Parents' discipline of children is not always moderate.
Today's children always give parents a headache, more fear of children, less worry about children going astray. But after parents see that their children have made mistakes, out of conscience, how can they sit idly by?
Therefore, the degree of discipline has become a difficult point, and some parents are fearless and follow their own ideas, regardless of their children's thoughts. Others tiptoe around and wait for feedback from your child to plan for the next step.
Stick ideas are increasingly not favored by contemporary parents
Children are more precocious, and violence doesn't solve everything
Children who grow up in modern society, on the one hand, are affected by the exposure to information, and they become very deep in the city at a young age. It is always possible to speak amazingly, giving parents a feeling of eccentricity and small ghosts.
On the other hand, because various additives and hormones are added to the food, the child is precocious, not only the physical aspect, but also the mental aspect is also affected. This is something that parents cannot avoid and cannot control.
Therefore, in the past, stick education was only aimed at children with immature minds, and it did not make sense to reason with them, and they could only use "simple and efficient" violence to win. But today's children are mature enough to understand the truth, and there is no need to use violence at all.
After the use of violence, the psychological damage to the child is great
Every time they see such remarks, parents will become angry, they have grown up from a young age, they are also children, why are the children now so squeamish, and the children of the past did not need parents to bother so much?
In the past, the children who were not raised from childhood did not see which child had psychological problems, and now the children are autistic and depressed at every turn, and it is really a test for parents! Perhaps it is that parents care too much about their children, which will make their children more sensitive.
But even so, in some ways, when parents should discipline their children, they should not slack off in the slightest, not only for the better development of children, but also for the impact on children's IQ development is also very important.
Before the child is 6 years old, the parents "manage" the child in 3 aspects, and the baby's IQ may become higher
Get your child moving
When it comes to exercise, we all know that it helps children grow up, because there is a fountain point under the foot, and more stimulation of this acupuncture point helps the brain to secrete growth hormone, which is of great help for business development.
In addition, more exercise is more helpful for children's brain development, such as helping brain neurons grow, releasing unnecessary stress signals, and mobilizing more neurons to adjust. There is also the increase in oxygen levels in the brain.
When exercising, the blood flows more smoothly, the ability to carry oxygen is stronger, and the natural transportation of oxygen to the brain will also increase. Facilitates the development and growth of the brain without any restrictions.
Get enough sleep
Sleeping plays a very important role in children before the age of 6, after all, after the child goes to primary school, the academic pressure rises sharply, and sometimes even if the child wants to sleep enough, it is difficult to achieve.
In this way, parents should grasp the time before the child goes to school, let the child develop a regular sleep and biological clock, after all, sleep for the child, baili and harmless, but also another way to help the child grow.
But what parents should pay attention to is that the child's mood before sleep is very important, try not to let the child fall asleep angry or cry, even if it is asleep, in the dream will also be affected by sad emotions.
Make it a habit to read
When children are just exposed to picture books, their acceptance of picture books is very high, they think that picture books are very interesting, the pictures are rich and colorful, and they can also promote parent-child relationships, which simply has no shortcomings.
But as children grow up, more and more children no longer like to read, and even see books will hide far away, and when they go to school, the performance of boredom and abandonment of school often occurs.
Isn't this because children are bored reading? If parents can think of guidance methods and reward mechanisms, it is not difficult for children to fall in love with reading.
Today's summary:
Do you focus on raising your children in these three aspects? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!