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Zi Chen downstairs is a 6-year-old cute boy, usually very smart, but also very naughty, his father is an armed policeman, usually say one thing, with his son, often is the thunder of the sky to hook the fire!
Zi Chen was too naughty one night, Zi Chen's father couldn't bear it, he said in the group, wait a minute I will beat my son, may cry loudly, affecting everyone's rest, as soon as possible to fight faster.
Don't make him a meal, he doesn't know no rules and no squares, thank you for understanding!
I didn't expect that the neighbor below actually let him open the live broadcast, and the neighbor said that I also beat my son and added me.
Hitting children is a means for parents to educate their children, and it has even become an indispensable means for many parents.
A Swiss psychologist did an experiment on spanking: a child who had average academic performance, after being spanked, his memory increased by 35%!
Psychologist Hines found that when a child is spanked, the body will secrete adrenaline, and in order to alleviate the pain of being spanked, the human body will secrete endorphins, and the combination of adrenaline and endorphins can stimulate the child's potential, so the child's memory becomes stronger!
But I was skeptical of this study, first of all he studied too few cases, just a child, and spanking a child's ass is more harmful than beneficial.
Do you know the harm to educating children with spanking?
★ Children have a maximum reduction in IQ of 28 points
There's an article in Popular Psychology in 2021, do you know why you're sad right now? Because you got a board on your ass when you were a kid.
As mentioned above, a 4-year follow-up study of 1510 children aged 2 to 9 years showed that children who did not suffer corporal punishment had IQ levels 5 to 28 points higher than children who were often beaten!
51 countries around the world have explicitly banned spanking!
Many parents feel that spanking their children's butts is painless and itchy, but they don't know that it may cause their children to become stupid!
★ Children who are often spanked are more likely to develop mental illness
The United States released a 50-year study, university of Texas researcher Elizabeth Gershoff said: "The more you are beaten as a child, the more likely you are to develop antisocial behavior and suffer from mental illness in adulthood."
★ Children are often spanked and have low self-esteem in adulthood
Children are often spanked, which is actually a bad childhood experience, a kind of physical and mental abuse for children.
When he was a child, he was often spanked, and he was very sad and inferior in his heart, and he also felt that he was not liked by his parents, so he was often spanked.
★ Children who are spanked as children grow up to be spanked by their parents
Domestic violence will be passed down from generation to generation, how their parents educated themselves when they were young, and it is easy to engrave this model in their minds when they grow up and educate their children.
★ Spanking can cause necrotizing inflammation
Severe spanking can lead to hematoma near the buttocks, poor blood circulation, and necrotizing inflammation.
A few years ago, there was a single father in Xuzhou, Jiangsu Province, who knew that his child was disobedient in kindergarten, so he waved a wooden stick and beat the child's ass.
When the child was called up to go to school the next morning, he found that the child had died of exhaustion, and the doctor's examination found that it was caused by necrotizing inflammation.
★ Spanking can cause kidney damage
Your child's ass is very close to the kidney, and if you are spanking, a little higher may hit the kidney.
Your child's organs are delicate and can easily lead to damage.
In addition to the child's ass can not be beaten, these three parts should not be beaten, otherwise the injury is the baby
The first part: the back of the head
Your child's brain is developing, and hitting the back of your child's head may cause a concussion or even cerebral hemorrhage, and in severe cases your child may be paralyzed.
The second part: slap
Slapping is a common educational method for many parents.
As everyone knows, parents have great strength, and slapping children may cause perforation of children's eardrums and affect children's hearing.
The third part: the back
There are a lot of organs in the back of the child, and hitting the child's back may cause damage to the spleen and kidneys. It is also possible to injure your child's spine with excessive force, which can have irreparable consequences if injured.
So stop hitting the kids.
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