worked hard, there will be no regrets in life.